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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:43am
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Entering the online world with a rather stiff push from one of my friends who is my self-appointed dating coach. Do you have one? I'm a 12 year resident of NY. I love this town, but it's better enjoyed with someone special.
What I’m doing with my life
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Work in the restaurant industry. But what I REALLY want to do is direct!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Stating my opinion and making you laugh when I do it. I find its better then agreeing with me.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile. Lame. But its true.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies and Shows: Dexter, Battlestar, Lost, The Larry Sanders Show, The Honeymooners, anything Star Trek, Batman.

Binged on all the Oscar nominations this year. I'd have to say Her was the best movie this year. Ironic as I turn to this website for another crack at love. 12 Years a Slave was good. Just wasn't funny as I thought it was going to be.

Books: The Things they Carried, Slaughterhouse Five

Music is something I always have enjoyed through other people.

Food? French.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no order:
A mountain to climb or trail to hike.
Sleep (suffer from insomnia from time to time)
GPS below 14th Street. Seriously Dutch civil engineers, ya' ever heard of a grid?!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The current state of political affairs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With my friends. I like you if I introduce you to them. (That was then)

Now? I'm home. I've worked on and off in the restaurant industry for so long now that being in a crowed bar or restaurant on the weekend USUALLY triggers some form of PTSD.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I first registered Republican. We all make mistakes. (when I was 17)

Now I'm slightly to the left of FDR. My father? Rolling in his grave.
You should message me if
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You are honest, sincere and willing to try new things.

Also, don't mind if I tell a really inappropriate joke in mixed company. In fact, I'd prefer if you relished it.