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32 Ithaca, NY Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 25
Straight, Heteroflexible
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English, Thai (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I live with my long term partner in a committed and loving non-monogamous relationship with mallephicent. If you are interested in talking about ethical non-monogamy, you should send me a message.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Playing music with my band Black is Green, teaching SAT test prep, tutoring high school math, playing and watching soccer. Smiling, laughing and playfulness are really important to me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of things: playing music, problem solving, games (I'll probably win) being honest and open...communicating and being a good friend. I also give great foot rubs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Let's have one of each to start....
Book: Franny and Zooey
Podcast: Dan Savage, or Radiolab
Movie: Wristcutters: A Love Story
Show: True Blood
Music: Black is Green obviously, or Jeff Buckley
Food: Mmm, Thai food - Bla Duk Foo
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This is question is so silly... how about the two instruments I don't want to go without:

Electric Bass -- um yeah, that's my thing, low end rocks.
Guitar -- I enjoy writing music on it.

Other instruments are fabulous, I just happen to be terrible at them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends, having drinks somewhere, and shooting the shit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I see a therapist once a week, and I love it.
You should message me if
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Message me if you are interested in someone who wants to communicate openly and honestly with his partners.