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evokateur

24 / F / bisexual / Seeing someone

Memphis, Tennessee

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English, French (Poorly)

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I am mercurial, creative, and vivacious.

My Self-Summary

I was born in the wrong time. I should have been a courtesan, or a modernist poet who had a famous writer husband and a torrid affair with a starlet.

I'm an atheistic pantheist. I lean to the left politically. I love intelligent discussions that cover a wide variety of topics.

What I’m doing with my life

I graduated in May with my Bachelors in Religion. I am getting my second BA in English. I write a lot of poetry for school.

I play World of Warcraft a lot, and I occasionally role-play. I read a lot and I actually enjoy school. I watch movies that I've seen already while doing something like making jewelry or drawing.

I have one rat, two ferrets, and three cats. I love my animals.

I’m really good at

knowing myself, knowing others and getting to know them, writing to do lists, writing poetry (I'd like to think), making a complicated subject understandable for someone, inserting movie quotes into regular conversation, finding the flaws in arguments, questioning beliefs, being an atheist that's still fascinated by and appreciates certain aspects of religion, sarcastic humor..... sounding vain by listing a bunch of things that I'm good at...

I also know a lot of random facts and trivia, which I bring up whenever anybody says something that reminds me. Or whenever I want to see the look on someone's face when I tell them that teenage male dolphins go off and have gay sex or they go crazy...

The first things people usually notice about me

My voice. I either speak softly or have trouble with the concept of an inside voice. It's a tiny voice, but it seems to carry.

Depending on who you ask, I come across as intimidating or innocent.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I could go on forever about books, movies, music and food. I know what I like, but I'll try something new if you suggest it.

Books: The Prophet, World War Z, His Dark Materials trilogy, The Power of Myth, Be Here Now, Atonement, The Princess Bride, High Fidelity, Sense and Sensibility, Mansfield Park, Persuasion, Atonement

Movies: Dangerous Beauty, Juno, Conversations With Other Women, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Kinsey, The Princess Bride, High Fidelity, Closer, Love Actually, any Jane Austen movie, The Emperor's New Groove, Sin City, 28 Days Later, Howl's Moving Castle, Across the Universe

With music, I can find something I like in any genre. I tend to like specific songs rather than bands though. I think it's weird when people like every single song one band has ever done. I have an embarrassing love for 80s pop especially New Wave. At the moment, I particularly like Muse, Radiohead, Portishead, The Decemberists, The Bravery, Panic! At The Disco, Interpol, The Beatles, The Strokes, Paul Oakenfold, Daft Punk, and Depeche Mode.

Food: Thai, sushi, Greek, and dessert. Additionally, I like red wine, iced tea, hot tea (hibiscus, chamomile), chai with soy milk lattes, Walk Me Downs and Irish Car Bombs (the latter two only for serious drinking).

The six things I could never do without

Aside from the bare necessities that everyone needs to live and function in society, I submit for your perusal:

1. Intelligent conversation
2. The Internet (wikipedia, AIM, kurzweilai.net's daily newsletter, et al)
3. Learning things
4. Making things
5. My animals
6. The four Cs of Evokateur Care (yes, I just cheated. ha!)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Philosophy, in general. I like to think about how the world is and how it should be.

I also spend an inordinate amount of time wondering what I'd do if I got sent back into the past, barring communication problems...and whether I'd get burned as a witch for wearing pants.

I also think about the future, imagining virtual worlds, space colonization, and all the nifty things we have to look forward to.

On a typical Friday night I am

Raiding. If you already knew that this has nothing to do with Vikings pillaging, you get cool points.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Just ask, if you want to know.

Oh, and... I spend a lot of time talking about sex, but I'm far too ethical to sleep with everything that moves. So if I'm talking about sex, it's because it's a cool topic, and I thought about getting a masters in human sexuality. It's not necessarily me trying to get in your pants... Unless your pants are sexy. And my ethics agree.

You should message me if

You think you can capture my interest and you have something going for you. I like making new friends on here, but I know what I like romantically. Please don't be offended if you pass the friends filter, but fail to pass the romantic one.