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factorystill

49 Los Angeles, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:38am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I apologize in advance. I always hate when I click on a profile and realize it was someone whose profile I had seen a bunch of times before and I clicked on it because they had a new picture up or had re-written their profile and I hadn't realized it was the same person that I wasn't interested in before. So, yeah, sorry.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Father, business owner, philosophy study-er, little league watch-er, homeowner, cook-er, eater, drinker, guitar player (kinda - used to be - now I just play to amuse myself), (former) traveler (between business and kids I haven't been anywhere in forever - help!), (cigar) smoker, fixer, giver, joker and probably countless other "er"s
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Organizing. Cooking. Philosophy. Redundancy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If they just see me on the street, probably the tattoos and the rugged good looks (ha!). Once people get a chance to talk to me for a few minutes its probably a sense of disconnect - I really am equal parts blue-collar, roughneck, punk rock lunkhead and intellectual, sophisticated aesthete.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Esoteric, dry, academic essays - if you're really interested - "On Denoting" - Bertrand Russel, "Über Sinn und Bedeutung" - Gottlob Frege, "Mind, Language and Reality" - Hilary Putnam, "Naming and Necessity" - Saul Kripke.

God Bless America - anything by Bobcat. Audition, Bitter Moon. I cried watching Blue Valentine.

Mostly Al Jazeera America but, oh my goodness, have you seen Naked and Afraid? So freaking compelling.

This is where the punk rock lunkhead really shines through - Bad Religion, Supersuckers, Nashville Pussy, Zeke, but just to show I'm not a total meathead Tom Waits and...wait for it...Amanda Fucking Palmer

Providence, Huaraches de Azteca, Fogo de Chao, Zelo's, Ludo.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm supposed to answer this in a way that isn't obvious (even ironically, like "air") and not absurd (like "eating flaming hot cheetos , naked on a unicorn" - to show you how creative, wild and spontaneous I am) but in a personal way that says something about me that you would otherwise not have guessed, yes? Uh, I don't know, I'm stumped.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Necessity and contingency.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending 2 hours cooking a gourmet meal...which my kids won't eat. ("Wait, papa, what exactly is lamb?")
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Alright, I know some of you will judge me. I know admitting this will cause attractive people to snicker and page through. But, I'm lonely. I've only been on a handful of dates in the past couple of years - no relationships, period. I miss having someone to share with, someone that cares about me. Someone to just spend time with. I think I'm an ok guy with a generous heart and an easy laugh, but I've isolated myself out of fear and disillusionment. Suffice it to say, I have a real hard time writing first, and for a guy on this site, that seems to be straight fail.
You should message me if
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Don't you just love all the profiles that use "healthy" and "active" and "can't live without the gym" as shorthand for "my definitive characteristic is that I'm not fat". Those same profiles invariably seek "active, fit and ambitious", which basically translates as "rich and, oh yeah, no fatties". Meanwhile, over 1/2 the country is morbidly obese. I don't have a list of requirements. How do you know what you won't eat until you've tasted it? It's not what you wear, it's how you wear it. I try to see the beauty in all people. Seriously, I try.