I don't want to waste anyone's time, I'm just looking for the love of my life. The whole package.
As long as you are compassionate, want kids, are communicative, socially aware, self reflective, educated, ambitious, funny, and serious about a relationship, that's all I really want and need. Forget reading the rest, just write me :)
I highly value social intelligence - kindness/generosity, empathy, tenderness. I surround myself with good people, and I'm looking for a man who wants to join me in experiencing this kind of intimacy within a relationship.
I smile widely and laugh frequently - that's because life becomes a satire when the drama ends. My sense of humor is a cool mix of dry/clever/witty and physical farce. I enjoy humor embedded in professional and private situations. I'm not perfect, and I don't expect you to be either. Actually, we're all works in progress... I enjoy seeing others improve, grow, and change.
I continued my education past undergrad because the areas of work I wanted to enter required more education. So I went to Harvard GSE for my master's in 2002 and UMass Boston for my master's in 2013.
I love my job...I'm a therapist, which is actually my second career. I used to be an education research analyst but I realized I'm better at being a sounding board for people who are going through stuff than I am at number crunching.
As Jason Silva says, I'm looking for the urge to merge, for an intimate long lasting connection... I'm looking for a comfortable, compassionate, nice man who loves life, people, and humanity, and wants a partner to share life with. I want to have kids in my next long-term relationship.
You must watch this, I was so moved by it:
NOTE: just because I don't mention traveling, adventure, or whatever it is you like doesn't mean I don't partake. Ask me!