Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I try to see the beauty and humor in life as much as possible while
attempting to stay grounded and connected. I've experienced a lot
in my twenty something years on this planet, and hope to keep on
weaving my web for one hundred more.
I believe in the radical possibilities of pleasure
Heads up--I'm in a poly relationship. So, what would that mean for
you? Well, I live with and love my partner, we have a complicated
relationship and if we click, then I could love you too, maybe. Or
whatever. You wouldn't be seeing both of us--just me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an organizer for a civil rights non-profit and I get to travel
a lot because of it. So if you ever want to talk at length about
New York State politics and how much the IDC fucking sucks, I'm
your gal. I'm conflicted on the efficacy of my job, but I kind of
love it most of the time.
I'm also taking baths, petting dogs, drinking bloody Mary's,
writing and spending time with my kids (yes, more than one) and
cleaning all the things.
I'm also growing a garden and a bunch of potted plants. Wish me
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making Alfredo from scratch. Saying I should really start doing
yoga/dancing/stretching/moving my body and then sitting and
ordering a pizza.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My cat eyes and split smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Purity Ring, Bikini Kill, X-Ray Spex, Cocorosie, Tegan and Sara, Le
Tigre, Sleater Kinney, Lykke Li, Adele, Amy Winehouse and Metric. I
also really love everything from Fucked Up to Bon Iver to
Bone-thugs-n-harmony to Billie Holiday to Calle 13.
The Stranger by Albert Camus, The Unbearable Lightness of Being by
Milan Kundera and The Paper Bag Princess by Robert Munsch (ha). I
also really love anything Isabelle Allende and the poems of Pablo
Neruda. Currently reading "Peace is Every Step" so I can learn how
to chill the fuck out
Secretary, Garden State, But I'm A Cheerleader!, Elf, Mirrormask
and Y Tu Mama Tambien.
Criminal Minds, Once Upon a Time, Doctor Who, Parks and Rec,
Scandal, Misfits, Vikings, most things that Anthony Bourdain is in,
Orphan Black, etc. I love TV but yet still have not seen Breaking
I like all food all the time and I will never ever be embarrassed
about it. Specifically entire boxes of tuna helper doused with
lemon juice and siracha.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, chicken wings, feminism, a good hand lotion and Netflix
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to work with others to dismantle the system so that we can all
live in a truly just world free from oppression, hate and violence
in all its forms. Also what I should eat for dinner and if my kids
are clean enough to go out in public.
When I'm on OKC, I a) wonder why I lack the social skills necessary
to meet people in real life and b) question why I don't live in
Thinking about whether or not to go to law school
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't ride a bike and used to wear a lot of jelly bracelets
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you enjoy the brighter side of life but can hold a serious
conversation that provokes true thought. If you would like to go
and do something silly and spontaneous, but can sit and talk about
the world for hours as well. If you're looking to enjoy life, but
make it better for everyone
Please be down with poly relationships. It's cool if you're not, I
get that, but I need someone who is.
You're into radical politics and thought but not a pretentious jerk
I respond well to creativity and I don't want to talk about the
Safe Act with you.
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