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41 F Quincy, MA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:24pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I smile widely and laugh frequently - that's because life becomes a satire when the drama ends. My sense of humor is a cool mix of dry/clever/witty and physical farce (fav 1920s comedian is Harold Lloyd!). I enjoy humor embedded in professional and private situations. I'm not perfect, and I don't expect you to be either. Actually, we're all works in progress... I enjoy seeing others improve, grow, and change.

I continued my education past undergrad because the areas of work I wanted to enter required more education. So I went to Harvard GSE for my master's in 2002 and UMass Boston for my master's in 2013. I'm a therapist, which is actually my second career. I used to be an education research analyst but I realized I'm better at being a sounding board for people who are going through stuff than I am at number crunching.

I'm looking for a comfortable, compassionate, nice man who loves life, people, and humanity, and wants a partner to share life with. I want to have kids in my next long-term relationship... something about paying it forward.

You must watch this, I was so moved by it:
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
WORK ++ I love what I do -- I get to help people increase satisfaction in their lives. It's so cool to see the change in someone before they enter my office and after they leave.

CULTURE ++ I enjoy expanding my cultural horizons. For leisure, I love attending plays/theater/shows, exploring ethnic differences and similarities in food/art/culture, going to art galleries/museums, being outdoors at botanical gardens, state parks, -- and more!)

BODY ++ I love massages, so I get them every 2 weeks in Cambridge. Totally worth it!! I'm also working on improving my shape (I've a ways to go, please be kind) through kickboxing, walking, cycling, exercise/yoga DVDs; eating healthier; ++I'm contemplating weight loss surgery in December 2014 for more drastic immediate results.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-- romantic gestures
Oh...and by "good" I mean subtle and erotic.

-- finding fun, novel things to do in Boston
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
:::Reliable and trustworthy
:::My huge smile, and an open heart
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite getaway: North Woodstock, NH; Kancamagus highway; sailing down the Saco River; wading in the Pemigewasset River; Conway and North Conway, NH

I love Food!: Thai, Japanese, Indian, Cuban, Mexican, American, Ethiopian, Italian, Greek

Film: favorites range from Arthouse films to romantic comedies...

Radio: I enjoy local radio stations NPR/wbur (this American life, the moth, Fresh air), college radio, etc.

Music: Jon Anderson (lead singer of Yes had his own music career)

Art: Wyeth paintings, abstract art, museums/galleries, Open Studios...

Culture: i love so many cultures...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Love, that undeniable feeling; unquenchable, luscious love...

2. A few close friends, and my big family (5 brothers and sisters)
3. Empathy
4. Title IX
5. myfitnesspal/weight watchers
6. Nutribullet blender
7. Naps, hugs, and massages
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-:- love, sex, commitment, and enjoyment
-:- identity development in the context of educational, social, vocational, and moral pursuits
-:- race, class, culture, language, sex, gender, sexual orientation, disability
-:- how to better help my clients
-:- feminism
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies: out with friends to dinner, planning a date, or going solo, maybe watching a movie or relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
~ I am open to dating a bisexual man... so it's ok to be open with me

√ I laugh at Russ Meyer's films 👙

$$$ I come from an upper-middle class background but due to educational debt, I'm not at all wealthy.

÷ I experienced hardship I life, lost a lot of time to the suffering... but I became stronger and wiser for it
You should message me if
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...your bulge is bigger after reading this profile...