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eternal_maiden

29 / F / bisexual / Available

Redford, Michigan

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Income
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am polyamorous, eccentric, and affectionate.

My Self-Summary

I never know what to say about myself. I live with my wife, a room mate, two cats, three ferrets, a turtle, and a degu. I am always interested in meeting new people and expanding my social circle. My wife I have an amazing and fulfilling relationship. We are not (and will likely never be) monogamous.

I am interested in dating men, more accurately I am 'interviewing' potential boyfriends. I am looking for a man that fits into my life on a long-term basis.

What I’m doing with my life

I resent this question. According to the standards of our culture, I'm barely doing anything with my life. As far as I'm concerned however, I lead a rich and fulfilling life. I'm currently unemployed, working to remedy that sad fact.

What my life really consists of:
My amazing relationship.
My three ferrets.
I sometimes (more accurately, used to, and probably will again) get dressed up and hit the goth clubs. Although, I generally only go clubbing in the winter. It's too damned hot (especially at City Club) during the summer. I like Necto more.
Coffee or maybe Google is god.
My woman is the vital component of my life, second is my pets, then my friends, and only then everything else.

I’m really good at

...keeping up my end of an eclectic conversation.

The first things people usually notice about me

...are my height and my hair.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(a: let's do authors instead)
Anne Bishop Jacqueline Carey, Laurell K Hamilton, Anne Rice, Stephen King, Marion Zimmer Bradley, Thomas Harris... I could go on forever. I love to read, I read everything I can get my hands on as fast as possible. I read a LOT of random vampire dramas , sci-fi and fantasy as well.

(b) (in general) Vampire movies, fantasy, sci-fi

(series) LOTR, Star Wars, Matrix, Odekirk's Thumbs, everything by Kevin Smith, anything Mel Brooks or Tarentino, Hannibal Lecter, the "good" Stephen King movies.

(stand alones) Princess Bride, Gone with the Wind, Hairspray, Breakfast Club, Sleeping Beauty, Alice in Wonderland, Fight Club, Purple Rain, Graffiti Bridge, Brotherhood of the Wolf... I'll stop there!

(c) Fall Out Boy, Panic at the Disco, Dave Matthews, Barenaked Ladies, Poe, Angels & Airwaves, Mandy Moore, Jack Johnson, John Mayer, Sarah McLachlan, Sarah Brightman, ect ect ect

(d) Chinese, Thai, Italian, A good, tender, bloody-as-hell steak. Anything someone makes me themselves.

The six things I could never do without

The internet, a cat, coffee, my lover, contact lenses, and music to sing to.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The rudimentary mechanics of life, fun things to do with humans, people I miss, the people I want to know

On a typical Friday night I am

at home.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

is already ^up there^.

You should message me if

...you can deal with the fact that I have had a lot of sex and will continue to do so.
...you won't be threated by (or think [HA!] you could threaten) my primary relationship.
...you are an assertive man interested in a possibly long-term relationship.