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57 M Carlsbad, CA

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Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Icelandic (Fluently), Sanskrit (Fluently), Mongolian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am back here after some time. I am confident, affectionate, passionate, sensual, and loving, love to laugh and make others laugh, I am a non smoker, love good wines fine dining, dining out though I do love to cook and entertain at home. Love to grill! Love to hot tub, lay in the pool, beach, travel, tan, and garden. I am toned and stay in very good shape (work with a trainer). Love movies, reading, writing, good conversation, sleeping in on Sundays with the Sunday paper a big breakfast and good coffee mmmmm. Very romantic I open doors, am a gentleman Just a little rebel in me, but with a very tender loving side and I will go out of my way to rescue a turtle in the road or somebody in need. I Love holidays. I am of Italian and Spanish/Basque descent.

I moved from Tampa Florida 3 years ago back to Southern Cali my home state after being away 24 years with my look alike son 20 who I love dearly, We are close and I have loved raising him. I am in San Diego north county.

I love nature and have respect for it and a love of animals and have a special fondness for dogs. I have a Welsh Corgi , "DANTE" (see photos) sweet and a bit of a toe biter, he gives a little bite with his kisses, where did he learn that? As I stated I really love the beach, travel, or just quality time at home sometimes that in itself can be the best. Fondness for museums, (I have a collection of fossils) art, science, astronomy, football, books and film. I am a huge football fan and love to go to games or watch at home with friends with the right snacks on the big screen. I really do love coffee and like mine sweet with cream.

Speaking of dogs, I have many of the traits you love in your pet dog and lack many of the disadvantages. Like a dog, I am brave, loyal, would die for you, am playful, happy to see you, a steadfast companion happy to take walks with you, unlike your dog, I seldom have fleas, ticks or worms. I never lick my privates, pee or poop in the house, (except in the toilet and I put the seat down and flush) I won't ride your friends legs, and I don't stink when I am wet plus I don't have doggy breath, a hairy back, sharp nails, and my kisses aren't stinky.

Addendum: My photos are current, please note I am not wearing hats to hide a balding dome, or sunglasses to cover that hangover, though I am shirtless in one photo - I am at the beach after all and note, no nipple rings or conjoined twins, goiters or prison tats, third nipples or death skulls and / or tatoos of Satan adorning my torso. Please also note there are no orbs or UFO's in the background or gatherings of end of the world cults.

To encapsulate, I am decisive, confident, chivalrous, attentive, easy going, and take away my flaws......... PERFECT!
What I’m doing with my life
I am writing professionally and acting. I had written a number of screenplays for Showtime TV Series and had steady work now working currently on a movie having recently completed a novel entitled "Lucky Me" .I also have been writing short stories and was given an advance that was exciting. I had been in the biotech industry as an executive
I’m really good at
I love to cook and barbecue, I make great street tacos and stir fry, breakfast is a specialty too, love to entertain.

Writing and acting, they pay me for that, also marketing and managing in biotech and pharmaceuticals I used to do that.

There are other things I am very good at but I'm not putting that here.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and eyes, but then I guess it depends on who is looking and what they are looking at and whether I'm coming or going, hey my eyes are up here! People do always comment,"you work out" When I'm going, all those years on stairmaster ......
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books ; Great Shark Hunt by Hunter S THompson, Hemmingway, Kafka, Stephen King, Edgar Allen Poe, Of Mice and Men,all Steinbeck
Movies:Team America World Police, Godfather, Life of Brian, The Exorcist, Dirty Rotten Scoundrels, Something about Mary, Plan 9 from Outer Space, Monty Python and The Holy Grail, Pulp Fiction, The Unforgiven, The Deer Hunter,
Music: Jazz, Classic Rock, Beatles, Stones, Classical, Chamber
Food: Italian, Mexican- carne asada, potato skins-extra cheese and bacon
TV Dexter, Californication, Daffy Duck - Quack Busters, 6 feet under, world's dumbest, Boxing after Dark on HBO, Pro and College Football, The Office, Smithsonian Channel,-most of History Channel Hairy Bikers? what does that have to do with history?, Curb Your Enthusiasm and of course, Sienfeld.The Walking Dead
The six things I could never do without
laughter-in copious amounts he hee bwahahahaha
The San Diego Chargers/Bucs/Aztec Football
my kids/Family/Friends/Dante the wonder Corgi
Love Number 6 maybe its you and this profile goes down
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My latest plan for Global then intergalactic domination and keeping a sweetheart happy at the same time.

