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I am polyamorous and happily married to Long_Live_Life_
. I am here to find
and make connections, have adventures, and hopefully find a
As my username suggests I am into evolving my consciousness. Back
nearly 20 years ago I experienced a transcendent sublime state of
bliss and deep oneness that lasted for about two weeks. In that
moment I woke up to a whole new world of energy and
The bliss and high didn't last but I have been spending a good
chunk of my life dedicated to cleaning and clearing all the density
and darkness within my being. Each step I take, each fear I face, I
earn one more step back into bliss.
My hope is to find someone who can also resonate with the whole
spiritual evolution idea... I find that relationships are immensely
helpful for mutual growth when done consciously. Everyone has their
shadow, not everyone is comfortable facing it. I am looking for
those who are comfortable taking risks, being spontaneous, and
exploring their depths!
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a software architect with a fortune 100 company. I work from
home and love the freedom and flexibility that telecommuting has to
I am into my personal growth and spirituality. I am not a member of
any religion. I prefer to access the wisdom of the universe from
within through being in nature, having quiet time, various energy
practices, and meditation.
I also exercise 5 days a week, biking and basic weight
My wife and I have two kids who are home schooled, and two dogs. We
have been happily partnered for 15 years and we really enjoy
creating a life being true to ourselves. We pride ourselves on
having excellent communication which I feel is why our relationship
is so strong.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making friends wherever I am at.
Getting comfortable quickly in new situations.
Connecting with people in a more personal way.
Organizing, fixing, problem solving, relationship advice.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes, my warm smile, and my open heart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lately most books that I read are more spiritual in nature than
those for fun. (Eckhart Tolle, Ram Dass, don Miguel Ruiz)
When I watch movies I am drawn to more action/adventure or a
suspenseful movies. (Pirates of the Caribbean, Matrix, LOTR,
Avatar). I also love everything by Hayao Miyazaki (Spirited Away,
Castle In The Sky, Ponyo,...).
Shows I like include Star Trek (TNG, Voyager), BattleStar
Gallactica (new), Babylon 5, Weeds, The Big Bang Theory, HGTV House
Hunters, Avatar The Last AirBender.
For music I mostly listen to progressive (Dream Theater, Symphony
X, Scale the Summit, Seventh Wonder). I tend to listen to music
when running or working at home or when alone in the car. I love
going to concerts and when I have no one to go with I happily go
all by myself.
I like to eat mostly healthy, gluten free, and avoid fast food for
the most part. Tex-Mex is awesome, pretty much anything but
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Manifesting my future and consciously creating the life I desire.
That life includes health, wealth, travel, openness, enlightenment,
friends, great food, exciting new experiences, and lots of love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes I like to have a quiet evening at home and other times I
like to get out maybe to a movie at our local Alamo Drafthouse or
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love to fly but am somewhat afraid of heights. I was in training
for my private pilots license and sometimes would have panic
attacks before jumping in a Cessna 172 to fly solo out of a busy
airport. I refused to let the fear hold me back and earned my
private pilots license.
You should message me if
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If you are ok with dating a married guy who has the full love and
support of his wife.
Understand or resonate with some of the following terms: vibration,
energy, intuition, ascension, star seed, indigo, chakras, and
Are interested in building a fun and intimate relationship even if
we can only be together part time.
Willing to go slow. Friendship first. Building energy!
Enjoy being out in nature, maintain an active and healthy
lifestyle, rollerblading, biking, water, exploring life's
mysteries, real conversation, and excited about new
Would be interested in exploring caves, water, schlitterbahn,
having a few drinks, camping, waterskiing, biking, rollerblading,
wild flower center, parks, swimming, deep conversation on
Might like to try: sky diving, hang gliding, renting a small plane
for the afternoon, checking out a good live band.
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