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etjny631

37 / M / straight / Single

Lindenhurst, New York

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Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
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Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
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Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am energetic, uncomplicated, and a night owl.

My Self-Summary

One thing people notice about me right away is that I'm always looking to laugh and have a good time. Life is too short to let it pass by. I'm pretty happy with what I do, and I'm looking for someone who shares my interests. I'm all about the connection. I like being able to just glance at each other, and have an unspoken understanding.

I'm a big fan of dance music, and if names like PVD, Tiesto, and AVB are names you recognize, we need to talk! I used to DJ back in college, and early in my regular work career, so I actually love the culture itself. I went to the Ultra Music Festival back in March, and couldn’t stop talking about it for weeks afterward. My tastes do range from modern rock like NIN, Beck, Beastie Boys, Marilyn Manson, Depeche Mode, Foo Fighters, to dance, vocalists like Sarah McLachlan to old grunge stuff, 80s etc.

I own my own house which took a long time to fix up, and during the same time, the company I work for moved from LI to NYC, so both those things were pretty much my focus for the past couple of years.

The girl I’d like to meet is as comfortable in the local bar as she would be meeting the professional people I work with at a nice dinner in Manhattan, and likes to try different things. Being able to adjust to both situations is a quality I love. Humor is a total MUST. I've found in the past that these are pretty hard qualities to find in one person.

Since I have a monthly ticket to Manhattan, I find myself there a bit more than LI. Not having to drive is a good thing ;-) Downtown lounges are a big favorite. Having a martini, listening to great house music always relaxes me. I also like shows, museums, galleries and concerts. A big outdoor thing I like is mountain biking. I love going to Caumsett state park in Lloyd Harbor, and riding down by the water, when I can. I also like going to the wineries out east to do some wine tasting. Also, the Nautical mile in the summer months has been an increasingly fun destination. My philosophy abount living in NY is that it gives you so many options, it's a crime not to take advantage of them. I don’t want to give the impression I just want to party all the time either. Staying home by the fireplace and watching a movie definitely has a great appeal as well. I just like a nice balance.

I’m sure I've missed things, so if you want to know more, let me know!

What I’m doing with my life

Working in NYC as the IT Manager for a health company

I’m really good at

My job
planning things
having a good time
procrastinating
Making stupid lists?

The first things people usually notice about me

My personality...I am pretty easy to talk to and get along with...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Music...Trance, deep house..stuff like Tiesto, PVD, BT, Moby, AVB...Addicted to BPM on XM Radio..
Also modern/alt rock, like NIN, STP, Coldplay, Sarah McLachlan, Radiohead...etc..

Food...thats tough...I like a lot of variety...Seafood, Italian, Sushi, Spanish...

I especially like to try any of the local food when I travel. Why go somewhere if you're not ready to have the full experience?

The six things I could never do without

Music
Computers
NYC
Traveling
Seafood
My friends/family

Not really in any specific order..

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Work, unfortunately, but I do like what I do. It's a constantly changing field...But the thoughts eventually go to taking time off!

On a typical Friday night I am

Thats hard to answer. I like a lot of variety, and I could be in Manhattan at happy hour, having people over my house, out to a nice dinner, or even home watching a movie. Life is all about variety...

You should message me if

Strange question...You should message me if you are interested ;-)