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BBWandDDLG

32 New York, NY Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:10pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Greek (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I don't like to waste people's time , so before I make you read my novel -length profile , you may want to know firstly that I am here to meet someone wonderful and leave this site .... In other words , the whole online dating thing is just a necessary evil for me in my search for a real connection . I have no interest in eternally , endlessly , serially dating just for the sake of dating ! If you are are just looking for hookups , people to date all at once etc : Enjoy this phase of your life (it's Fun) , use protection... and move on to the next profile .

Now to the juicy part : Me . Like most people I am a complex, walking contradiction . I am lovely, sexy , smart, educated, intellectual , flirty , loving , lovable , extravagant, proud, confident , but also shy at times , articulate,sometimes intense and over the top , lady like when I need to be (and not very ladylike when I needn't be), stylish but also casual , beautifully shaped 6'1" BBW (In other words Fat and happy with the way I look , comfortable in my own skin ).

I am European and even though I have lived here for 6 years , I am still very straightforward and avoid sugar coating at all costs . I despise games, especially when it comes to relationships . I am looking for a real , grown up , full on relationship . And most importantly I am ready for it ( or at least I think so ).

I love being in love and I want to feel that magic again . I am not afraid of being single and I have been happily single for long periods of my life , however, I think life is so much more beautiful when you share it (good and bad ) with someone you love . I feel that I am a better version of myself when in a happy , healthy relationship . One that pushes me to be better in all aspects of life .

My career is now finally starting to pick up and take off so I don't have too much time to offer . Therefore If I am going to invest time on someone , it will only be for someone who has potential for something serious (in terms of our connection ). I no longer have time or energy to spend on casual , pointless encounters .

I want to meet my man , the one who will know to treat me like a Queen and who will enjoy being treated like a King. I want crazy , out of this world, mind blowing - I can't get my hands off of you - kind of love. . .

I crave to meet someone who interests me, who intrigues me who can first and foremost keep me intellectually aroused . Ideally someone informed , educated with a distinctive and bold personality , someone who has discovered his own style , who has formed opinions about the world we live in and isn't afraid to express them -all these qualities are sexy to me . As far as I am concerned (and hopefully you too ) sexy has nothing to do with looks , it's an attitude , a mind , a way of carrying your self, the way you make others feel around you . Now if my wonderful man also happens to be attractive, tall and the proud owner of a Great Dane (or other awesome big dog ) well that's a bonus!

At this point I am probably coming across as a desperate 30 something dying to get married and yearly shopping for wedding gowns - JUST in case lol ! Don't fret ! I reassure you , I am in no rush to get married and it has never been something I dreamed of or considered a goal or a necessity . If it happens it happens , if not I will certainly not feel unfulfilled because of it . But I am a go big or go home kind of woman . I am intense and love hard-core . I want a man to rock my world. I am not interested in just being with someone who looks nice just to avoid being single .

Notice: the key word here is MAN. I am attracted to full grown men . Not boys .
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a classical musician . A performer . I am a work in progress . I am trying to fulfill my potential in this world and hoping to one day be able to say that I made a difference in someone's life.

On a lighter note , I love to read , watch good (usually art ) films , go to museums , explore new restaurants, cook and dance (all sorts of genres.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being me.
Being straightforward and upfront.
Making people laugh.
Dancing.
Cooking.
Loving.
Preparing sweet surprises for my loved ones .
Making my loved ones feel loved.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My presence .
My intense eyes .
My height .
My coy smile .
My deep voice .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books (just a tiny sample of my favourites):
Albert Camus "l'etranger"
Jonathan Coe "what a carve up" (and pretty much all his books)
M.Kundera "the unbearable lightness of being"
David Mitchell " Cloud Atlas"
Meir Shalev "a pigeon and a boy"

Films :
Lars von Trier Dogville, Tarkovsky "nostalgia",
"the piano teacher, "8 women",Almodovar films, Krzysztof Kieślowski : "bleu, blanc, rouge"
Mike Leigh films, hall ashby "the landlord", "the hours",
"milk", win wenders' "Pina" and "buena vista social club " and so many more !!!

Music :
Classical /opera
Light jazz /soul
World music (lots of it )
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mother (I know she isn't exactly a thing ...)
A roof over my head and warmth
Someone to Love
Someone to love me
Sex
Dreams
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life , destiny , the future (not a smart move )
My relationships , my career .
But also ;
How aggravating ignorance and double standards are . So many people here seem so confused. I read their questions section and the same person who admits to be very conservative , very religious , thinks that all gay relationships are a sin , a woman who has slept with many men is a bad person etc ... Is also comfortable with abortion as an option and wouldn't marry a woman before having sex with her -and my favorite : all gay relatownships are a sin BUT they love watching two girls make out ! Seriously people ... You can't just pick and chose morality and fake conservativism only whenever it is convenient for your sex /gender /lifestyle .... Think before you judge and pretend to be pious .
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Some times out dancing kizomba/zouk/kompas/Rueda de Casino(Cuban) / Salsa /bachata
Or watching a movie at the movie theatre...or checking out a new restaurant or cocktail lounge (bring on the retro lifestyle in NYC )Or at home reading a great book , sipping a great glass of Chateauneuf du Pape and thinking ...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I drive stick ! Yes, I m one of those cool European women .... Also : ddlg
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
(I think if this as a list of "bonuses" as opposed to "requirements ":

- you know how to pursue a woman old school style and don't play games
-You are a grown man who respects others and their time (aka you won't stand me up , cancel on me last minute every other date or generally run on Greek /island / black time call it whah you wish , you know what I mean ). I want a man I can rely on . A man of his word . Not someone that will always have me worrying if he will show up as agreed or not ....
-are STI-STD FREE And generally clean and tested
-are interested in spending lots of time together with your girlfriend and not looking for a 2-3 times a month type of relationship
-are educated or in any case are able to hold a conversation
- are not currently addicted to drugs /alcohol and have no criminal record...

You should definitely NOT contact me if :

-Your idea of communication is "I ll only text you when am horny , suggest to take you out , then disappear and ignore you until next time am horny " ... Seriously your number will be deleted

- you are still living with your "ex" or have feelings for your ex

- you are a selfish lover (yes I just said this)

-if you are a serial cheater.