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54 Vancouver, British Columbia, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 42–70
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:14am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Dropped out of university
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
How do you summarize a shimmering puddle? Or a dense block of polished walnut? There's a way to navigate these rivers that suddenly clear, noticing the dense granite hovering, hovering with a protective presence. Not cold like granite, either. But warm, friendly and authentic.
What I’m doing with my life
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Noticing the spaces between moments. Walking in gravity. Allowing my shoulders to relax. Listening. More listening. Challenging the way it was. Being clear, then fuzzy, making mistakes. Asking. Telling. Keeping promises. I work in support roles, paid and volunteer, addressing inequities one person at a time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Noticing and cultivating positive energy. Making it fun. Creating safety. Playing scrabble. Animal care.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Quiet, thoughtful me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read everything from Shakespeare to Harriet the Spy, A Wrinkle in Time, to Walter de la Mare. Even Ecclesiastes in the King James Bible. Food is fussy for me, although chicken souvlaki with tzatziki is a favourite.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am determined to learn new skills. Grow into new ways of being. Adapting to change and thriving is my superpower.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how my feet connect to the ground, and it's more feeling into it than really cognitive activity.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical Friday night. Friends, meditation circles and family commitments happen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't know what a good response to this section looks like.
You should message me if
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My words make you want to read more. If you have lots to say in response about time, space, poetry, and complexities that defy description. If you want to explore ideas, and are open to points of view.