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24 F Gainesville, FL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:28pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Used up
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Sales / Marketing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Poorly), Portuguese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
People who say they are "down to earth" or "laid back" give me suspicion, and ever since I added men to my list I see this shit ALL THE TIME. What does that even mean, when you really think about it? And, actually, if I was forced to, I would openly admit I'm neither laid back or down to earth. My head is always in the clouds and the skies and the trees, and I work too fucking hard to be "laid back". I force myself to have time to lay back.
That said, hi! I'm Shirley. I identify as Queer. Overthinker. Feminist. Activist. Cat lady. Stoner babe. I like to lounge around with tv marathons and also go on 30 mile bike trips. I'm constantly evolving.
What I’m doing with my life
I keep busy. I go to school full time, I'm a TA for two classes and I'm volunteering for a few other things. I recently quit my job to focus on my senior year and try to soothe my guilt by volunteering. I absorb myself in my community. Beyond that, I enjoy exploring. My city, myself, my life. I like long bike rides. The springs. Conflicting feelings.
I’m really good at
Smiling, laughing loudly (or quietly, but at something that no-one else found funny), loving hard, disappearing, learning (and then unlearning) languages. Also; foot in mouth. Forever foot in mouth disease.
The first things people usually notice about me
Awkward. So awkward. Gapped teeth and warm grin.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't read books (aside from academic ones) as much as articles now... But, I will always hold some literature in my heart: Harry Potter series, Chuck Palahnuik, Khalil Gibran, and Perks of Being a Wallflower for weird(er) teenage me. Cried reading Stone Butch Blues at work. Kinda embarassing. Fuck it, I cry a LOT. One day I'll embark on my mission to read every bell hooks book possible.

Television...I don't even need to mention Orange Is the New Black, amirite? Because that's almost a given. Otherwise I've been consumed by the Cosby show, Cheers, every episode of Gilmore Girls Ever, and 50's period dramas on Netflix. Call the midwife, the bletchley circle, bomb girls..
Larry and His Flask, The Blow, Modest Mouse, Death Cab for Cutie, Against Me!, Le Tigre, The Front Bottoms, Regina Spektor, Ani DiFranco, Kate Nash, basically every soundtrack to trashy 90's films and some sixties french pop. I am absolutely obsessed with Bossanova right now, though. Getz, Gilberto, much good.
Any radiolab listeners out there?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My primary focuses are feminism, my cats, self-improvement, weed, bdsm, sexuality, all the gorgeous queers ive met, racism in america, my white privilege and how that intersects with my brasilian heritage, my cisprivilege, LGBTQ research, how to navigate tumblr, why can't I ever sleep in, why cant other people/events start super early as a result of my grandmotherly time schedule, how can I hate romanticism but be a shameless ball of cheesyness to my crushes, how much i love the courtship process but I'm terrible at being the court-er
lately I've been wondering why there isn't 'cultural consciousness training' to the students and employees at UF? I think anyone graduating from UF with any degree that involves dealing with humans should take a mandatory course on how to be a decent human being.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing cartwheels on dark deserted roads and falling asleep to Cheers. Fuck friday nights. I like sunday afternoons. No school, no work, minimal chores, I download some radiolab podcast and I ride my bike until my body tells me I'm done. I photograph my journey and throughout the process I heal.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't like kissing with tongues. Never understood the appeal.
Also, too many open tabs give me anxiety. So do a million other things.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 22–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're appreciative of the tiniest things that bring you pleasure
You're willing to sweat in the blistering sun with me
Ideally, i'd love a local stoner who'd like to cuddle and/or go on long bike rides with me and teach me how to cook less unhealthy things. Or if you have a porch. Or a hammock. Bonus Brownie points: A hammock on a porch. Please be prepared for exhibitionism.
SUCHA WILD FANTASY. ohgoshnoreallyiwoulddieofecstacy.