Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you don't read anything else on my profile , at least read this
** I am looking to meet someone on here and leave this site .... In
other words , the whole online dating is just a necessary evil for
me in my search for a real connection . I have no interest in
eternally , endlessly , serially dating just for the sake of dating
What can I say ? I am lovely, sexy , smart, educated, intellectual
, flirty , loving , lovable , extravagant,proud, confident , shy ,
articulate ,sometimes intense and over the top , lady like when I
need to be (and not very ladylike when I needn't be), stylish,
beautifully shaped 6'1" BBW.... Looking for a real connection . No
hook ups. No casual sex . No games . I am looking for a real ,
grown up , full on relationship .
I want to fall in love again. My career is now finally starting to
pick up so I don't have much time to offer . If I am going to
invest time on someone , it will only be for someone who has
potential for something serious (in terms of our connection ). I no
longer have time or energy to spend on casual , pointless
I want to meet my man , the one who will know to treat me like a
Queen and who will enjoy being treated like a King. I want crazy ,
out of this world love. I want to meet someone who interests me,
who intrigues me who can first and foremost keep me intellectually
aroused ! Ideally someone informed , educated with a distinctive
and bold personality , someone who has discovered his own style ,
who has formed opinions about the world we live in and isn't afraid
to express them . Now if he is also attractive, tall and the proud
owner of a Great Dane (or other awesome big dog ) that's a bonus!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a classical musician . A performer . I am a work in progress .
I am trying to fulfill my potential in this world and hoping to one
day be able to say that I made a difference in someone's life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being straightforward and upfront.
Making people laugh.
Preparing sweet surprises for my loved ones .
Making my loved ones feel loved.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My presence .
My intense eyes .
My height .
My coy smile .
My deep voice .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books (just a tiny sample of my favourites):
Albert Camus "l'etranger"
Jonathan Coe "what a carve up" (and pretty much all his
M.Kundera "the unbearable lightness of being"
David Mitchell " Cloud Atlas"
Meir Shalev "a pigeon and a boy"
Lars von Trier Dogville, Tarkovsky "nostalgia",
"the piano teacher, "8 women",Almodovar films, Krzysztof Kieślowski
: "bleu, blanc, rouge"
Mike Leigh films, hall ashby "the landlord", "the hours",
"milk", win wenders' "Pina" and "buena vista social club " and so
many more !!!
Light jazz /soul
World music (lots of it )
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mother (I know she isn't exactly a thing ...)
A roof over my head and warmth
Someone to Love
Someone to love me
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life , destiny , the future (not a smart move )
My relationships , my career . But also :
why do people on here say they are looking for a relationshiop but
when it comes to it they say that they just want to have fun and
not looking for something serious ? Can it be that hard to know
what you want ?
Also how aggravating ignorance and double standards are . So many
people here seem so confused. I read their questions section and
the same person who admits to be very conservative , very religious
, thinks that all gay relationships are a sin , a woman who has
slept with many men is a bad person etc ... Is also comfortable
with abortion as an option and wouldn't marry a woman before having
sex with her -and my favorite : all gay relatownships are a sin BUT
they love watching two girls make out ! Seriously people ... You
can't just pick and chose morality and fake conservativism only
whenever it is convenient for your sex /gender /lifestyle ....
Think before you judge and pretend to be pious .
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Some times out dancing kizomba/zouk/kompas/Rueda de Casino(Cuban) /
Or watching a movie at the movie theatre...or checking out a new
restaurant or cocktail lounge (bring on the retro lifestyle in NYC
)Or at home reading a great book , sipping a great glass of
Chateauneuf du Pape and thinking ...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I drive stick ! Yes, I m one of those cool European women ....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
(I think if this as a list of "bonuses" as opposed to "requirements
-You are really looking for a serious relationship and are ready to
fall in love .
- you know how to pursue a woman old school style and don't play
-YOU ARE A GROWN MAN WHO RESPECTS OTHERS AND THEIR TIME (aka you
won't stand me up , cancel on me last minute every other date or
generally run on black time ).
-are STI-STD FREE And generally clean and tested
-are interested in spending lots of time together with your
girlfriend and not looking for a 2-3 times a month type of
-are educated or in any case are able to hold a conversation
- are not currently addicted to drugs /alcohol and have no criminal
You should definitely NOT contact me if :
-Your idea of communication is "I ll only text you when am horny ,
suggest to take you out , then disappear and ignore you until next
time am horny " ... Seriously your number will be instantly
- you are still living with your "ex" or have feelings for your
- you are not really interested in finding a connection that could
lead to a relationship
-if you are a serial cheater.
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