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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-28
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My details

Last online
Sep 29, 2014
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5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm Ezra: A sometimes aimless and goofy creature with thoughts I express in odd ways, a Tulane junior and English major, a rookie transter (genderfluid/genderqueer-something other), a "writer," a citizen of my own little world, an only child.
(Any pronouns are ok except "it" but use "she" w/ less frequency plz)

INFJ if you care about that kinda thing.

Dating the lovely :)
(I would still love to use OKC for new friends and chatting though! But I'm not poly so yeah, don't try to flirt with me on here or anything)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just decided one day I'd inevitably become a librarian ( but I don't know what I really want to do?? I'm a lil clueless about future plans.
I definitely wanna move out of the south, and travel around the world if I ever have the money and free time to do so. Def. to Costa Rica and Iceland and yes I know those make an odd mix.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Bullshitting essays at the last minute but somehow doing ok, thinking too hard, finding the subtext, stumbling into odd movies and songs, stumbling into physical objects, being a shoulder to cry on, inventing weird band names, obsessing over movies, understanding where people are 'coming from,' making AMVs (MOST USELESS LIFE SKILL FTW. see below)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm awkward and apparently give off "only child vibes" to some people?? I get a bit too excited when talking about things I like. People say I have pretty eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
~a clusterfuck of a list in progress, in no particular order~

Books: The Gargoyle - Andrew Davidson, House of the Scorpion - Nancy Farmer, Cassandra Clare's books, Mason & Dixon - Thomas Pynchon, Watchmen, Harry Potter, Let the Right One In, Forbidden, Anne Rice(The Mayfair Witch trilogy, Cry to Heaven, The Vampire Lestat, Servant of the Bones, Violin), Push - Sapphire, You are SO Cursed (nostalgiafest), The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo

Movies: Jodorowsky movies, Otto: Or, Up with Dead People, Tekkonkinkreet, Mind Game (Studio 4C), Magnolia, My Own Private Idaho, Cry Baby, Breakfast on Pluto, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Requiem for a Dream, Pi, We Need to Talk About Kevin, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Mysterious Skin, Little Miss Sunshine, You and Me and Everyone We Know, What's Eating Gilbert Grape, Total Eclipse, Benny and Joon, Fantastic Mr. Fox, The Bucketlist, The Country Teacher, Let the Right One In

Shows: Orange is the new Black, 30 Rock, Parks and Rec, Adventure Time, Gravitation, Loveless

Blaqk Audio, The Cruxshadows, afi, Diamond Rings, Sia, Kimbra, Janelle Monae, Marilyn Manson, Danny Brown, blink 182, Green Day, Jay Brannan, Joanna Newsom, CocoRosie, Antony and the Johnsons, The Cliks, Geo Wyeth, Fall Out Boy, Klaus Nomi, Bedlight for Blue Eyes, Sound the Alarm, La Dispute, The Sound of Animals Fighting, The Number Twelve Looks Like You, Alesana, Alexisonfire, City and Colour, Panic at the Disco, Gotye, Passion Pit, Mykki Blanco, The D'Urbervilles

Food: I like a lot of things, just keep the clams and mussels away from mee. Actually I'm not much into crawfish either, what am I doing in New Orleans :P
(Oh well I am obsessed with bread pudding...)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- frandsss
- A GPS (so basically my phone) cause I neverrr know where I am (this may actually be a legitimate disability kinda like, "directional dyslexia" but idk what it's really called, if anything. I just don't remember where things are unless I have been there, the same exact route, a bunch of times)
- music
- good stuff to read
- cute aminals
- movies ;.;
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Gender, pretty people, the general oddity of the way existence came to be and the other ways things could have happened and how strange it is that everything fell into place so perfectly to make things just how they are now, religious possibilities or the lack of them, are ghosts real?, is there an afterlife?, the plot for the novel I WILL FUCKING WRITE ONE DAY K?, movies, things I read, things I'm worried about...the list goes on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe going out to dinner or a movie &/or goin on downtown adventures. Or just sitting in my dorm watching music videos w/ frands and giggling.

My ideal Friday night is seeing a band I love and waiting til after midnight to meet them.

Tulane confession- I never go to the Boot.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have anxiety and social anxiety, I'm trying to get over it. It's usually just with new people I meet and comes and goes in phases. I've been able to meet some people from here without exploding so, yay.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to wander around New Orleans checkin out fun cafés, shops, whatever.
You look forward to weird movies and being lazy is ok sometimes.
You want a concert buddy.

I'm queer (pansexual specifically) and transgender (and barely do anything to try to "pass" at this point in life) so if you're not okay with that, don't talk to me. I'm also not too wild about misogyny, racism, ableism, body-shaming, classism, aggressively anti-religious rhetoric and all that other fun stuff.