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41 F Quincy, MA

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5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm fun to get to know-- playful, loving, kind, warm, bubbly, intimate, fiercely loyal, highly educated, have a fantastic career I'm passionate about, cultured, smart, open minded, ...and guys, the way to reach me is through my heart.

I'm temporarily overweight, so come get to know me and watch me shrink! See 2nd photo, you'll see my former self...

I'm looking for a long-term relationship with a man who is well-educated and passionate about his career (my grad degrees are from Harvard University Ed School and UMass Boston). I'm extremely confident that I need a creative guy who isn't boring. Ideally, if you have a Master's/PhD, I'll be happy!! On the other hand, if you don't, please try and understand me that I've been working hard, achieving my dreams...

In addition, I'm searching for a man who is simply kind and compassionate (making the world or your community a better place) -- I come from a really nice family. For example, my paternal grandfather used to drive people to/from places if they were blind or disabled and needed a ride- - never charged anyone - just liked the company ... and his son-- my uncle Bill -- spent decades as a well-loved and admired priest- turned- psychologist on long island. .. My dad, who worked for 40 yrs in the same industry, mentored young men in the business according to old school values...My father's and mother's siblings have dedicated themselves to others and are/we're employed in the human service fields (nursing, psychology, teaching, psychiatry)... bottom line, I'm looking for someone to fit into the culture of my wonderful family. I'm happy to describe my immediate family when we meet in person.

I'm hilarious, approachable, and relatable. I've honed my sense of humor - it's a cool mix of dry/clever/witty and physical farce. I smile widely and laugh frequently. I enjoy humor embedded in professional and private situations.

I'm usually very transparent with who I am. I won't be boring and say "ask me anything" like some people do here... Instead, I'll offer it up to you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
WORK ++ Helping others ... Social justice. I'm a therapist/clinician (mental health counselor) at 2 local counseling centers. I help individuals, children, and families when life becomes difficult for them. I specialize in providing (A) in-home therapy (B) therapy in an outpatient/office setting. Both are fascinating to me, and I couldn't be happier!! But the paperwork is not that exciting.

CULTURE ++ For leisure, I love to be active and soak up culture (i.e., art galleries/museums, botanical gardens, state parks, plays/theater/shows, exploring ethnic differences and similarities in food/art/culture -- and more!)

BODY ++ I love massages, so I get them every 2 weeks in Cambridge. Totally worth it!! I'm also working on improving my shape (I've a ways to go, please be kind) through kickboxing, walking, cycling, exercise/yoga DVDs; eating healthier; ++I'm contemplating weight loss surgery in December 2014 for more drastic immediate results.

(Low priority right now) READING ++ Currently reading books on weight loss, and exercise... like the Beck diet solution, and Baron Baptiste's book, Journey into Power. Next on my list is Red Hot and Holy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-- romantic gestures 😍
-- Giving you my attention & knowing when to back off and give you your freedom...
-- Asking good questions, general communication skills
-- self-reflection, rejuvenation
-- helping people through ambivalent feelings
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
:::Empathetic and non-judgmental
:::My huge smile, and an open heart
:::I get the job done *unless it is home repairs on ladders
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite summer getaway: North Woodstock, NH; Kancamagus highway; sailing down the Saco River; wading in the Pemigewasset River; Conway and North Conway, NH

I love Food!: Thai, Japanese, Indian, Cuban, Mexican, American, Ethiopian, Italian, Greek

Film: favorites range from Arthouse films to romantic comedies...

Radio: I enjoy local radio stations NPR/wbur, college radio, etc.

Music: Jon Anderson

Art: Wyeth paintings, abstract art, museums/galleries, Open Studios...

Culture: i love so many cultures...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Love, that undeniable feeling; unquenchable, luscious love...

2. A few close friends, and my big family (5 brothers and sisters)
3. Empathy
4. Title IX, and those who know why it's important
5. myfitnesspal/weight watchers
6. Nutribullet blender
7. Naps, hugs, and massages
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-:-Why doesn't okc have any questions about parenting when there clearly are a ton of potential/divorced/unmarried parents out there?

-:-Why did he let her go?

-:-Gender differences in online dating...just confirmed by a gentleman I met this summer,...

(HE)looking just for sex or short term gains
(SHE)having a family, and the lineage and legacy you are extending.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies: out with friends to dinner, planning a date, or going solo, maybe watching a movie or relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
😂 guys, I just saw the Nicki Minaj Anaconda video and laughed my a#s off!

√ I laugh at Russ Meyer's films (iconic director) 👙

$$$ I come from an upper-middle class background (My father is an excellent provider) but due to educational debt, I'm not at all wealthy.

() I'm a bow-legged woman ;)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 27–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. totally love laughing😄😂 which is different from sarcasm :/

...your bulge is bigger after reading this profile. 💋 💋💋 are serious about finding a good woman 😇

...and want to DATE ME💑.
(***This is the fine print***) You must:
A) want kids🚼,
B) have a college🎓 degree(grad preferred), and
C) not smoke🚭
...and want to be silly with your future family

...OR, if you want FRIENDSHIP WITH ME.
We can walk&talk, swim or cycle, go to museums/galleries, see shows, talk chit-chat schmooze confab chatter and whatnot.