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49 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 29–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:27pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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Nice guy here looking to meet guys for friendship or more. Ultimately, I'm looking to find the guy to build a life with. I'm an architect and urban planner and love what I do. I've been fortunate to work on some incredible projects. I love cities, but I also love escaping to the country. It's everything in between that can frustrate me.

NYC is my first love, but I also love to travel and spent a year in Rome studying architecture. Living abroad changed me forever.

Being from an Italian family, I love to cook, especially for others. It's an expression of love in my family. But I also keep fit, work out regularly, and maintain a healthy diet.

I enjoy the arts, theater, museums, walks through NYC, great restaurants and cafes, weekends in the country, antiquing, dinner or drinks with friends, and a nice glass of red.

Life is about quality, not quantity.
I love dogs. Recently lost my two magnificent mini-schnauzers and miss them every day. They taught me so much about life.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying time with friends and loving my work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking and a whole lot more. :) Kissing is one of the best parts of sex. It's like stepping on the pedal at a red light.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My shoulders.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - biographies, health and science, histories.
Movies - all over the map.
Shows - great plays and I do enjoy a great musical.
Music - again, pretty broad range. I do hate Nickelback, however.
Food - I'll eat almost anything as long as it's prepared well. I do love superfoods.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends, some connection to NYC, Italy, my toothbrush, dogs, my health.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it's all about, Alfie.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Really depends.
Gym and dinner at home.
Meet up with friends.
Drive up to my place in the Catskills.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I'm channel surfing and come across Airplane! I have to sit and watch it to the end.
You should message me if
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If something about me interests you. If you don't take any if this too seriously. You have a sense of humor.