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28 F Buffalo, NY

My Details

Last Online
Apr 20
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Honestly? I have a hard time with the concept.

"A certificate tells me that I was born. I repudiate this certificate: I am not a poet, but a poem. A poem that is being written, even if it looks like a subject." -Jacques Lacan

Queer, not bi.
What I’m doing with my life
Making elaborate breakfasts and reading six books at a time.
I’m really good at
Reading my horoscope and memorizing the zodiac sign of everyone I know so that I can read their horoscopes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a lot of hair these days and it's often kind of out of control, so maybe that? It's hard for me to imagine what other people notice about me. I smile a lot and fidget and ask questions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like all of these things but my tastes are always changing.

Lately I've been reading a lot of psychoanalysis and eastern philosophy. I don't think anyone can write a sentence like Lorrie Moore and I also like Richard Brautigan. My favorite movie is 2001: A Space Odyssey and I've watched Being There about six times in the past year. I saw Wild at Heart recently and liked it a lot. Sometimes when I can't sleep I watch Sabrina, the Teenage Witch on youtube. I still feel connected to punk but I don't actively listen to much punk anymore. I love Kate Bush and Hounds of Love is my favorite album. I have a Get Up Kids stick-and-poke. I like to eat smoked salmon, kale, and granola.
The six things I could never do without
1. A book I care to read.
2. A notebook and a pen.
3. Meaningful friendship.
4. Somewhere to be alone.
5. I'm pretty attached to these little birds that hang out outside my window. But I also like trees and the sky and large bodies of moving water. One of these, at least.
6. Water, food, and warmth. Duh.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, man.

No, but really, I've got the 'Big Questions' bug pretty bad.
On a typical Friday night I am
In or out, asking "Oh, is it Friday?"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I worry I may be a hippie.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if want to.

Heads up: I'm not into monogamy or misogyny.