Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
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First of all I'm a dude. I like to eat food.
When I get out of the shower I walk around nude.
I tip a couple bills when the attendant hands me a towel,
even though I coulda done it myself like Pat Sajak buying a
Put my big boy pants on don't wanna end up like Eckards
One leg at a time then I start makin gold records
I borrowed that one from my man Christopher Walken
Had to do it cuz obviously I ain't much one for talkin
Go about my day thinking about life and its ways
How some people spend their best years in a haze
Found myself then found peace then found myself again
How I think now is how I used to think then
But its different now, haven't found the differential
I guess you could say it's inconsequential
Here I am, all of me, right here, right now
No time to waste to ask myself how
Givin life all I have cuz I only get one
I might get called away before I get done
This verse got serious yet started out silly
But whatever I'm out gonna grab me a philly =]
my brains are funny and they make wierd connections to ideas not
normally tied together. some people think that makes me an artist?
(yes question mark) i dont really like labels though because they
tend to be thought-terminating cliches, boxing people in instead of
expanding consciousness out... if that makes any sense. i usually
have to act like i dont notice things and im pretty good at playing
dumb. i notice everything. i dont judge or evaluate or criticise
but i do notice. as an example at work they have white noise
generators going 24/7 and i constantly ask people if its raining
because i have a hard time tuning anything out. i think its kinda
rad in some ways
someone once said to me "james, i dont think more duct tape is the
solution to all of lifes problems," and you know what? i think they
might have been onto something
if i were a dinosaur id probably want to be a raptor. i mean theyre
pretty fast right? i wanna go fast! are there any dinosaurs faster
than a raptor? if there are im not sure i want to know about them.
i think that would make my head spin
I've recently come to the realization that I'm an awesome person
and I have no reason to be bashful about it. I'm not anyone's idea
of perfection but I'm perfectly human and I'm happy with that and
you should be too =] I may not have all the answers but I know what
truth is ya dig?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
building a following as a music producer, day trading, working in
the health and medical field. getting edumacated in programming
with a view to becoming a programmer unless i can keep doing as
well as i have been in the markets in which case maybe ill just do
that a couple hours a day and live a life dedicated to helping
people in personal development. kinda been my dream job for a while
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making music (google "audiocrat"), day trading, learning in
general, making people laugh, being fully present, being creative
(not just in an artistic sense), pushing my edge, knowing where im
going, being authentic, loving people for who they are, being
non-judgmental, and legos. i'm really good at legos
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
instead of just writing shit down i decided to do a little
screenplay. i created a little dialog of what it might sound like
if i were in some sort of hollywood romantic comedy where i met my
future wife and 5 years after our marriage on our anniversary night
after getting all freaky-deaky decided to get all girly and
emotional, remembering the times where circumstances prevented us
from being together
so, i know this might sound like a really wierd question out of the
blue but what did you notice about me when you first met me?
"Eyes, voice, confidence, presence of mind? Also you were pretty
buff with your arms and your cowboy ass and you had on a shirt with
a polar bear on it. Why?"
well first of all im gonna need you to explain presence of mind
second youre gonna need to explain why you remember the polar
"Oh, OK. I'm not really sure how to explain it but I'll try. I can
tell that you're THERE and actually responding to the things I say
and also the things I don't say. You cut through the bullshit of
whatever it is that we're talking about and it feels like you know
exactly what I'm thinking and help bring that out. I think maybe I
meant insightful but there's more to it than that I think. Like you
can ask me two questions when I'm confused about something, and you
already have some sort of penetrating insight and get me to realize
exactly what I should do. I remember the polar bear because the
shirt was brown and you said you wished it came in blue. I said
it's better brown because his environment was getting polluted. You
know how we hollywood writers are all into the environment and
whatnot. Anyway does that make sense?"
yeah but why reach for the word penetrating when deep was right at
the front of the shelf
"Because I'm a writer and we live for ten dollar words, especially
adverbs and adjectives."
who am i to judge? whatever blows your skirt up, you hollywood
meet-cute writer types
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
the power of now by eckhart tolle, anything by tony robbins, david
deida, or lewis carroll
movies... hmmm superbad, the hangover, stepbrothers, pan's
labyrinth, fight club, 300, etc. are good. shutter island was good
too. Anything by Darren Aranovsky. Bueller?
i usually listen in my car to music i produce (really dont mean to
sound conceited its just i put a lot of effort into it to make
something that i like in hopes others like it)
pretty much every food sounds good when you eat healthy most of the
time... especially ben n jerrys.... ahhh i need a cheat day here
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
and 2 scoops of ben n jerrys
yes, i know
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
everything. not in a critical, angsty, self-pitying emo way, just
about life and love and hopes and dreams. i see a lot of
possibilities in every moment and i try to use my energy
passionately and creatively to inspire people to do the same, to be
their best self. i want to die with no gifts left ungiven
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
no such thing as a typical friday night! i live my life with
blinders off... the wonderful thing about perceiving everything is
that you tend not to see many self-imposed restrictions on what you
believe you are allowed to do. "well its friday guess that means i
have to go do _____"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
im pretty awful at thumb wars. if you ever think itd be a good idea
to play rock paper scissors with me, itd probably be a better idea
to play thumb wars because your odds will be much better that way.
i think its because i play knuckle to palm and most people really
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I message you. Or if you're exceptionally bold. I'd have to give
you a lot of respect for that. I'd bet if you did you were probably
black or red-haired. Not a bad thing... but for some reason
whenever I get approached by a girl she's either black or
red-haired. You're always welcome to make a liar out of me though,
i double dog dare you
also, a message is not a contract saying were going to get married!
kinda takes a minute to get to know someone before you even know if
youre compatible. just because im looking for something serious
doesnt mean it has to be with you, or vice versa. im sad i have to
put that on here but i do. just like im sure im not everyones cup
of tea, not everyone is mine. it is what it is!
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