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32 M Houston, TX

I’m looking for

  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:37pm
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has cats

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My self-summary
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I like to start fires and make art. I'm a sculptor. One time, I made a 15' trebuchet (it's like a catapult) that flung a metal chair 80 feet. My son is one of my favorite humans. I make a living by conserving and restoring decorative art objects, but I'd rather make a Rube Goldberg machine than polish old silver. I'm pretty handy and good at fixing things.

I am married to my best friend and lover. We are a happy, deeply-connected couple looking to date a woman in a triad relationship. Not really looking to be a bedroom pit stop, but could be open to play partners, if the circumstances are right. We are into some aspects of BDSM but are not lifestyle, just regular people with kinks. Looking for someone curious and open, intelligent and kind. Happy to pass along my wife's profile, too.

We like: art, live music, travel, deep discussions (small talk is DEATH). I like: dancing, staying up way too late, 420-friendly activities, and keeping the peace. She likes: making janky crafts, binge-reading, psychoanalyzing people, and telling it like it is (in a nice way). I am ISFJ; she is ENFJ.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making art, hanging out with my kid, playing in between responsibilities
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting together furniture, finding my way around in unfamiliar cities, problem solving, avoiding small talk, mediating other people's fights
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Rushmore but really anything Wes Anderson, zombie movies (from Night of the Living Dead to Shaun of the Dead or even the PJackson flick Dead Alive), Avengers, Defending Your Life, Groundhog Day, Steel Magnolias, Titanic, Love Actually, Moneyball, Gravity, This is the End

TV: The Walking Dead, Firefly, Mythbusters, Cosmos, Freaks and Geeks, Girls, The Daily Show, Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.

Books: I like how-to manuals, survival and adventure stories, and non-fiction. I'm dyslexic, so audiobooks.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Art (making art or looking at good stuff), Movies, Meaningful conversation with genuine people, self-awareness, introvert time, gadgets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Art, travel, BDSM, zombie apocalypse/catastrophe survival plans, humanism, wealth inequality
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Varies, but the focus is always on fun and relaxing from the week
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm red-green colorblind. Basically, red and green look gray to me. I usually cannot discern the difference between the two colors. What's weird is the number of things in this world that require a decision between red and green. Driving. Putting together your computer. Paying with a credit card. Christmas.
You should message me if
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You want to know more about me, or think I should know about you. You want to know more about my wife. You are poly or interested in a triad relationship. You laugh a lot. You are a feminist. You are curious about BDSM. You would rather walk around an art installation than spend an evening in a bar. You cannot wait for the new season of The Walking Dead.