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fly_excelsior

32 / M / Straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

His Details

Last Online
Today – 2:55pm
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
Be your best self because everyone else is taken.

I am respectful and thoughtful guy who, not surprisingly, does open door for you, shares my coat when you're cold, takes charge on planning and even cook once awhile, I guess you call that chivalry yet that's just my nature. If you are working late night, I will make a cup of fresh coffee and leave it out for you.

I value honesty and good communication. I put my best foot forward being a caring and passionate person in a relationship and I hope the same from you. I'm attracted to someone who is smart, dependable, confidence, well dress, sophistication is also sexy. If you want a witty and fun guy who is creative, intelligent, confidence and secure, no bs and get real. A man who is going to laugh with you, despite how lame the joke is, grow with you, learn from one another, treat you with respect, make you a better person, enjoy traveling and having adventrous road trips and make awesome fun memories. Simple enough.

I was once told, "you exist in this world in such a way that is influential to those around you. I see your awesomeness. I am glad you are who you are."

Did I mention "fun"?
What I’m doing with my life
I consult on projects with a large manufacturing company by day and work at a media startup on weekend, so lots crunch time.

I love to utilize my design skills and have lots creative freedom solving problems every day for my client. Always looking for challenges and news things to learn and creative people to network and collaborate with.

For me histories aren't made sitting still and life instructions were made by others. I would rather write my own manuals and connect the dots along the way so that one day I may teach and inspire others to do the same.

If my life were a film, it would never fit into one genre. Rather, it is more like crazy romantic, scary, comical, sci-fi western action packed movie with lots explosions, flashforward, cliffhangers and limited bugets for CGI. Yet it will have never-ending sequels and remakes for just you and me.
I’m really good at
- Urban navigation, like a beacon to a drunken sailor. Plus I can read big ole Rand McNally map, the one truck drivers still use.
- Tennis
- great listener and observant
- turning a boring conversation into inappropriate imagination
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Fountainhead, Atlas Shrugged, Devils in the White City, On Intelligence, art/architecture, business, science, graphic design, psychology, and fashion related non-fictions.

Movies - Heat, Usual Suspects, Looper, Eternal Sunshine of Spotless Minds, Being John Malkovich, Trainspotting, Dark Knight, Inception, Momento, E.T., 500 days of summer, Lost in Translation, Constant Gardener, Slumdog Millionaire, Melancholia, Prime, Chinatown, Breakfast at Tiffany's, anything that has to do with time travel like Back to the Future.

Shows - Arrested Development, Fringe, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, HIMYM, Family Guy, South Park, Archer, Dexter, Flight of the Concords, the League (Taco is awesome!), Portlandia (weird funny), Twin Peaks, currently digging Homeland.

Musics - Miami Horror, Passion Pits, MGMT, Phoenix, Jus†ice, Arcade Fire, Daft Punk, Snow Patrol, the Killer, the Postal Services, Thievery Corporation, Massive Attack, Radiohead, Amy Winehouse, Sigur Ros, Adrian Lux, Mozart, Holtz, Bach...

Food - Dark chocolate, Italian, Japanese, Vietnamese, Korean, Italian, Mexican, Indian, prime rib, good wines

Artist - Gerhard Richter, Chuck Close, Richard Serra to name a few.
The six things I could never do without
Close friends
Dark Hot Chocolate and Tiramisu
Tennis
A Glass of good wine with music
Wallet
Moleskine sketchbook and a pen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future and why don't I own a television.
On a typical Friday night I am
laughing and goofing at nearby bar with co-workers, enjoying dinner hanging out, watching a movie with friends, or just relaxing at home fixing myself a dinner and having a glass of wine and watch shows on netflix. Not so typical after all.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
1. I once got lost riding New York City subway for 4 hours, and it was from midnight to 4am. That's pretty much how I 'figured' my way around.
2. I feel like a little kid going to LEGO store at WaterTower place.
3. I once sang in front a large audience in middle school. Never again.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you are awesome, have great sense of humor, likes to have fun and just enjoy simple things in life. If you are genuinely interested getting to know me and looking for a partner in real crime. Oh and definitely like some outdoor activities. I am more than happy to have a tennis partner and running mate.