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40 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.86m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from med school
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
Thank you for viewing my profile. Until this summer (2013), I am bicoastal, alternating between Boston and San Francisco as I transition my medical practice to the latter city. This marks a return to my beloved Bay Area, and I am excited and grateful for the opportunity.

I think deeply, act deliberately, and hope always to live more wisely and well. I value authenticity, kindness, and wit; I feel more at ease with intimate conversation and warmly engaged eye contact than with the din and clamor of strangers and crowds. Frequently struck by beauty, I accept my sentimentality.

I can be foolish but might listen if you say so, nicely.

I value solitude as much as closeness. I need touch. There are many kinds of silence, some of them comfortable, even nourishing.

I am a sports fan but not much of an athlete. Years ago, I approached mediocrity at basketball. As proof I offer a bum knee, a tricky spine, and a few inconspicuously chipped teeth.

Sunshine buoys me, although I am quite nocturnal. I love my work as a doctor and enjoy a small number of fine friends.

When I see a dog, I smile and involuntarily say, "Doggie."

I appreciate courtesy and social grace.

I alternate between believing that I can sing well and acknowledging that I might be mistaken.

I might kick you in my sleep, or speak nonsense (also, usually, while asleep). For these I apologize in advance.

I hope to find here a companion who lives an examined life but does not suffer too greatly as a result.

I want someone who likes ideas, is present in the moment, and accepts that I flunked yoga and adore my sofa. This is not to say that I am sedentary but rather that I manage to counterbalance my couch's need for company with my own for physical activity.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it, gratefully, and more comfortably in my skin than ever.
I’m really good at
Making conversation, writing, folding laundry, eating cookies, giving back scratches, and making my hair look pretty much the same no matter how it's cut. This list might be incomplete. I hope it's incomplete.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, smile, and house-arrest anklet. One of these is untrue.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fiction: Goethe, Hardy, Stendhal, Fontane, Flaubert, Hemingway, Carver, Ford, Saunders, Bausch, Dubus, Nabokov, O'Connor, McCarthy, Barnes, Brookner, and many others.

Movies: Nearly anything with Jimmy Stewart; Clint Eastwood spaghetti Westerns; The Matrix (hey, I'm a guy); LOTR (hey, I'm a dork); Wes Anderson films (I'm also geeky-cool); The Big Lebowski; Fargo; Taxi Driver, Raging Bull, and GoodFellas; Pulp Fiction, Reservoir Dogs, and Kill Bill; So I Married an Axe Murderer; and tons more.

TV: The Walking Dead, Mad Men, Homeland, Louie; South Park, Futurama, Family Guy, and American Dad; anything about astronomy and the universe; and prison documentaries. Yes, I said that. Deal. It's an actual subgenre. And I'm snobbish about prison shows. I prefer Lockup, Lockdown, and Hard Time. Cops and Jail are beneath me.

Music: Weezer, Pearl Jam, Mumford & Sons, The Airborne Toxic Event, Joshua Radin, Glen Hansard, Cake, U2, the Beatles, Ben Harper, PJ Harvey, Radiohead, Pink Floyd, Jack White, Guster, Foo Fighters, and many more.

Food: Pizza, burgers, breakfast cereal, PB&J, pastries (so naughty), fruit, bread; clearly, I'm a carb-hound. Also Indian, Thai, and Italian. Pub food is a pleasure. Pass the steak fries, please.
The six things I could never do without
1. Sunshine
2. People
3. Dogs
4. Stories
5. Music
6. Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Psychology, psychiatry, and psychotherapy; human behavior and human nature; literature and language; doggies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying good food, drink, and conversation with fine friends; or relaxing quietly at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
In the second grade, I sneezed into my hat. The result wasn't pretty.

I panicked and threw out the hat.

Okay, it was a yarmulke. Yes, I sneezed into, then discarded, a skullcap intended to demonstrate my humility before God.

Evidently, I wasn't quite the champion problem-solver that I am today.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
...you enjoyed my profile.