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fallinfred

35 M Saint Louis, MO

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:32pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces
Education
Working on university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, French (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
After being off of here, I decided to give this site a try again. I've updated all parts of it, and I hope you enjoy!

I enjoy doing just about anything, as long as it is in the right company. Theater to basketball, running to snuggling on a couch, reading to jumping out of airplanes. You name it, it's a great experience as long as you are with the right person. I also like camping, hiking, live local music venues, sporting events, special events and festivals, volunteering, and hanging around the house. I may get a dog again if I don't find someone to snuggle with soon.

I worked with kids for 12 years for a non-profit, then left to go back to school. I now work in sales, and am still working on my Bachelors in Communications. I am not sure exactly what I want to do, yet, but I don't want it to consume me anymore, like work did for so long. I've learned that I have to make time for me, and that means for "you," too. I've figured out I could do more good by taking care of my needs, than by sacrificing myself.

I definitely want to find the right woman and settle down... but I have settled down with the wrong woman a few times, and need to make sure she is right before I get too comfortable this time. I mean... I am a big boy, and I can take heartache when it comes my way, but I don't want to if I can avoid it. I'm not done following my heart, but I am thinking about things a lot more nowadays.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it. I have a hopelessly romantic go with the flow kinda mentality. That does not mean I don't have goals, dreams, and plans of making both of those achievable... I have all that stuff bottled up, and I think about it and act on it, but I live in the moment.

I volunteer at least a few times a week for a 1/2 hr or so. I'm slowly learning to play the guitar. I like to read and write poetry, maybe even read it aloud at coffee house from time to time. I'm an avid skydiver, and have been for many years. My perfect match doesn't have to jump, but would need to be open to my doing it. I exercise pretty regularly, and push it to run a 1/2 marathon or Tough Mudder every once in a while. I cook most of my own meals - love to cook! I'm known for unusually mixing and layering flavors. I'm doing the sales gig right now, and we will see where it goes. Still in school for my degree in Communications, and as soon as I am done I will get back into non-profit management. I hope it works, because I signed my life into debt for student loans :-)
I’m really good at
Listening
Making myself laugh
Making others laugh, just not as often
Teaching
Trying new things
Remembering quotes, and then forgetting them before I can say them.
The first things people usually notice about me
So, I asked around for this one. The consensus was voice first, eyes second. Both were because it made them feel comfortable with me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love too many books to name. I like pretty much anything I read, if for totally different reasons. Pretty much the same with movies, but I especially like good war movies, and Saving Private Ryan is my favorite. If I spent the evening with someone I really wanted to be with, the sappiest romantic comedy could become my favorite movie because of the good time I had watching it with her. I'm a little selective with music on my mp3 player: a mixture of alternative, R&B, indie rock, rap, classical rock, and even a tiny bit of pop. When it comes to food I eat just about anything except liver and radishes. Especially anything spicy. A few favorites are Sushi, Thai, Indian, and Italian from The Hill.
The six things I could never do without
Hope - I'd make some up if I didn't have it.
at least a few loved ones - I'd meet new ones if I lost mine.
Water - ummm, I'd boil or purify water from somewhere.
Food - I remember from a survival class how to make a pretty decent salad from field greens.
Oxygen - yeah, nothing I can do about that one.
Music - I'd start singing and making my own!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What could be. What I've learned today. What challenges I am facing, and how to overcome them. What are a few bright sides to every dark thing that happens. How can I reduce the amount that I over analyze things.
On a typical Friday night I am
working, then hanging out with friends or sleeping because I have big plans on Saturday, or driving somewhere for the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That isn't really the guy from Breaking Bad in my picture. That was me on Halloween.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
-You believe in good communication in a relationship, and behave accordingly. Saying it is different than doing it.
-You can keep up a conversation about almost anything and enjoy it.
-You think you might want to get to know me. Chances are, I would like to get to know you, too!