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31 M Ithaca, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 23
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English, Thai (Poorly)

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My self-summary
My life is good -- most of the time. I like to be playful. Really, I just want to have fun. I like it really hot -- I know weird for an Ithaca native. I used to travel to Thailand for six months every year to avoid the winters, but now I'm more settled here and only travel occasionally.

I like to talk about things, deep things, surface things, intellectual things, or whatever things. Seriously, let's just have a conversation -- one where we listen to each other.
What I’m doing with my life
Playing music with my band Black is Green, teaching SAT test prep, tutoring high school math, playing and watching soccer, and thinking about how to better understand my emotions. Or getting drunk and making a fool of myself, making myself laugh, and plotting my next pirate takeover of a local drinking establishment.
I’m really good at
Lots of things: playing music, problem solving, being honest and open...forgetting to eat and then stuffing my face with lots of yummy things. I'm a good cook when I have someone to cook for. I also give great back rubs, preferably with a happy ending.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Let's have one of each to start....
Book: Franny and Zooey
Podcast: Dan Savage, or Radiolab
Movie: Wristcutters: A Love Story
Show: True Blood
Music: Black is Green obviously, or Jeff Buckley
Food: Mmm, Thai food - Bla Duk Foo
The six things I could never do without
This is question is so silly... how about the three instruments I don't want to go without:

Cello -- love it, played it, electric preferably.
Electric Bass -- um yeah, that's my thing, low end rocks.
Guitar -- I think it's the easiest instrument to write music on alone.

Obviously I love strings. Other instruments are fabulous, I just happen to be terrible at them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why openness and honesty are so important, and how to implement that.

My loving non-monogamous partner.

On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends, having drinks somewhere, and shooting the shit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I see a therapist once a week, and I love it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Message me if you are sex positive and interested in dating someone who wants to communicate openly and honestly with his partners.