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46 Santa Clara, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Nov 13
White, Other, —
Open relationship
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I have Seattle as my home. The moment I saw the skyline, the ivy, and the green and the grey, I knew this city was were I belonged.

I'm an odd mix of tense and chill. I can go with the flow when it's not important, but I will dig in hard when it is important.

I travel often, and will sometimes update my OkC location to where ever I am this week.

I regularly commit autodidactism. I love to learn, especially "hands on". Every year or so I add a least one new hobby, and have to drop an old one.

I have demolished a house with a crowbar while wearing a business suit.

I have been used as a canvas for body painting in an erotic theater.

I am an introverted people watcher, yet I enjoy public speaking.

I drink red wines, green teas, and dark beers.

I love the feel of a smooth nib against good paper.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Changing the world, as a secret grand vizier.

Learning more about people. This is always interesting.

Exploring new places, some of them inside my own head.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning a little bit about a lot of things, and a lot about a few things, and plugging them all together.

Introducing interesting people to other interesting people.

Getting strange cats to trust me.

Reaching things on the top shelf.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People remember me, far more than I expect them to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read book on how things work and how to make things go. I write in blank books. I keep a couple of books on my nightstand, two full bookshelves in my bedroom, and hundreds of books in my tablets.

Musc? My Pandora stations are seeded with Enigma, Deep Forest, Gregorian, Amethystium, Adiemus, Lesium, Era, VNV Nation, Katatonia, Tangerine Dream, E.S.Posthumus, Two Steps from Hell, Lindsey Stirling, The Piano Guys, Brian Eno, Vivaldi, Mozart, Bach, Shpongle, Infected Mushroom, the Dallas String Quartet, Bond, Praful, They Might Be Giants, Paul Van Dyk, Delerium, Tietso, and Nine Inch Nails.

I enjoy drinking red wine, dark beer, and green tea. I like Indian food and asian noodles. I carry around my own set of chopsticks.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Interesting people.
A smooth pen to write with.
An interesting project to work on.
Delicious food to eat.
Beautiful things to think about.
Skin on skin.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How people think. How to make something work.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting in a cafe, reading a book, taking notes, learning something new.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Many years ago someone told me I was the most touch-hungry person they had ever met. And yet, I'm very careful and aware of who I touch and who I let touch me.