"Talk not of wasted affection, affection never was wasted, if it enrich not the heart of another, its waters returning back to their springs, like the rain shall fill them full of refreshment; that which the fountain sends forth returns again to the fountain. -Longfellow

"Vice, Virtue. It's best not to be too moral. You cheat yourself out of too much *life*. Aim above morality. If you apply that to life, then you're bound to live life fully"

I don’t fit in with the stereotypical gay lifestyle, which is something that I‘m very proud of. I’ve got a good job, and I support myself. I guess you could say I march by the beat of my own drum. I do what I like because it's what I enjoy. I have a REAL dog…You know; one’s that weigh more than 12lbs? I like to take what I call "mental health outings". I'll get in my car and drive aimlessly until a I find something that intrigues me to stop. I like obscure things just because they're different. I’m definitely not a perfectionist. I find beauty in music, art, poetry, architecture and people.

I’m looking for like minded individuals (around my own age) who might like to have fun and enjoy life for a while.

"I dream about kissing someone so hard my mouth hurts. I dream about kissing someone so soft my heart hurts, so long my neck hurts, so deep my throat hurts. I dream about kissing someone so... completely that nothing hurts." If that’s you...You should probably hit me up.

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I’m an adoption counselor for the Nebraska Humane Society. In short…I find good homes for puppies and kitties. I couldn’t ask for a better job, I love what I do.

Making people smile, and or laugh. loosing my keys. rockin out to a good song in the car.

My laugh. its loud. People seem to enjoy it; however I think I sound like Roseanne.

A: (authors) Micheal Thomas Ford, Augusten Burroughs, Harper Lee...

B: Harold and Maude, First Wives Club, The Family Stone, Little Miss Sunshine, City Lights, The original Frankenstein, and Dracula, Vertigo, To Kill a Mockingbird...

C: Abba, Al Green, Andrew Sisters, Aretha Franklin, Barbara Streisand, Bette Midler, Black Eyed Peas, Bonnie Raitt, Boston, Captain and Tenille, Carly Simon, Carole King, Carpenters, Chicago, Citizen Cope, Dana Glover, Dean Martin, Dee Lite, Discover America, Dolly Parton, Doobie Brothers, Eazy E, Ella Fitzgerald, Elton John, Frank Sinatra, HIM, Jack Johnson, James Taylor, Jamie Cullum, Janis Joplin, Kathy Mattea, K.D. Lang, Kansas, Keller Willams, Lisa Marie Presley, Macy Gray, Madonna, Manhattans, Mary Chapin Carpenter, Matchbox 20, Meatloaf, Melissa Etheridge, Morcheeba, Neil Sedaka, Of Montreal, Patsy Cline, Paulina Rubio, Regina Spektor, Rockapella, Rufus Wainwright, Sara Evens, Sarah McLaughlan, Saving Jane, String Cheese Incident, Tattle Tale, The All-American Rejects, The Dresden Dolls, The Fiery Furnaces, The Hazzards, The Real Group, Tower of Power, Verve Pipe, Yonder Mountain String Band. Just to name a few...(I love music)

D: Anything italian!

1) Family and friends

2) Tea tree oil...

3) My puppy Ella (a.k.a. Ellabodacious, Ella B, B, Bug, or Bean.) (She responds to all of the above)

4) My trusty ipod

5) The word ascertain

How I prefer allusion over despair, playing in the rain, wondering why there isn't more establishments open late, love, where I left my keys, music, and lots of other things...just not all at once.

Enjoying life, like I should! Usually with my best friend, and partner in crime Megan.

Hmmm...I cry during movies. Not all of them, just some. :-)

Why not, you'll enjoy yourself. So...what are you waiting for? *Reach* out. Take a *chance*. Get *hurt* even. But play as well as you can, otherwise, you got nothing to talk about in the locker room.