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  • Ages 18-35
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Last online
Nov 8, 2014
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 8" (1.73m)
Other and laughing about it
Dropped out of University
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm a pretty strange cat - open minded, sincere, loyal, and always curious. I am a poet and mystic, my world is rather unlike the deterministic paradigm mainstream culture conditions us to accept. I take joy from the simple and profound alike, trying to remain positive without developing illusions. I'm generous with my resources, time, and affecton, even when I have very little to share.

I'm a dark side poet, and my poetry is an important aspect of my personality. I was first published when I was 8 in Highlights magazine and have continued writing at a fairly consistent pace since. Most of it's junk and has been left thoughtlessly scattered behind me like wasteful punctuation - scribbled on paper bags and left in phonebooths. Scribbled on phonebooths. Tucked inside jackets at the salvation army. Stuffed into furniture left out with the trash in the alley. Just screaming into the void. My professional examples and personal heroes have all been nonconformist, experimental, drugged out, mad, vulgar, frustrated, radical, really beautiful poets. If you're interested I'd love to tell you about it

I'm nonmonogamous, which doesn't mean i'm a huge slut or that I don't take relationships seriously, but it does mean that if you're only interested in a man who you can settle down and breed with I'M NOT FOR YOU; but if you want to pull beautiful dreams out of each other's minds, go wild off a bottle, break into the alley-walk like burrowing underground, talk for hours (or days) about possible metaphysical models or rapidly organized adventures; go to the disco, grab a slice, get stupid off the radical spliff unrolled, or just exchange some friendly messages - I got you on that

i sound like i take myself pretty seriously, but i've got a sense of humor too and enjoy flippancy.
What I’m doing with my life
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learning, laughing, further refining my intuition, distinguishing will from desire and peace from defeat.

strugglin along with service industry gigs, looking for investors and a partner to set up a black box theatre venue in the east end.

I'm not known for worldly ambition or love of conventional success. If you're one of those girls to whom it is critical that a man have - and love - money, you probably don't really exist anyway and should leave me alone.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
storytelling, keeping my cool, martial arts, reading people, leading people, rhythm section, saxophone, daydreaming, conversation, bringing enthusiasm to a group, solving problems, creative catharsis, board games, confusing people...
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my voice, my piercings
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Queen of Bohemia, Tao Te Ching, House of Leaves, Outlaw Bible of American Poetry, A Coney Island of the Mind, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, The Lords and The New Creatures, The Dead Emcee Scrolls, S√he and Everything Else That Holds It Together, The Book of Pleasure (Self-Love), The Apophenion, The Focus of Life, The Black Book of The Abyss, The Lurker At The Threshold, The Road to Madness, Hagakure, Liber Kaos, Said The Shotgun To The Head, The Book of a Thousand Nights and a Night

Movies: anything Joss Whedon puts out, Revolver, Snatch, Sin City, 21Grams, The Lovely Bones, Ghost Dog Way of the Samurai, Coffee and Cigarettes, Inland Empire, Twin Peaks, Blue Velvet, Mulholland Drive, Donnie Darko, Kill Bill

Music: DJ Krush, Aesop Rock, Beats Antique, Blockhead, Wu-Tang Clan, Saul Williams, The Blue Scholars, Atmosphere, DJ Shadow, Boards of Canada, Portishead, Radiohead, Cut Chemist, RJD2, Dr. Love, Little Dragon, Gorillaz, Bibio, Thievery Corporation, Pretty Lights, The Glitch Mob, Army of the Pharaohs, Audiobullys... If the music is good tho, I'll listen with pleasure to anything from bluegrass to heavy metal to experimental jazz

Food: burritos
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Survival necessities and human companionship. I do very well "without"
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Future
The Past
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In a bar loudly discussing cosmology, not making sense to anyone, then home writing about my own psychic earthquakes not making sense to myself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Dirty/Clean fetish
You should message me if
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You are not mutated

OR if you have a really fun mutation