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41 F Quincy, MA

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5′ 2″ (1.57m)
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Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Selling points: smaht, kind, educated, faithful, creative, cultured, open minded.

I'm looking for long-term relationship with a man who is well-educated (my grad degrees are from UMass Boston and Harvard). I'm highly confident that I need a creative guy who isn't boring. Ideally, if you have a Master's/PhD, it will get this woman salivating down there.

On top of that, I'm searching for a man who is kind -- I come from a really nice family. For example, my grandfather (for the sheer fun of it) used to drive people to/from places if they were blind or disabled. My uncle has spent decades as a well-loved and admired psychologist. The list of kind acts my family members have done is infinite. I am looking for someone to fit into the culture of my family.

I'm hilarious, approachable, and relatable. I've played practical jokes on my favorite Harvard professor/advisor over the years, catching him off guard and giving him a good laugh. I've honed my sense of humor over the years - a cool mix of dry/clever/witty and physical farce. I laugh frequently.

I'm usually very transparent with who I am. I won't be boring and say "ask me anything" like some people do here... Instead, I'll offer it up to you.

For leisure, I love to soak up culture (i.e., art galleries/museums, botanical gardens, state parks, plays/shows, exploring ethnic differences and similarities in food/art/culture -- and more!)
What I’m doing with my life
Helping others. Social justice. I'm a therapist/clinician at a local counseling center. I help individuals, children, and families regain foothold when life becomes difficult for them. I specialize in (A) in-home therapy (house calls to people who can't or won't travel to the office) (B) therapy in an outpatient/office setting. Both are fascinating to me, and I couldn't be happier!!

I'm also an event organizer for a diverse multicultural meetup group for women in Boston.

++I'm working on improving my shape (I've a ways to go, please be kind) through kickboxing, water aerobics, walking, cycling, exercise/yoga DVDs; eating healthier

Currently reading Baron Baptiste's book, Journey into Power. Next on my list is Red Hot and Holy.
I’m really good at
-- Giving you my attention & knowing when to back off and give you your freedom...
-- Asking good questions, general communication skills
-- helping people through ambivalent feelings
The first things people usually notice about me
:::My huge smile, and an open heart... it's obvious when you meet me
:::I get the job done *unless it is home repairs on ladders
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food: Thai, Japanese, Indian, Cuban, Mexican, American, Ethiopian, Italian

Film: favorites range from Arthouse films to romantic comedies...

Radio: I enjoy local radio stations NPR/wbur, college radio, etc.

Art: Wyeth paintings, abstract art, museums/galleries, Open Studios...

Culture: i love so many cultures...
The six things I could never do without
1. Love, that undeniable feeling, unquenchable, luscious love...

2. A few close friends, and my big family (5 brothers and sisters)
3. Empathy
4. Title IX
5. myfitnesspal
6. Nutribullet blender
7. Naps
8. Warm hugs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-Why OKC doesn't have any questions about parenting when there are clearly a ton of potential/divorced/unmarried parents out there
On a typical Friday night I am
It varies: out with friends to dinner, planning a date, or going solo, maybe watching a movie or relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I can't find you soon, I'm planning on being a single mom.

√ I laugh at Russ Meyer films

$$$ I come from an upper-middle class background but due to educational debt, I'm not at all wealthy.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if just want to know a good woman. 😇 love laughing. 😄 want to DATE ME💑.
You must: A) want kids🚼, B) have a college🎓 degree(grad preferred), and C) not smoke🚭 want FRIENDSHIP WITH ME.
We can walk&talk, hike, swim, or cycle, go to museums/galleries, see shows, talk chit-chat schmooze confab chatter and whatnot.