fagintheattic
36 Orlando, FL
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My self-summary
Mildy eccentric, HIV+, kind-hearted smArt-ass, who lives downtown and enjoys riding his bicycle and walking under the shade trees, driving to the beach with the windows down and the music loud, doesn't get wrapped up in social status b.s. or trying to possess a ton of things, remembers his feelings about people instead of their names, is artistically creative, musically inclined, gainfully employed, honest, sincere, centered, and full of life, living in the moment right here right now.

My Ethos:
Every interaction is a chance to transmit love, whether romantically, brotherly, or even just by tolerating what one could have chosen to treat as intolerable...**I forget it sometimes if I get too self-important, too cool, to busy, but as often as possible, I get to loosen up a bit and play with the people around me by doing or saying something silly to instigate laughter, often at my own expense... sometimes, if I step aside from what --->I<--- feel and what -->I<-- want, there is the opportunity to behave sympathetically, or empathetically, even when vindication might seem justifiable, and when I take that opportunity, life begins to feel better than if I believed I were the center of the Universe all the time. Novel concept.
What I’m doing with my life
I do hair and love it, and work on projects for a small I.T. company too, but neither defines me. Into a LOt of music, but will save the sub-genre/artist name-dropping for later...I will say that the dance-or-make-out-to-it-in-your-skinny-pants variety is what I favor. When I'm dancing to a song that I'm into, thAt's when I feel most alive. Affecting people in a way that makes them feel more into being here now in this moment is also what I'm passionate about. I'm a whole person without a need to find my 'better half', but that one-of-a-kind guy who gets/digs me as much as I get/dig him would be a welcome addition, if we ever meet...and, as always, I'll keep adding what I can to each day and continue to pray a lot to that mega-consciousness, which keeps all of these subatomic charges buzzing away, because deep down I think it listens and responds. If that's the case, I've GOTTA be headed in the right direction :)
I’m really good at
Identifying the root of interpersonal conflict
Diplomacy
Kindness
Staying awake when I need to sleep
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm most often told it's my smile :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
wAY too long to even go there right now. will get to it later.
The six things I could never do without
Awareness
Reliance on a power greater than mySELF
Loving kindness
Humor
Music
Ice cream
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-All the details regarding my move to West Hollywood, CA before I turn 35...
-What the next action will be
-How beautiful different aspects of nature are
-Ways to improve how I live
-Whatever I just watched on TED.com
On a typical Friday night I am
Cutting, coloring, and or styling hair...putting together music tracks...walking...riding my bicycle...writing...eating out...dancing in my apt.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Privacy is crucial.
You should message me if
You feel inclined to...
and ESPECIALLY IF you:
like to ask questions as much as you like to answer them
prefer 'courtship' rather than hooking up right away and insta-dating
heart TED.com
are into french disco/house, icelandic post-rock, new wave, etc...
like to play Chess
own a large mean penis that is attached to a fun[ny]/nice person
thrive on laughter
you've seen, been abducted, or been raped by a space alien, or ghost
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