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I believe in the phrase "work hard, play hard", I have no desire for drama and choose to focus on the positive aspects of life and situations. I am a very appreciative person, I am very loyal and caring and love it when someone goes out of their way to make me smile. I am discreet, very genuine and honest. I am a straight shooter and know what I want; there is no guessing around, with me what you see is what you get.
I am looking for a man who is likewise affectionate, thoughtful, caring and independent. I am attracted to a confident and ambitious man, someone who cares about his personal appearance, who is kind, friendly, generous and shares some of my interests. Aside from the obvious "must have physical attraction", presentation to me is incredibly important; from how an email/profile is written to actual physical presentation. I aim to always make my date/partner feel proud about the way I look and likewise I want a man who dresses well. Suits are not required but sloppy dress code is really a turn off to me.
I don't need a man to be happy and complete, but I do enjoy being in a relationship, that is what I am looking for.