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31 Jackson Heights, NY Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–67
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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If you're around tonight (Saturday August 28) come by for a small orgy at my place in Jackson Heights

I grew up in rural Idaho, was a huge nerd, moved to DC to go to school, got arrested a few times at labor protests, flunked all my classes while spending the weekends hitchhiking, hopped freight trains, dropped out of school, moved to China, lived in Portland, got a job working with disabled folks, fell in love with the job, hitchhiked across the country visiting schools, decided on Columbia, finished school without flunking my classes, now I have a job doing organizing work people with disabilities.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm the Coordinator for the New York City Region of the Self-Advocacy Association of New York State.

I get to work for an organization where the board is made up entirely of people with developmental disabilities. They make decisions about our finances, policy, staffing, and they are happily my bosses.

I manage a small office in Manhattan with 5 part time staff and a bunch of volunteers; all people with disabilities except for myself. We are responsible for organizing 50,000 people with developmental disabilities in the 5 boroughs. We do education work, and direct lobbying, but mostly we organize self-advocacy groups which are groups entirely controlled by people with developmental disabilities.

It is my dream job and we get to work on a lot of exciting issues. We are trying to create a space where folks don't just have a voice, but have real power over their own lives.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm very open.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The two book series that make me wanna cry every time I think about them are Sherwood Smith's Inda books and Robin Hobb's Farseer Trilogy.

I also love Lev Grossman, Jim Butcher's Codex Alera, Patrick Rothfuss!!!, Hunger Games, Asimov's Foundation series, Earthsea, Chronicles of Chaos Trilogy, Otherland by Tad Williams, Stephen Donaldson, The Black Company, Kim Stanley Robinson but only the Mars Trilogy, A Fire Upon the Deep and a Deepness in the Sky, Neal Stephenson (but hated Anathem!), The beginning books of The Malazan Tale of the Fallen, Game of Thrones, China Mieville, everything of Brandon Sanderson except The Way of Kings and Alloy of Law, Wheel of Time, His Dark Materials, and William Gibson

I only try to own music that I've seen live, and I try to go to as many DIY show as possible. Love Priests, Downtown Boys, The Gloomy Ones, Little Waist, Malportado Kids, Shady Hawkins, Household, Chain and the Gang, Neonates, Olivia Neutron John, Told Slant, Baby Mollusk, Nine of Swords, Aye Nako, Curmudgeon, Young Trynas, Upset, Tacocat, Peach Kelli Pop, Mannequin Pussy, Penguin, Screaming Females, Shellshag, 3Jane, Hive Bent, Tiny Tusks, Tomboy, Whore Paint, Hot Tears, Cayetana, Girlpool, Chumped, Pinkwash, All Dogs, Jawbreaker Reunion, Perfect Pussy, Vagabond, Florist, Alice, All Dogs, The Yowler, Jawbreaker Reunion, Blizzard Babies, Amanda X, Manors, Crabapple, Noun, Turnip King, R.L. Kelly, Barf Troop, Slutever, Girlpool, Mitski, Palberta, Bad Canoes,

Honestly, though, TV drives me more than most things do. I can't get The Shield out of my head. I still cry about Pushing Daisies being cancelled. I have Good Wife fantasies every day. I freak out about Breaking Bad. I want to burn down the ABC Family offices for canceling Huge. Shameless and Adventure Time are also recent loves for me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Not sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have gone on a lot of OKCupid dates
You should message me if
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Sample messages:

"Hi Ev! Would you like to take me on a date to a cute tea shop?"

"Ev! Would you like to play board games or indie pen and paper RPGs with me?"

"I am an exciting submissive who would like to have rough dirty sex with a confident dominant!"

"I don't feel comfortable with sex or a date but can we please talk about this specific fantasy/kink I'm interested in?"

You should certainly message me if you have a very pretty dress you love opportunities to show off, or if you're a huge fan of cute underwear and lingerie.