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38 / F / Straight / Single

Garden Valley, California

Her Details

Last Online
Feb 17
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Artist, educator, mother, sci-fi fan, nature-lover, eclectic taste in music.
I like hanging out with people, camping, hiking, softball, having dinner get-togethers or spontaneous picnics in the park. Spur-of-the-moment activities are great! I'm a big fan of enjoying cultural events in the city, or even just strolling and people watching. Mostly I spend time at home, doing home things.
I love people who are talkers, sometimes I'm quiet and introspective and just enjoy listening. And sometimes I want to talk. I enjoy debating issues and ideas, but not arguing.
I have a 15 year old son who gives me confidence that humanity will be ok and the younger generation will do quite well actually. I have sole custody of him, full time. Love to play catch with him, go camping, and go on long trips in the country, stopping whenever we see something interesting. I'm totally ok with welcoming new kiddos into my life. I love children.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently an assistant in a special education classroom (Emotionally Disturbed), and love it. (I am a certified art teacher, but I'm planning to get my special ed certification.) I am a member of a local art gallery- I really enjoy the location and the people there.
I’m really good at
I'm a peacekeeper. I like people to be happy and content, and to only fight when something real needs to be fought over.
I'm also not too bad at gardening and outdoor work. I like being out in the vegetable and herb gardens, with the sun on my skin.
I'm pretty good with animals and children. And other things, too, I'm sure. I can play softball (I play softball in the summer), and actually, I am pretty good at most physical things, despite being out of shape.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm quiet and I have long hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Irish punk (Flogging Molly), rock, classic rock, female singers, and much more.
Books: SciFi/Fantasy, non-fiction outdoor and science stuff, whatever sounds interesting (I love to read).
Movies: Adventure, Sci/Fi mostly. Not a big movie or TV watcher.
Food: Yum (yeah, a few extra pounds here, need to hike more, eat less, lol!). I actually have pretty healthy eating habits, not a big junk food eater.
The six things I could never do without
My son
Growing stuff
Art
Reading
Stargazing
Purpose
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about how I can do better in life, how I can teach my son to be a respectful, responsible, caring citizen, how I need to get out more and be more involved in my community, and all of the other things adults tend to think about in life.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home, dinner, playing games. Not much going on on Friday nights in my life right now. Wouldn't mind changing that once in awhile- I like hanging out with people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't feel guilty when I feel like I need some time to be totally lazy.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 34–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you like to sit and watch the stars, or enjoy nature, or go to museums and art galleries, or read, or take me out on an adventure doing something you enjoy, or for any other reason you think we might get along.