(1) I am in need of cuddling. If you find me potentially
cuddlable, let me know and we'll see if it's a match.
(2) I have been informed that my profile may make
me sound like a a serious person, potentially lacking in
humor!! The people responsible for writing my profile
in this way, have been sacked.)
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My emails used to end with "Sensitive new age anarchist slacker hippie geek", and that's still a good one-liner:
The first part is from Christine Lavin's "Sensitive new age guy", which I was accused of being by a girlfriend long ago, because I know how to listen, appreciate others' emotions and can express my own. That's probably why years later I got into Nonviolent Communication (among many other cool processes). I'm not really new-agey in the crystals-and-energy sense, though I am open-minded. Recently took part in a witch camp which among other things got me more into making music again.
In place of anarchist I've sometimes had "communist" or "socialist". Any of the three are there partly for the shock value, but mostly because I resonate with a lot of the deep assumptions in all three philosophies.
Slacker because I think it's important to not take life too seriously, to be able to relax and have fun.
On the surface, hippie for my long hair (which it usually is - my current picture is from when I shaved my head a few years ago). More deeply from being a free spirit, and valuing love and the do-it-yourself and exploratory aspects of hippie-dom.
Geek because I've been way into computers and science fiction for most of my life.
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On a separate note, I am fairly committed to polyamory. That doesn't mean I don't want a committed relationship (I do - at least one!), it just means that I don't want to be automatically restricted from getting close to other people, nor do I want my significant others to be restricted in that way.