Down-to-earth, laid back, fun-loving, intelligent, compassionate,
with a sense of humor that ranges from dry and witty, to downright
silly. I love the little things in life, from the giggles and smile
of a toddler, the smell of fresh cookies baking in the oven, the
awesome colors of a summer sunset, to the sound of the driving rain
during a thunderstorm. I‘m a decent cook, especially of comfort
foods, and have a knack of adding a little subtle twist to make a
dish uniquely mine. My girls (they’re 28 and 24) tell me I bake an
unbelievable cinnamon-oatmeal-raisin cookie around the holidays. I
think they taste as great as they sound!
I also am a lover of music and theater. I play an instrument (yes,
I’m proud to say that I was and still am a band nerd) and enjoy
attending events whenever time allows. Whether it is Broadway-style
shows, rock concerts, the symphony, local theater, or marching band
competitions, there’s not much music-wise that I don’t enjoy. Well,
rap, but that doesn’t really count as music, at least not to
Those who know me say that I am very giving of my time, almost to a
fault. I guess that’s a polite way of them telling me I have a hard
time saying no. There’s probably a bit of truth to that. I have
been volunteered for many things in the not too distant past. Chair
a committee. Organize a fundraiser. I was even foreman of the last
jury I served on. It’s very satisfying to me to be able to
contribute, even in a small way, and to be able to impact many
lives in a positive way.
There are a few truisms about life that I have recently discovered.
It brings new adventures to be conquered every day. You can enjoy
almost anything you do, as long as you are with the right person.
It’s easier to be happy with someone else if you’re happy with
yourself first. Life is too short to take everything seriously. A
healthy life means smiling and laughing daily. Inner beauty trumps
outer beauty every single time. And, finally, if you don’t make
time for yourself or for your relationship, then no one will.
So what am I looking for in a potential match? Eventually I’m
looking for the spark to light my fire. A mutual attraction.
Someone with whom I can share common interests as well as develop
new ones. No games. No drama. That special woman who is as
comfortable in sweats cuddled in front of the television with the
lights low as she would be at the theater or out for a nice dinner.
I know that won't be immediate, but I look forward to the
opportunity to converse, meet, go slow, and see where things are
What I’m doing with my life
Working, cooking, cleaning, laundry, you know, the typical
homemaker stuff :-) - actually, although that's really not too far
from the truth. I usually have a project or two going on most of
the time, whether it be a home improvement, personal improvement
('cause I ain't perfect), or just spending time with dogs or
grandkids, or for a special treat, just getting in the car and
seeing where it takes me.
I’m really good at
I'm decent at a lot of things, but really good at? I don't know. A
touch of anal retentiveness at times makes it seem like whatever I
do, I can always do better. I'm a decent cook, a good person, and
an even better listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
Not really sure what they notice, or even what they should notice.
Hope they notice my bright sunny disposition.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Not a big book person, but I enjoy dinner theater, symphonies,
comedies, most music, from Sousa and Styx to Mozart and McCartney,
and as far as food, I pretty much like anything, and am willing to
try almost anything at least once.
TV - my guilty pleasures include Daily Show and Colbert, Animation
Domination, DIY, Discovery, Food Network.
I also like to take in the local sports teams, time and weather
The six things I could never do without
That's a toughie....
In no particular order, family, Reese's Peanut Butter Cups, an
internet connection, clothes (at least in public), my sense of
humor, and the ability to wake up every morning.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I am going to spend the rest of my life, not the details, but
the more general 'what's it hold for me'.
On a typical Friday night I am
Football season finds me at high school games, but rest of the
year, relaxing, cooking out, or contemplating my next road trip to
nowhere in particular.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That'll give us something to talk about :-)
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