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29 • Fort Oglethorpe, GA • Cis Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Mar 5
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t want kids
- Dislikes dogs and has cats
I'm bisexual, sapiosexual, and polyamorous. My husband's profile is bcordle1414. He's pretty awesome. :) We're also in a long distance relationship with a couple from Alabama, DustedCelt and hkrsrppl2. Even though the distance keeps us from seeing each other often, they are still very special to us! I'm also dating another local girl. I'm pretty poly saturated at the moment, but please hit me up if you wanna chat about polyamory.
Just to be clear, being non-monogamous and bisexual does not mean I participate in casual sex or casual threesomes. I'm not interested in any type of casual relationship. I find all aspects of a relationship -- romantic, emotional, spiritual and sexual -- all equally important and can't have a sexual relationship without the other components.
I would love to write a science textbook (probably with someone who has a PhD). I want to do activism for LGBT and polyamory rights while writing in a blog, magazine, novel, etc. I have toyed with being a life coach as well.
If you read/are reading my profile, include the word "parrot" in your message if you choose to message me. Bc I'm sneaky...
Blogs: I read blogs and articles more than books nowadays. My favorites are The Bloggess and PostSecret. I also read a lot of Huffington Post opinion pieces.
Podcasts: I listen to a lot of podcasts while I file and print and revise documents and update binders at work. I keep up with Poly Weekly Podcast, Dogma Debate, Ardent Atheist, Skeptically Yours, Stuff Your Mom Didn't Tell You, Probably Science and NPR: Intelligence Squared.
Movies: I kind of have a guy's taste in movies. I like action a lot. Some favs are Avatar, Pirates of the Carribean movies, Harry Potter movies, V for Vendetta, Transformers movies, Avengers, and Inception.
Music: I like songs I can relate to and that have passion to them. A lot of the music I listen to comes from movies. Genres are rap, hip hop, rock, folk. I think Eminem is a lyrical genius. Lullaby by Nickelback has saved my life a few times, and Same Love by Macklemore gives me chills almost everytime I listen to it.
TV Shows: The only shows I am watch live are Big Bang Theory and Walking Dead. My husband and I are working through Dexter and House, MD right now.
Food: I like pasta a lot. It's easy to cook. I really don't like to cook. I try to eat healthfully. Lots of green things and fresh things. But I will get lazy sometimes and eat fast food.
-Kitties. I have two older cats, but I love all members of the feline family (especially, tigers!)
-My 2007 Toyota Matrix named Trinity. She protects me for two hours on the road each day driving to and from work.
-Learning. I will never stop questioning or learning about everything in the universe.
-Freedom. I don't like bosses, closed doors, and social requirements.
-you're poly and want to talk to someone else who is (I love meeting other poly people!)
-you're intelligent or witty or nerdy
-you enjoy/need good conversation
I do date other men, but as you can tell from my "looking for" section, that kind of relationship is not what I'm really looking for right now. Being poly I am interested in seeing wherever relationships go, so if you are interested and are okay with going slowly, then message me. : )
What I really am looking for right now in my heart is a (local) girlfriend. I want to explore the side of me that is attracted to women, which is not something I have done much of in my life. I feel like my poly life will not be complete without a woman in it. If you would like to get to know me, message me please. : )
**Please say something more than "Hey, what's up?" (or worse, spelled wrong). I don't do chitchat well, so give me some topics to discuss.**
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