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42 Waltham, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 31–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:45am
Straight, Heteroflexible, Sapiosexual
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 2" (1.57m)
Body Type
Full figured
Post grad
Wants kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You must watch this, I was so moved by it:

I went to grad school to focus on education for at-risk students, and feverishly wrote papers on resiliency of non-traditional education. Worked a number of years and lost touch with my focus. And then I went back to school for yet another grad degree: I got my master's in counseling and started a new career as a therapist. I love my job.. My clients are affiliated with Massachusetts DMH. I'm continually hopeful that recovery from mental illness is possible.

I'm deeply happy, self-actualized, and give love each day. I highly value social intelligence - kindness/generosity, empathy, tenderness. I smile widely and laugh frequently - life is a satire when you're at peace with the world. My sense of humor is a cool mix of dry/clever/witty and physical farce (Danny Kaye, Harold Lloyd). I enjoy humor embedded in professional and private situations.

I'm not perfect, and I don't expect you to be either. Actually, we're all works in progress... I enjoy seeing others improve, grow, and change. You know how some people grow apart? That would never happen with me... We'd keep it interesting.

NOTE: just because I don't mention traveling, adventure, or whatever it is you like doesn't mean I don't partake. Ask me!
What I’m doing with my life
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ACTIVITIES ++ I enjoy expanding my cultural and environmental horizons. For leisure, I love attending plays/theater/shows, exploring ethnic differences and similarities in food/art/culture, going to art galleries/museums, being outdoors at botanical gardens, state parks, -- and more!)

BODY ++ Currently trying to get motivated again - I work a lot...

When motivated, I'm working on improving my shape (I've a ways to go, please be kind) through kickboxing, walking, cycling, exercise/yoga DVDs; eating healthier

WORK ++ Clinician - love my work, but it's really intense...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-- finding adventure
-- reframing
-- loving
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
:::Reliable and trustworthy, earnest
:::My HUGE smile, and an open heart
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite getaways: North Woodstock, NH; Kancamagus highway; sailing down the Saco River; wading in the Pemigewasset River; Conway and North Conway, NH

I love Food!: Thai, Japanese, Indian, Cuban, Mexican, American, Ethiopian, Italian, Greek, Afghan

Film: favorites range from Arthouse films to quirky romantic comedies...Peter and Vandy; Life as a House; Spitfire Grill; the Love Letter...

Radio: I enjoy local radio stations NPR/wbur (Dear Sugar, On Point, this American life, the moth, TED radio hour, Fresh air), college radio, etc.

Music: Jon Anderson (lead singer of Yes had his own music career); prog rock, math rock, psychedelic rock; Yes, Rush, Battles, Rarebird; early music, world music, bluegrass, roots, Americana; Wishbone Zoe (Local band), Suitcase Junket (another local band)

Art: Wyeth paintings, abstract art, museums/galleries, Open Studios...

Culture: i love so many cultures...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Love, that undeniable feeling; unquenchable, luscious love...

2. My big, lovely and talented family (5 brothers and sisters)
3. Heart and soul talks
4. Title IX
5. Nutribullet blender = smoothies!!
6. Naps, hugs, and
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-:- how to help people transform their trauma into light
-:- the next fun thing...
-:- identity development in the context of educational, social, vocational, and moral pursuits
-:- Rapport
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies: out with friends to dinner, planning a date, or going solo, maybe watching a movie or relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a Harvard degree, got there from nothingness.... What did you do with your life?

I'm starting a family as a single mom - sperm donor picked already. Medical insemination in 2 weeks. You won't mind a pregnant girlfriend in 6 months.

Compatible with smart, sexy men

Searching 'near me' -- Strictly in Massachusetts, all others ignored, especially Texas, Turkey, Nigeria, Ghana, Indiana, California, NY, Alabama
Funny not funny.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. read every single word of this profile, and, in dripping anticipation of writing back to me - you actually write to me... know you would have my back, through life's ups and downs...because I'd have yours can express yourself in a way that I can totally get really get me!! love laughing...! 😄 want a monogamous long-term relationship...with an interestingly evolved woman are compassionate, communicative, culturally and socially aware, nonsmoker, self reflective, educated, ambitious, funny, and serious about a relationship. Let's see what happens...