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42 Austin, TX Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:43pm
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English, C++
My self-summary
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I am polyamorous and happily married to Long_Live_Life_. I am here to find and make connections, have adventures, and hopefully find a spark.

As my username suggests I am into evolving my consciousness. Back nearly 20 years ago I experienced a transcendent sublime state of bliss and deep oneness that lasted for about two weeks. In that moment I woke up to a whole new world of energy and possibilities...

The bliss and high didn't last but I have been spending a good chunk of my life dedicated to cleaning and clearing all the density and darkness within my being. Each step I take, each fear I face, I earn one more step back into bliss.

My hope is to find someone who can also resonate with the whole spiritual evolution idea... I find that relationships are immensely helpful for mutual growth when done consciously. Everyone has their shadow, not everyone is comfortable facing it. I am looking for those who are comfortable taking risks, being spontaneous, and exploring their depths!
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a software architect with a fortune 100 company. I work from home and love the freedom and flexibility that telecommuting has to offer.

I am into my personal growth and spirituality. I am not a member of any religion. I prefer to access the wisdom of the universe from within through being in nature, having quiet time, various energy practices, and meditation.

I also exercise 5 days a week, biking and basic weight training.

My wife and I have two kids who are home schooled, and two dogs. We have been happily partnered for 15 years and we really enjoy creating a life being true to ourselves. We pride ourselves on having excellent communication which I feel is why our relationship is so strong.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making friends wherever I am at.
Getting comfortable quickly in new situations.
Connecting with people in a more personal way.
Organizing, fixing, problem solving, relationship advice.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes, my warm smile, and my open heart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lately most books that I read are more spiritual in nature than those for fun. (Eckhart Tolle, Ram Dass, don Miguel Ruiz)

When I watch movies I am drawn to more action/adventure or a suspenseful movies. (Pirates of the Caribbean, Matrix, LOTR, Avatar). I also love everything by Hayao Miyazaki (Spirited Away, Castle In The Sky, Ponyo,...).

Shows I like include Star Trek (TNG, Voyager), BattleStar Gallactica (new), Babylon 5, Weeds, The Big Bang Theory, HGTV House Hunters, Avatar The Last AirBender.

For music I mostly listen to progressive (Dream Theater, Symphony X, Scale the Summit, Seventh Wonder). I tend to listen to music when running or working at home or when alone in the car. I love going to concerts and when I have no one to go with I happily go all by myself.

I like to eat mostly healthy, gluten free, and avoid fast food for the most part. Tex-Mex is awesome, pretty much anything but seafood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Deep Conversation
New Experiences
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Manifesting my future and consciously creating the life I desire. That life includes health, wealth, travel, openness, enlightenment, friends, great food, exciting new experiences, and lots of love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes I like to have a quiet evening at home and other times I like to get out maybe to a movie at our local Alamo Drafthouse or dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love to fly but am somewhat afraid of heights. I was in training for my private pilots license and sometimes would have panic attacks before jumping in a Cessna 172 to fly solo out of a busy airport. I refused to let the fear hold me back and earned my private pilots license.
You should message me if
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If you are ok with dating a married guy who has the full love and support of his wife.

Understand or resonate with some of the following terms: vibration, energy, intuition, ascension, star seed, indigo, chakras, and 11:11.

Are interested in building a fun and intimate relationship even if we can only be together part time.

Willing to go slow. Friendship first. Building energy!

Enjoy being out in nature, maintain an active and healthy lifestyle, rollerblading, biking, water, exploring life's mysteries, real conversation, and excited about new experiences.

Would be interested in exploring caves, water, schlitterbahn, having a few drinks, camping, waterskiing, biking, rollerblading, wild flower center, parks, swimming, deep conversation on anything/everything.

Might like to try: sky diving, hang gliding, renting a small plane for the afternoon, checking out a good live band.