Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, y'all. I'm a nerd of the science and science fiction sort with
a hearty helping of the grammar sort and a sprinkle of the gamer
sort. I am a free thinker and a progressive. I'm one of those
Millenials who is unhappy with her menial job, though I at least
work for a pretty good company. I'm a writer. I'm a proponent of
clear communication and personal reflection. I'm the mama of two
old, lazy kitties and a chubby ball python.
I'm bisexual, sapiosexual, and polyamorous. My husband's profile is
pretty awesome, and I encourage any ladies to check him out. At the
moment, I am dating a very special local girl who will remain a
secret. I'm pretty poly saturated at the moment, but please hit me
up if you wanna chat about polyamory.
Just to be clear, being non-monogamous and bisexual does not mean I
participate in casual sex or casual threesomes. I'm not interested
in any type of casual relationship. I find all aspects of a
relationship -- romantic, emotional, spiritual and sexual -- all
equally important and can't have a sexual relationship without the
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work at a nice law firm in Chattanooga as a legal secretary for
three real estate attorneys. I don't have much interest in law, but
I do have an interest in financial freedom, and I've begun to
realize that I will probably have to do something I may not want to
in order to be comfortable. I hope this job will allow me to
volunteer more of my time to organizations like Modern Poly where I
was recently named editor-in-chief. I also write regularly in a
blog and a journal.
I would love to write a science textbook (probably with someone who
has a PhD). I want to do activism for LGBT and polyamory rights
while writing in a blog, magazine, novel, etc. I have toyed with
being a life coach as well.
If you read/are reading my profile, include the word "parrot" in
your message if you choose to message me. Bc I'm sneaky...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making messes. Making plans. Speaking in a Southern drawl with
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love rocking red lipstick. :D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I tend to lean towards series. Or at least those are all I
can recall at the moment. They include Anita Blake, Vampire
, House of Night
, Percy Jackson
, and Twilight
Blogs: I read blogs and articles more than books nowadays. My
favorites are The
. I also read a lot of
Huffington Post opinion pieces.
Podcasts: I listen to a lot of podcasts while I file and print and
revise documents and update binders at work. I keep up with
, Dogma Debate
, Ardent Atheist
, Stuff Your Mom
Didn't Tell You
, Probably Science
Movies: I kind of have a guy's taste in movies. I like action a
lot. Some favs are Avatar
, Pirates of the
movies, Harry Potter
movies, V for Vendetta
Music: I like songs I can relate to and that have passion to them.
A lot of the music I listen to comes from movies. Genres are rap,
hip hop, rock, folk. I think Eminem
is a lyrical genius. Lullaby by
saved my life a few times, and Same Love by Macklemore
gives me chills almost
everytime I listen to it.
TV Shows: The only shows I am watch live are Big Bang Theory
and Walking Dead
husband and I are working through Dexter
and House, MD
Food: I like pasta a lot. It's easy to cook. I really don't like to
cook. I try to eat healthfully. Lots of green things and fresh
things. But I will get lazy sometimes and eat fast food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Love, whether it be my love for friends and romantic partners or
the connection I feel in all life and in all humanity.
-Kitties. I have two older cats, but I love all members of the
feline family (especially, tigers!)
-My 2007 Toyota Matrix named Trinity. She protects me for two hours
on the road each day driving to and from work.
-Learning. I will never stop questioning or learning about
everything in the universe.
-Freedom. I don't like bosses, closed doors, and social
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can be better at polyamory. Why I have a hard time keeping
who I am a secret. Where I'm going to be in five years--hell, in a
year. What I'm going to do with my life. When I'll be able to
finally do what I want in life. How I will ever help people/change
the world. When I will finally have the courage and money to get
the 4-5 tattoos I want. What I can do for the LGBT and poly
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I hang out at home with my husband and every other weekend with his
kids. I'm pretty introverted, so I don't generally like big crowds.
Which is pretty ironic considering I'm poly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have problems w depression, and I'm currently trying to find the
right medicine and therapy to keep me balanced for life. I hope it
will help me be a better partner.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-you have questions about what polyamory is (really, ask me! I'd
love to talk about it)
-you're poly and want to talk to someone else who is (I love
meeting other poly people!)
-you're intelligent or witty or nerdy
-you enjoy/need good conversation
I do date other men, but as you can tell from my "looking for"
section, that kind of relationship is not what I'm really looking
for right now. Being poly I am interested in seeing wherever
relationships go, so if you are interested and are okay with going
slowly, then message me. : )
What I really am looking for right now in my heart is a (local)
girlfriend. I want to explore the side of me that is attracted to
women, which is not something I have done much of in my life. I
feel like my poly life will not be complete without a woman in it.
If you would like to get to know me, message me please. : )
**Please say something more than "Hey, what's up?" (or worse,
spelled wrong). I don't do chitchat well, so give me some topics to
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