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31 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:19am
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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primarily i'd say i'm an anarchist, a feminist, and a hedonist. i'm also a punk and a mixed-race baby. i am fucking stoked on life, and i like surrounding myself with people who feel likewise. i laugh often and with abandon. i love going to shows and parties, running around and being wild. i am also very heart-centered, and try to take great care with/of my friends and family. to quote a friend, i try to be "carefree without being careless". that about sums it up.
What I’m doing with my life
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gone til the spring! working and traveling . . . so I won't be available for the romance. but good luck out there, y'all, it's a great big world.

i'm an apprentice carpenter - crazy! i still can't believe it, but i must say i am quite pleased with myself. i don't want to be a master carpenter, but i've enjoyed myself so far and have fantasies of building my own home someday. mostly i'd like to figure out what it might mean to be a radical carpenter.

i'm finally learning to drive, and am prioritizing sci-fi and fantasy on my reading lists.

i guess i'm just trying to have as much fun and learn as much as i can before i kick the bucket.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
hand games
cutting through the bullshit
foot dance with hottwitch4u
prank wars
racking up library fines
The first things people usually notice about me
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probably my friendliness and out-going manner, unless you meet me in the middle of a project, then i think i have the tendency to be quite brusque. if it's in the summer, it's probably my chest piece, if it's at a party or show you'll probably notice that i'm wild and free! or off my rocker, however you're usually inclined to think about things. i recently asked a friend what they thought, to which they replied, "that you look crazy and are brandishing a knife". i must admit that tickled me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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my favorite music is live, local and free!

my favorite books are from the library! and are mostly fiction with strong female protagonists, although i've been reading a lot of sustainable building and small home construction books this past year.

i love the matrix. and gattaca.

and i love foodstamps! ;) also, i've gone sugar and gluten free (except for when i'm drunk). god's below! what the fuck is happening to me?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my bike
my friends
my sense of self

and not to sound like an asshole, but . . .

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
anti-oppression, identity politics, accountability processes, scams, how much money would it take to build a house and how much space would i need to feel happy in?, could i get away with this, and if i get caught how soon til i can do it again?, striving to be compassionate and empathetic in a violent world, the human need to connect, how fucked up everything is, how much i love being alive.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
blacked out, fighting posers.

jk! haha, i just thought that was funny . . . and i haven't done that in a looooong time . . . .

but really . . .

going to bed early cuz i have to get up at 5am for work the next day. ha!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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ssshhhhh . . . i don't even know all my secrets.
You should message me if
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.you only live once.