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27 Brighton, UK Non-binary, Genderqueer

Non-binary, Genderqueer

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Sep 14
5' 2" (1.57m)
Agnosticism and it’s important
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Back In Brighton, working as a teaching assistant, in between some life projects like building a house in rural Bulgaria, studying some more, staying put for a bit of time and possibly creating an awesome venue somewhere. I move around a lot, originally from Scotland, lived in Portland, OR and Vancouver, BC recently.
I'm pretty into non-preachy positive activism, especially in the queer and feminist areas. And doing artsy craftsy things and generally making my life a nice place to be in and be part of.
I write a lot of music and play a few instruments.
What I’m doing with my life
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Adventuring. As always.
(I'm talking pirates and treasure maps by the way, not wishy washy "life is an adventure")
Also: Writing wee songs, reading loads and loads, playing ukulele, playing with my rat(s), making things, trying to live insanely cheaply and find a job, going for walks in beautiful places, having open, amazing, exciting conversations with people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fitting into and being comfortable in an insanely diverse range of situations.
Also answering the question "where are you from?" in new and interesting ways.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My surname. Yes it is real. No it is not a Harry Potter reference.

Recently I've had random strangers tell me how much they like my hair. I then cut it all off and felt really guilty about it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have an obscenely eclectic taste in music, but have a special soft spot for anti-folk and the Velvet Underground. I also like comic books, Dan Clowes is my favourite of the comic book artists, Alison Bechdel probably closely follows. I have very little time for television except the odd Big British Castle (BBC) documentary series. And Doctor Who... I'm mainly only into films that make me think about something or are aesthetically pleasing. I like Jim Jarmusch a lot. I also love magical realism and fairy-tales, so Angela Carter, Jeanette Winterson, Italo Calvino, Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Was previously in life OBSESSED with the Beat Generation and they still stir something inside me. Would love to be currently seeing more live music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Making music.
All of the books.
People being honest and unpretentious.
The ability to go elsewhere.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. Nothing. Everything. Nothing. Kind of like what happens in a field at dusk.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not a very private person. But I do talk to my pet rat a lot and share food with him. Some people find this odd, I find it logical.
You should message me if
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Any of this sounds interesting to you and you want to meet up.
Or if you are willing to show me around cool parts of the city, it would be greatly appreciated.