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28 M Streamwood, IL

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 23–29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:42pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I like the days between fall and winter, hence the username.

I am horrible at remembering names and faces of people I don't interact with. That means some people at work end up with nick names like Santa Claus, Bald Guy from Legal, Blonde Girl with the Scrunchy Nose, etc.

I don't really get upset with people very often. I try to always put myself in other peoples shoes and see things from their perspective. Its hard to be upset with someone when you can empathize with them.

I have a better memory with details than I do with the larger picture. That means sometimes I will forget what bar we went to that one time but I will remember what it smelled like and what color the walls were and that the bartender looked like Nathan Fillion.
What I’m doing with my life
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I graduated with a bachelors degree in web design and am putting it to use at a IT non-profit association in Downers Grove doing design and content management. Its a cool job where I get to wear a lot of hats metaphorically and literally.

The people I work with got me into running so I've been doing that. It gives me the time to catch up on podcasts.
I recently ran The Shamrock Shuffle 8k in the city. I hadn't run that long continuously before and didn't think I had it in me but once I got going I just never stopped. It was an awesome feeling.

I've also found myself wanting to learn new things since I've been out of school but since I just paid off my student loan I'm in no hurry to get another one. So instead I've been using the internet to find free courses here and there on things that interest me like astronomy, gamification and programming.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm great at talking hypotheticals and somehow linking any two topics together by talking long enough.

I'm good at getting lost in wikipedia for hours learning about alge blooms or something completely unrelated to why I was there in the first place.

I'd say I'm good at constantly giving friends at work random unsolicited science and space facts I've read recently.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm a naturally thin guy. Eating like a vacuum doesn't do much. I guess my metabolism is just too amazing at doing its job.

And I'm usually quiet at first, but once you get to know me I don't shut up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have giant library of fiction, science fiction and some graphic novels. I'm usually ordering 3-4 books a month from amazon. I've just started getting into some biographies and science and economics related books. A few books I've finished recently: The Fault in Our Stars and Paper Towns by John Green. Also, American Gods by Neil Gaiman.

There really is way too many. Here are a bunch off the top of my head that I like. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Dr. Horrible's Sing Along Blog, Star Trek movies, The Avengers, The Cornetto Trilogy, The Alien movies, Garden State, Once, Pitch Perfect, Across The Universe. The Secret Life of Walter Mitty was really good. Gravity too.

Fringe, Doctor Who, Torchwood, House of Cards, Sherlock, Orphan Black, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Firefly, 24, Star Trek, Community, Battlestar Galactica, Torchwood, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Parks And Rec, Game of Thrones, Scrubs, Cosmos, The Universe, random stuff on PBS, etc

the pillows, Lillies and Remains, Straightener, The Kills, Empires, The Dead Weather, Do Make Say Think, The Shins, Ronald Jenkees, Cage The Elephant, Paramore]], Spitalfield, Two Door Cinema Club, C418, Chipzel, Broken Bells, Grouplove

I listen to a lot of podcasts too: This American Life, The Skeptics Guide To The Universe, NPR Intelligence Squared Debate, Freakonomics Radio, Planetary Radio, Science Fridays, TED Radio Hour, Giantbomb Cast, The Story Collider

pumpkin log, thai food, bacon.
Update: a friend introduced me to a place in the city that sells the best Puerto Rican food not made by my grandma and I can't stop driving an hour into the city just to eat there.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My niece & nephew, friends, internet, books, family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about a lot weird stuff. Like the heat death of the universe, if time is cyclical, or the technological singularity. Sometimes I think about normal stuff like zombies, buying a huge telescope, picking a color to paint my house, peoples motivations and why they do the things they do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Driving too far to see movies in theaters with recliners, playing cards against humanity, late night video games with friends, reading, finding people to play extremly long and complicated board games with
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have been known to do math for fun.
You should message me if
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If you have a great sense of humor.
If you want to go to an Adler After Dark event some time.