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42 Quincy, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm deeply happy, self-actualized, and give love each day. I'm also fat, but I'm working on that. :)

I don't want to waste anyone's time, I'm just looking for the love of my life. The whole package.

As long as you are compassionate, want kids, are communicative, socially aware, self reflective, educated, ambitious, funny, and serious about a relationship, that's all I really want and need. Forget reading the rest, just write me :)

I highly value social intelligence - kindness/generosity, empathy, tenderness. I surround myself with good people, and I'm looking for a man who wants to join me in experiencing this kind of intimacy within a relationship.

I smile widely and laugh frequently - that's because life becomes a satire when the drama ends. My sense of humor is a cool mix of dry/clever/witty and physical farce. I enjoy humor embedded in professional and private situations. I'm not perfect, and I don't expect you to be either. Actually, we're all works in progress... I enjoy seeing others improve, grow, and change.

I continued my education past undergrad because the areas of work I wanted to enter required more education. So I went to Harvard GSE for my master's in 2002 and UMass Boston for my master's in 2013.

I love my job...I'm a therapist, which is actually my second career. I used to be an education research analyst but I realized I'm better at being a sounding board for people who are going through stuff than I am at number crunching.

As Jason Silva says, I'm looking for the urge to merge, for an intimate long lasting connection... I'm looking for a comfortable, compassionate, nice man who loves life, people, and humanity, and wants a partner to share life with. I want to have kids in my next long-term relationship.

You must watch this, I was so moved by it:

NOTE: just because I don't mention traveling, adventure, or whatever it is you like doesn't mean I don't partake. Ask me!
What I’m doing with my life
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WORK ++ I love what I do -- I get to help people increase satisfaction in their lives. It's so cool to see the change in someone.

CULTURE ++ I enjoy expanding my cultural horizons. For leisure, I love attending plays/theater/shows, exploring ethnic differences and similarities in food/art/culture, going to art galleries/museums, being outdoors at botanical gardens, state parks, -- and more!)

BODY ++ I love massages, so I get them every 2 weeks in Cambridge. Totally worth it!! I'm also working on improving my shape (I've a ways to go, please be kind) through kickboxing, walking, cycling, exercise/yoga DVDs; eating healthier; ++I'm contemplating weight loss surgery in March 2015 for more drastic immediate results.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-- romantic gestures
Oh...and by "good" I mean subtle and erotic.

-- finding fun, novel things to do in Boston
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
:::Reliable and trustworthy
:::My huge smile, and an open heart
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite getaways: North Woodstock, NH; Kancamagus highway; sailing down the Saco River; wading in the Pemigewasset River; Conway and North Conway, NH

I love Food!: Thai, Japanese, Indian, Cuban, Mexican, American, Ethiopian, Italian, Greek, Afghan

Film: favorites range from Arthouse films to quirky romantic comedies...Peter and Vandy; Life as a House; the Love Letter...

Radio: I enjoy local radio stations NPR/wbur (this American life, the moth, Fresh air), college radio, etc.

Music: Jon Anderson (lead singer of Yes had his own music career)

Art: Wyeth paintings, abstract art, museums/galleries, Open Studios...

Culture: i love so many cultures...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Love, that undeniable feeling; unquenchable, luscious love...

2. A few close friends, and my big family (5 brothers and sisters)
3. Empathy
4. Title IX
5. myfitnesspal/weight watchers
6. Nutribullet blender
7. Naps, hugs, and massages
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-:- love, sex, commitment, and enjoyment
-:- identity development in the context of educational, social, vocational, and moral pursuits
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies: out with friends to dinner, planning a date, or going solo, maybe watching a movie or relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
÷ I experienced severe hardship at age 18, lost a lot of time to the suffering... but I became stronger and wiser for it...ask me for details.

~ I am open to being with a bisexual man (I have before)... so it's ok to be open with me

√ I laugh at Russ Meyer's boobs films 👙

$$$ I come from an upper-middle class background but due to educational debt, I'm not at all wealthy.
You should message me if
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...your bulge is bigger after reading this profile... really want a monogamous long-term relationship...

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