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My self-summary
Honestly? I have a hard time with the concept.

I lived in a city bigger than Buffalo for a while where okcupid made more sense. Now I'm mostly here for the lols.

Queer, not bi.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm doing me.

This includes: learning, changing, deepening my yoga practice, loving my friends, kind of writing a play, riding my bike around town, and making bone broth.

I have a bunny friend named Dandelion who shares my room with me. A lot of my energy is focused on taking care of him the best I can and getting to know him better.
I’m really good at
Reading my horoscope and memorizing the zodiac sign of everyone I know so that I can read their horoscopes.

I read tarot. Mostly for myself, sometimes for friends, and occasionally for strangers who pay me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a lot of hair these days and it's often kind of out of control, so maybe that? It's hard for me to imagine what other people notice about me. I smile a lot and fidget and ask questions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like all of these things but my tastes are always changing.

Lately I've been reading a lot of psychoanalysis, eastern philosophy, and mystic/gnostic/occult stuff. I read Answer To Job by Carl Jung a few months ago and thought it was great. I don't think anyone can write a sentence like Lorrie Moore and I also like Richard Brautigan. I spend a lot of time trying to understand Lacan and intending to read Hegel. I'm always delving into mythology. Ultimately, I read more self help than I like to admit.

My favorite movie is 2001: A Space Odyssey and I've watched Being There about six times in the past year. I saw Wild at Heart recently and liked it a lot.

I spent a lot of years pretty into punk, and I still feel connected to it, but I don't actively listen to much punk anymore. I've been listening to a lot of Alice Coltrane and Sun Ra lately. I've also been into exploring 60s psychedelic pop for a little while. I love Kate Bush and Hounds of Love is my favorite album. Khia is always a go-to favorite. Jawbreaker has been my official Favorite Band for so long that it feels wrong to renounce them. I have a Get Up Kids stick-and-poke and have listened to Something To Write Home About roughly 34,000 times since I was sixteen.

I like to eat salmon, kale, yogurt, and granola. Breakfast is my favorite. Coffee and tea all the time.
The six things I could never do without
1. A book I care to read.
2. A notebook and a pen.
3. Meaningful relationship.
4. Somewhere to be alone.
5. I'm pretty attached to these little birds that hang out outside my window. But I also like trees and the sky and large bodies of moving water. One of these, at least.
6. Water, food, and warmth. Duh.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The ways I think about and experience things and why. The ways other people think about and experience things and why. Whether/how these are related.
On a typical Friday night I am
In or out, asking "Oh, is it Friday?"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This question makes me nervous.
You should message me if
...you want to.

Heads up: I'm not into monogamy or misogyny.