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41 F Quincy, MA

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5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm fun to get to know-- playful, loving, kind/thoughtful, warm, bubbly, intimate, fiercely loyal, highly educated--(Harvard and UMass Boston), have a fantastic career I'm passionate about, cultured, smart, open-minded, hilarious, approachable, and relatable. My sense of humor is a cool mix of dry/clever/witty and physical farce. I smile widely and laugh frequently. I enjoy humor embedded in professional and private situations.

I'm not perfect, and I don't expect you to be either. Actually, we're all works in progress... I enjoy seeing others improve, grow, and change.

I'm looking for a comfortable, compassionate, nice man who loves life, people, and humanity, and wants a partner to share life with. I'm at the end of the line for making babies, but I still have hope you're out there.
What I’m doing with my life
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WORK ++ I'm a therapist, which is actually my second career. I used to be an education research analyst but I realized I'm better at being a sounding board for people who are going through stuff than I am at number crunching.

CULTURE ++ For leisure, I love being outdoors, going to art galleries/museums, botanical gardens, state parks, plays/theater/shows, exploring ethnic differences and similarities in food/art/culture -- and more!)

BODY ++ I love massages, so I get them every 2 weeks in Cambridge. Totally worth it!! I'm also working on improving my shape (I've a ways to go, please be kind) through kickboxing, walking, cycling, exercise/yoga DVDs; eating healthier; ++I'm contemplating weight loss surgery in December 2014 for more drastic immediate results.

READING ++ Currently reading books on weight loss, and exercise... like the Beck diet solution, and Baron Baptiste's book, Journey into Power. Next on my list is Red Hot and Holy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-- romantic gestures
-- Giving attention & freedom...
-- Asking good questions, general communication skills
-- self-reflection, rejuvenation
-- helping people through ambivalent feelings
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
:::Generally optimistic
:::Reliable and trustworthy
:::My huge smile, and an open heart
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite summer getaway: North Woodstock, NH; Kancamagus highway; sailing down the Saco River; wading in the Pemigewasset River; Conway and North Conway, NH

I love Food!: Thai, Japanese, Indian, Cuban, Mexican, American, Ethiopian, Italian, Greek

Film: favorites range from Arthouse films to romantic comedies...

Radio: I enjoy local radio stations NPR/wbur (this American life, the moth, Fresh air), college radio, etc.

Music: Jon Anderson

Art: Wyeth paintings, abstract art, museums/galleries, Open Studios...

Culture: i love so many cultures...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Love, that undeniable feeling; unquenchable, luscious love...

2. A few close friends, and my big family (5 brothers and sisters)
3. Empathy
4. Title IX
5. myfitnesspal/weight watchers
6. Nutribullet blender
7. Naps, hugs, and massages
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-:- love
-:- sex
-:- identity development in the context of educational, social, vocational, and moral pursuits
-:- race, class, culture, language, sex, gender, sexual orientation, disability
-:- how to better help my clients
-:- feminism
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies: out with friends to dinner, planning a date, or going solo, maybe watching a movie or relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
÷ I experienced hardship, and it made me stronger

√ I laugh at Russ Meyer's films 👙

$$$ I come from an upper-middle class background but due to educational debt, I'm not at all wealthy.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 27–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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