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49 M Brooklyn, NY

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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
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Mostly other
Atheism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
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Relationship Type
Has kids

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My self-summary
I was in primary school when I read about the Great Wall of China. I dreamed of one day being there but it didn't go far, other dreams came along. Twenty two years later, climbing these very rough uneven steps, some very small and some so high it took two to clamber up that book & dream hit me between the eyes. I've lived my dreams. With sacrifice, discipline, fun and commitment my life is enriched. I'm David and originally a Kiwi, that’s a New Zealander if you're unsure. I’ve travelled the world, lived in various countries, experienced many cultures & learnt some tough lessons along the way. I hope to meet someone with the same appreciation of people, places, cultures & life’s surprises.

A friend sent me this quote saying it reminded her of me. It resonates and speaks more powerfully than words I can write:
"This is the true joy in life, being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one. Being a force of nature instead of a feverish, selfish little clod of ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy. I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community and as long as I live, it is my privilege to do for it what I can. I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work, the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no brief candle to me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations."
George Bernard Shaw

I was a violin maker and restorer for 23 years working with the worlds touring soloists and orchestras. My commitment in being my best had me being one of the best in the world. I find myself attracted to people that enjoy life, laugh easily even at self, take life as it comes and at the same time carry an intensity of self. Someone who enjoys art and "the arts". I am supporting Geio (the Global Education & Innovation organization) and its vision of transforming ALL people through education whether 2 months old , 122 years and everyone in between. Someone who's spiritual, passionate, open, who lives their dreams and can express their depth speaks powerfully to me.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a startup I'm focused on that's transformational. I do personal transformation & spiritual growth; Sterling, Landmarks curriculum, School of humanity & awareness. I'm serving communities as I can.
I’m really good at
I've been told I'm a good listener, insightful and perceptive.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Any food thats well prepared
Secretary is a favorite film

Some quotes I live by:
"The qualities we seek in a great man would be vision, integrity, courage, understanding.......and what we might call profundity (depth) of character." Dwight David Eisenhower

“Be the change you want to see in the world”. Mahatma Ghandi

"Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm." Sir Winston Churchill

Living integrity: Being whole and complete with everyone left empowered. Doing what I say I'm going to do, doing what I know to do and doing what others expect me to do, whilst letting you know as soon as I know that I can't hold it.
The six things I could never do without
Classical music esp. Bach's cello suites & Beethoven and Bartok's string quartets, espresso, intensity, fun, love, I'm a cellist, my cello, sex and intimacy (kissing).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 39–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You're also looking for a playful partnership, the give and take we both bring. That deep intertwining of two people truly sharing & providing a safe place for one another and knowing what it takes to reach it or be ready to learn. I look forward to hearing from you.