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30 Buffalo, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:07pm
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Honestly? I have a hard time with the concept.

I lived in a city bigger than Buffalo for a while where okcupid made more sense. Now I'm mostly here for the lols.

Queer, not bi.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm doing me.

This includes: learning, changing, deepening my yoga practice, loving my friends, kind of writing a play, riding my bike around town, and making bone broth.

I have a bunny friend named Dandelion who shares my room with me. A lot of my energy is focused on taking care of him the best I can and getting to know him better.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading my horoscope and memorizing the zodiac sign of everyone I know so that I can read their horoscopes.

I read tarot. Mostly for myself, sometimes for friends, and occasionally for strangers who pay me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a lot of hair these days and it's often kind of out of control, so maybe that? It's hard for me to imagine what other people notice about me. I smile a lot and fidget and ask questions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like all of these things but my tastes are always changing.

Lately I've been reading a lot of psychoanalysis, eastern philosophy, and mystic/gnostic/occult stuff. I read Answer To Job by Carl Jung a few months ago and thought it was great. I don't think anyone can write a sentence like Lorrie Moore and I also like Richard Brautigan. I spend a lot of time trying to understand Lacan and intending to read Hegel. I'm always delving into mythology. Ultimately, I read more self help than I like to admit.

My favorite movie is 2001: A Space Odyssey and I've watched Being There about six times in the past year. I saw Wild at Heart recently and liked it a lot.

I spent a lot of years pretty into punk, and I still feel connected to it, but I don't actively listen to much punk anymore. I've been listening to a lot of Alice Coltrane and Sun Ra lately. I've also been into exploring 60s psychedelic pop for a little while. I love Kate Bush and Hounds of Love is my favorite album. Khia is always a go-to favorite. Jawbreaker has been my official Favorite Band for so long that it feels wrong to renounce them. I have a Get Up Kids stick-and-poke and have listened to Something To Write Home About roughly 34,000 times since I was sixteen.

I like to eat salmon, kale, yogurt, and granola. Breakfast is my favorite. Coffee and tea all the time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. A book I care to read.
2. A notebook and a pen.
3. Meaningful relationship.
4. Somewhere to be alone.
5. I'm pretty attached to these little birds that hang out outside my window. But I also like trees and the sky and large bodies of moving water. One of these, at least.
6. Water, food, and warmth. Duh.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The ways I think about and experience things and why. The ways other people think about and experience things and why. Whether/how these are related.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In or out, asking "Oh, is it Friday?"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This question makes me nervous.
You should message me if
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Heads up: I'm not into monogamy or misogyny.