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31 • Jackson Heights, NY • Cis Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–67
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, casual sex
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body Type
- Not at all
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t want kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
I get to work for an organization where the board is made up entirely of people with developmental disabilities. They make decisions about our finances, policy, staffing, and they are happily my bosses.
I manage a small office in Manhattan with 5 part time staff and a bunch of volunteers; all people with disabilities except for myself. We are responsible for organizing 50,000 people with developmental disabilities in the 5 boroughs. We do education work, and direct lobbying, but mostly we organize self-advocacy groups which are groups entirely controlled by people with developmental disabilities.
It is my dream job and we get to work on a lot of exciting issues. We are trying to create a space where folks don't just have a voice, but have real power over their own lives.
I also love Lev Grossman, Jim Butcher's Codex Alera, Patrick Rothfuss!!!, Hunger Games, Asimov's Foundation series, Earthsea, Chronicles of Chaos Trilogy, Otherland by Tad Williams, Stephen Donaldson, The Black Company, Kim Stanley Robinson but only the Mars Trilogy, A Fire Upon the Deep and a Deepness in the Sky, Neal Stephenson (but hated Anathem!), The beginning books of The Malazan Tale of the Fallen, Game of Thrones, China Mieville, everything of Brandon Sanderson except The Way of Kings and Alloy of Law, Wheel of Time, His Dark Materials, and William Gibson
I only try to own music that I've seen live, and I try to go to as many DIY show as possible. Love Priests, Downtown Boys, The Gloomy Ones, Little Waist, Malportado Kids, Shady Hawkins, Household, Chain and the Gang, Neonates, Olivia Neutron John, Told Slant, Baby Mollusk, Nine of Swords, Aye Nako, Curmudgeon, Young Trynas, Upset, Tacocat, Peach Kelli Pop, Mannequin Pussy, Penguin, Screaming Females, Shellshag, 3Jane, Hive Bent, Tiny Tusks, Tomboy, Whore Paint, Hot Tears, Cayetana, Girlpool, Chumped, Pinkwash, All Dogs, Jawbreaker Reunion, Perfect Pussy, Vagabond, Florist, Alice, All Dogs, The Yowler, Jawbreaker Reunion, Blizzard Babies, Amanda X, Manors, Crabapple, Noun, Turnip King, R.L. Kelly, Barf Troop, Slutever, Girlpool, Mitski, Palberta, Bad Canoes,
Honestly, though, TV drives me more than most things do. I can't get The Shield out of my head. I still cry about Pushing Daisies being cancelled. I have Good Wife fantasies every day. I freak out about Breaking Bad. I want to burn down the ABC Family offices for canceling Huge. Shameless and Adventure Time are also recent loves for me.
"Hi Ev! Would you like to take me on a date to a cute tea shop?"
"Ev! Would you like to play board games or indie pen and paper RPGs with me?"
"I am an exciting submissive who would like to have rough dirty sex with a confident dominant!"
"I don't feel comfortable with sex or a date but can we please talk about this specific fantasy/kink I'm interested in?"
You should certainly message me if you have a very pretty dress you love opportunities to show off, or if you're a huge fan of cute underwear and lingerie.
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