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31 Houston, TX Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 10
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Seeing Someone
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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******** Let's Dive ----- I need/want more dive friends....sadly unless you have a bc on with a tank, mask, and fins --- I can be a bit hard to catch. Always looking for dive buddies in Houston/Austin/Padre. Debating a trip out on Fling too again soon. *********

Me - Quirky, outgoing, nerdy, quick on my feet, intelligent and always on the go. I love: travel, movies, new/interesting beers (pale to IPAs), reading, foodie, hiking, legos/nanoblocks, researching history (WWII specifically), or finding fun/interesting festivals or museums to check out. I have recently gotten very into SCUBA diving. I own all my gear and am always looking for dive buddies. Since March 2014, I have gotten my open water, nitrox, shipwreck diving, night/limited visibility and deep water diving certifications. My next goal is becoming a master diver and completing search/rescue/life saving skills. Most of my free time I can be found at one of the dive parks or trying to get on the next RIG dive. I hang out all over the city (which to a non-native is everything from The Woodlands, Cypress, Sugarland to Galveston and Kemah.) Rice tends to be one of my stomping grounds though I have several. I love to travel, and am working my way around the country/world as time/money allow.

I moved to Texas over Labor Day 2012 and explored most of Houston and Texas seeing more than most see in 20 years. I have done quite a few trips and made friends in Dallas, San Antonio, Austin, Corpus Christi and Padre.

**Several people have commented on my profile having a sexual slant.......I have thought about pursing a PhD in sexuality mostly specializing in human trafficking/sex workers. I have traveled extensively, often alone, making this also a safety concern for myself. I have done volunteer work for more then 15 years and am certified as a rape and domestic violence counselor in 3 states.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have 2 goals in life: 1 - Travel the world twice, once alone and once with the person I love. 2 - Open a legal foundation the size of the Bill and Melinda Gates foundation. (The business plan/marketing plans are already written).

Living an extremely fun semi-nomadic lifestyle. I figure it is cheaper to live in different jumping off points to explore different parts of the world. I have lived and traveled both coasts before moving to Houston. Seattle is next on the list and my time is approaching rather quickly to leave. I will move to Seattle, the same way I moved to Houston. Once I get a job in the city, arrange an apartment, and pack up my little apartment taking only what fits in my car and head off into the sunset. I still would like to live in Chicago before making a big move to Berlin Germany. I miss the European mentality of experience over material possessions.

In DC I was in business development and an analyst for Naval Aviation and Warfare as a govt contractor (like 80% of DC). I loved what I did, but with the defense budgets shrinking, jumping ship early made the most sense. Originally from DC, it will always be home. Houston and LA were interesting but not for me.

OKC has always been good to me. I use it for everything from finding a local tour guide when I travel, to life long friends, and at some point would like a long term relationship. I usually make great friends who have shown me either the new place I call home, or a city I am exploring for a day/weekend/week or year. In turn I have tuned into the city and show locals a thing or 2 about their own cities. I explore the cities I live in, just as I would a city I am in on vacation to see.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
All depends who you ask....
- Exploring cities/Adventure/Planning Great Trips
- Getting people out of their comfort zones
- Making people feel comfortable and opening up
- Marketing ideas and thinking outside the box.....
- Being controversial (I am told I am interesting and as 1 friend said interesting is often controversial)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Adventurous, red hair, energy level, easy to talk to about pretty much anything and my emotions show on my face and in my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books/Authors: Sex and Power, SLUT, The Diary of a Madame, Being an Expat, Anything by Hillary Clinton, Bill Clinton, Maya Angelou, and Madeline Albright.

Movies - Kinsey (I was looking into the Univ of Amsterdam where the Kinsey project is studied), American President (Politics is perception and perception is people's reality), Primal Fear (Norton's best and Laura Linney is awesome!) or the Illusionist. Ironman and the Avengers too. Because of LA , I notice lots of little technical aspects of movies from being around the industry.

Music -- Everything from Jazz to Techno, though more upbeat. Everything but the Girl is my favorite band, other favorites include Janet Jackson, Madonna, Billy Joel, Genesis, Aerosmith, and Bon Jovi.

I have seen a ridiculous number of concerts/shows while in Houston(and somehow have become sorta a regular at HOB): Trombone Shorty, Darcy James Argue's Secret Society (Big Band), Avenue Q, Suicide Girls Burlesque, Kathleen Madigan, Tran Siberian Orchestra (2x), BB King, Eric Clapton, Bruno Mars, Boney James, Matchbox 20, The Goo Goo Dolls, STOMP, Courtney Love, Sugar Ray, Fastball, Smash Mouth, Gin Blossoms, Maroon 5, Cher, Pat Benetar, Odd Ball Comedy Festival, Bill Cosby, Kevin Nealon, and Houston Symphony's 50 Years of James Bond and Beyond and Luck Be A Lady: A Night of Frank Sinatra, 100 Years of Broadway and Lindsey Sterling.

Food - I am very much a foodie and enjoy everything from high end experiences to holes in the wall. I love sushi but hate the smell of cooked fish, nor am I a huge fan of pasta. I love spicy and cultural foods! Tapas is by far the best style to eat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Computer, blackberry (no touch screen for me), airline tickets, adventure, updates on current events, and independence.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Getting back to living a healthier lifestyle, the next SCUBA dive (anytime I get in the water I am happy), and how I plan to build my life in Seattle. I am looking forward to the next move as it will be getting back to working in industries I love with companies I strongly support.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Grabbing a beer later in the evening or relaxing at home. Usually need the downtime. I have been up fairly early Saturdays starting my weekend adventures, while Sundays are for sleeping in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not looking to have kids of my own, maybe adoption one day or step kids. Someone mentioned to me this seemed out of place, but this is a dating site and my biggest pet peeve is wasting people's time. (mine and others).
You should message me if
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If you are interested in making friends, exploring the breweries, exploring the city, good conversation, want a movie night buddy or a fellow foodie to explore a new restaurant with! Travel buddies are also a huge plus. At this point I will do trips alone, but company would be a nice.

I am looking first and foremost for friends.