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eterrana

24 Buffalo, NY Cis Woman

Cis Woman

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:42am
Orientation
Queer
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Politics / Government
Income
Status
Open relationship
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I try to see the beauty and humor in life as much as possible while attempting to stay grounded and connected. I've experienced a lot in my twenty something years on this planet, and hope to keep on weaving my web for one hundred more.

Heads up--I'm in a poly relationship. So, what would that mean for you? Well, I live with and love my partner, and if we click, then I could love you too, maybe. Or whatever. You wouldn't be seeing both of use--just me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an organizer for a civil rights non-profit and I get to travel a lot because of it. So if you ever want to talk at length about New York State politics and how much the IDC fucking sucks, I'm your gal. I'm conflicted on the efficacy of my job, but I kind of love it most of the time.

I'm also taking baths, petting dogs, drinking wine, writing and spending time with my kids (yes, more than one) and cleaning all the things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making Alfredo from scratch. Saying I should really start doing yoga/dancing/stretching/moving my body and then sitting and ordering a pizza.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My tattoos and split smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Purity Ring, Bikini Kill, X-Ray Spex, Cocorosie, Tegan and Sara, Le Tigre, Sleater Kinney, Lykke Li, Adele, Amy Winehouse and Metric. I also really love everything from Fucked Up to Bon Iver to Bone-thugs-n-harmony to Billie Holiday to Calle 13.

The Stranger by Albert Camus, The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera and The Paper Bag Princess by Robert Munsch (ha). I also really love anything Isabelle Allende and the poems of Pablo Neruda.

Secretary, Garden State, But I'm A Cheerleader!, Elf, Mirrormask and Y Tu Mama Tambien.

Criminal Minds, Once Upon a Time, Doctor Who, Parks and Rec, Scandal, Misfits, etc.

I like all food all the time and I will never ever be embarrassed about it. Specifically entire boxes of tuna helper doused with lemon juice and siracha.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, chicken wings, feminism, a good hand lotion and Netflix
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to work with others to dismantle the system so that we can all live in a truly just world free from oppression, hate and violence in all its forms. Also what I should eat for dinner and if my kids are clean enough to go out in public.

When I'm on OKC, I a) wonder why I lack the social skills necessary to meet people in real life and b) question why I don't live in Toronto.

Thinking about whether or not to go to Law School.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love Taylor Swift and can't ride a bike.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you enjoy the brighter side of life but can hold a serious conversation that provokes true thought. If you would like to go and do something silly and spontaneous, but can sit and talk about the world for hours as well. If you're looking to enjoy life, but make it better for everyone

Please be down with poly relationships. It's cool if you're not, I get that, but I need someone who is.

You're into radical politics and thought but not a pretentious jerk about it.

I respond well to creativity and I don't want to talk about the Safe Act with you.