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fairredphoenix

36 / F / Straight / Single

Alexandria, Virginia

Her Details

Last Online
Apr 11
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I like living in this town, but meeting people has been surprisingly difficult. I am looking to meet interesting, open-minded and relaxed people who don't live to work. My job doesn't define me, so I think the "what do you do for a living" question is a cop-out. I'd rather know what you love doing. I love dancing, goofing off with my friends, finding new places to eat/drink and spending time with my dachshund.

I hate the cold, so I'm thrilled that it's starting to warm up and look forward to not wearing 17 layers of clothing. I am however capable of getting a chill even in 95 degree weather- it's a skill I have.

Also, I am a cookie fanatic. I love them.

Please note that I am looking to meet people *near me*. This does not mean on the same coast or even "only" 50 miles away. That's just silly. If I have to pack an overnight bag just to see you, it isn't going to work.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm dedicated to improvement- as a person, as a dancer, as a pet owner and friend. Trying to work smarter, not harder. Trying to learn how to freakin' cook already.
I’m really good at
I'm a competitive latin dancer and have been dancing in one form or another all my life. It's safe to say I will continue dancing for the rest of my life as well. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
Hair color/cut
Eye color
Loud laugh
Smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Millennium Trilogy by Stieg Larsson
Movies: The Fall, Legend, Monty Python & the Holy Grail, Billy Elliot, L.A. Story, the Three Amigos, Dangerous Beauty, Army of Darkness, etc.
TV Shows: The Big Bang Theory, How I Met Your Mother, Glee, Mad Men
Music: Everything from black/symphonic/metal/prog rock (Porcupine Tree, Opeth, Nightwish, the Gathering, Amorphis, Dimmu Borgir) to 80's (Depeche Mode, the Smithereens, Heart, Journey) to quirky chick singers (Bjork, Tori Amos, Patty Griffin, Ani DiFranco) to poppy stuff on the radio (Rihanna, Bruno Mars). Also big into goth/industrial and house/techno.
Food: Indian, Thai, Greek, Italian
The six things I could never do without
Books to read, stimulating conversation, music to dance to, simple yet tasty food, intimacy with a good-looking man and my makeup bag. LOL
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the fact that dancers can't make it in this world unless they are willing to take their clothes off. Sad truth.

Also, how I managed to buy the cheapest, no-frills Toyota 13 years ago and the damn thing is still running. I don't want a car payment, but would really like to drive a grown-up car at some point.
On a typical Friday night I am
usually having a dance lesson, then am off to dinner and drinks somewhere. If I'm not that aspirational, I'll be sitting on the couch watching a movie with the pup.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Private things should not be admitted publicly.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 31–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are a confident, funny, laid-back guy who doesn't mind being challenged at darts or pool by a girl who will almost always lose, but will trash-talk with complete conviction.