Why so many women out there are taking Pilates classes, how much can you really know about Pontious Pilate and why the fixation on him, what if I said I'm taking Alexander the Great Classes? Yet some take Pilates classes year after year, don't get that.

Do really stupid people know they are stupid and do they dream stupid dreams? Hmmm Hello, Sarah, Sarah Palin, Michele Bachman if you are out there could you respond to this question????

Why do people wear pajamas in public? Another pajama sighting today at Target, are they so freakin lazy they roll out of bed and then go out in public skipping a shower, etc? This one woman had what I hope was peanut butter on her butt, she was in front of me in line. Do they sleep in their clothes at times? Like if they are too freakin lazy to dress for going out are they too lazy to undress at times and just go to bed with their clothes on. Sheesh.

Ugg boots and short shorts, it looks so freakin stupid warm wear for feet while being nearly naked but if the girl is a Betty, she can pull it off. at home though panties and uggs are hot.

Addenda, I was taken to task by one lady here schooling me that Pilates is an exercise and was not originated by Pontius Pilate, further that she looked great in her Uggs and short shorts, and she often went out in her pajamas and why was I so judgmental, it was hard to explain to her that I was merely joking and I brought it to her attention that I did state Uggs and panties were a hot combination, and she said, "that was dum (sic) why bother whereing (sic) warm boots with panties. I rest my case.
On a typical Friday night I am
At the movies or on a fire ring at the beach, or in my hot tub sipping wine, spending time with my son Christian, or at happy hour having extended it, spending time with the rest of my friends in the Justice League, Wonder Woman, Batman, Green Lantern, The Flash, Slugwoman, Wonder Warthog - fighting crime and working on my abs arms and shoulders.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Privates, seriously, you said privates! oh private thing that's different, Never mind!

I do love very deeply, generously, there is a deep soulful connection I seek and there is more, much more, but you will have to find that on your own. ;)

I would like to find that match, someone that I love deeply that loves me as well, and my life itself will be a love letter that I write to her and each page will be something to savor and treasure.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
If you aren't a Jehovah's Witness, they always ring my doorbell right at inopportune times like when I am about to take my first bite of breakfast or I just got in the bath tub plus I like holidays and if I needed a blood transfusion I am F-ing getting one :p and off the topic you don't wear pajamas at the airport, I don't get that.

Please don't message me if you are a Nigerian fraud posing as a white 24 year old and suddenly your "mum" is in the hospital and you need me to wire you money.

If you think Sarah Palin or Michele Bachman are dim bulbs we will get along famously.

Please do message me if you have a zest for life, a good sense of humor, are affectionate, love adventure, love holidays, can make brownies don't skimp on the walnuts, and can handle my hot passionate side, love to laugh,and want a true friend and soulmate, take my hand, we have an incredible journey ahead of us.

PS that other guy you might be considering is still married, has a huge gut and really stinky feet, a serious foot odor problem that needs medical attention further I didn't know men could have camel toes

OMG that other guy just sent me a wink

addenda- he also drives a Ford Pinto, has a combover, breaks wind in the bathtub, doesn't floss, hairy back, lives with his mother, wears her underwear, leaves the seat up, and has chlamydia Plus that huge mole on his chest that looks like a third nipple, oops that IS a third nipple and a parasitic twin, has terrible credit, has 3 restraining orders on him, and wears black socks with sandals when we wears shorts.
********JUST IN********UPDATE*********************
Just noticed the competition,those guys in those little squares under me - less desirous of sex, less kinky, less intelligent, more religious, less affectionate sounds like LESS FUN check out that guy's comb over ha ha ha, Amway is NOT owning a business LOL informed sources tell me the guy in square #1 is a member of NAMBLA square #2 takes Viagra extra strength #3 thinks he can sing but is tone deaf BUT would drag you to kareoke bars get on one knee and humiliate you with an off key rendition of Evergreen #4 gay #5 ax murderer #6 don't even get me started