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espressoczar

35 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:56pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, Pacific Islander
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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This is a rather difficult section to complete although:

My screen name comes from a very brief shot of a character in a movie where new characters appear at regular intervals without ever seeing or returning to them again. Conspiracy a-Go-Go was too long of a name...

If you know the name of the movie, extra kudos to you.

I can be a very social animal in the right setting while at other times embracing the downright solitude of a writer. I don't like clubs or noisy restaurants. I like dive bars and whiskey. I'm not very outdoorsy or into rock-climbing. I don't own hiking boots, but I do have a pair of running shoes. I think selfies (or the word "selfie") are going to be one of those things that, in future decades, is going to be looked back upon with embarrassment along with wearing pajamas in public and a number of tech-related pastimes of which I haven't used. Or they'll be things like "sleeping selfies." or "having over (insert number) friends on Facebook" or "car selfies?" or just "Facebook." The people that make those lists are elitists anyway. Humor is where I have fun, and sometimes I just think out loud.
What I’m doing with my life
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Just started a new job working with youth at a nonprofit. Saving money to go to an MFA Screenwriting Program.

Writing. Taking less career risks (but hell they may have been worth it)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
staring at an empty screen for hours and then writing mumbo jumbo.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not sure. Maybe my honesty.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I should be reading more, but I would have to say the Cahiers du Cinema, Hemingway, Twain, good screenplays, technics (philosophy of technology). Being and Nothingness. Currently reading A Confederacy of Dunces.

Richard Linklater movies (The Before Trilogy is a guilty pleasure): I love his films because they all have a time element involved. Many of them take place in the span of 24 hours and are full of philosophical and strange conversations. The plots are minimal and the themes are strong. Linklater films are independent, so he usually gets to make them his way.

Paul Thomas Anderson (The Master, Boogie Knights, Magnolia): I love PTA films because the stories are original and they move with a visceral energy similar to Scorsese films. They are beautiful to watch and provide wonderful insights into characters. His films are consummately angst-ridden.

Jim Jarmusch (Stranger Than Paradise, Down By Law): One of the masters of American independent cinema, Jarmusch has somehow kept his vision throughout the years.

Martin Scorsese (Goodfellas, Raging Bull, Taxi Driver): His movies are just great.

Drugstore Cowboy: A road movie about pharmaceutical junkies.

Shows: Freaks and Geeks, Parks and Recreation.

Music: Earth, Muse, Stars, Crystal Castles, Pavement, The Beatles.

Food: Japanese, Vietnamese, Chinese, Ethiopian, Mexican. Burgers and fries will do it for me. I'm good with most foods, but nothing for too long of a time. I'm always up for trying new things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A phone
A book
Movies
Friends
I'll get back to you with the other two.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How large people's television sets have become. How consumers have a fetish for compact technology and how this may backfire and be the downfall of the human workforce when robotics take over.

Also how a lot of women have rock climbing, snowboarding, wedding, and skydiving photos. I've yet to to see hunting, rodeo, golfing, or hockey photos.

How much social status matters in people's dating habits.

How much classism pervades society and how both rich and poor act out their insecurities.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a drink meeting new people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was raised to be kind but I am critical of organized religion.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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The idea of conversation interests you or you want to get to know more about me or if you just feel like it.