INFP, 1.5-2ish on the Kinsey scale (I've been told.) I have a 3-year-old daughter. I have 4 tattoos and fully intend to get a lot more. I'm passionate about the things I care about and believe in, but not to the point of being fanatical. I lean pretty far to the left but not so far that I'm falling over. I'm claustrophobic but only in my feet. I absolutely positively cannot touch, look at, listen to, or be within reaching distance of cotton balls. I watch tv with the captions on. I have a minor obsession with fran drescher, and I'm a childhood cancer survivor (osteosarcoma, for you medical nerds out there.)
There is hardly anything that would genuinely offend me (humor-wise.) Jon Stewart, Trey Parker and Matt Stone, cracked.com... My sense of humor is crude and offensive to some. Ironically I'm having trouble being funny in this profile. Go figure. But I am funny, I swear.
Dating when I have a young daughter, I can't help but think "would I want her to do this/be treated this way?" If the answer is no, I can't justify doing it myself. I want her to grow to be a strong, confident, sexually empowered woman. And the only way to teach her how to become that is to be her positive example. That means no more assholes. Respect me or move on. That being said, I am a firm believer in "show respect to know respect." If you don't respect other people, they aren't going to respect you. Even if we ended up in a LTR, I would hope we could end things on a respectful term- the whole "you're a cool person, but we just aren't right for each other" thing.
I am extremely people pleasing, somewhat overly apologetic, but only when I really did something wrong. And if I really was wrong, I will be the first to admit it.
I like to DISCUSS, which some people take as arguing, but it's not. I respect all (intelligent) opinions, but love playing devil's advocate, and that can sometimes make me come across as argumentative for the sake of arguing, but it's more because I enjoy intelligent conversation. Some of my exes have said that talking to me is exhausting, but that was because they assumed I was arguing and they just wanted someone to tell them "yes dear, you're right" instead of making them think.
I'm putting this here so no one thinks i'm trying to hide anything. i'm a big girl. not quite "bbw", but i do jiggle when i exercise (which I do fairly regularly, but i'm not a fanatic about it.) If this is a problem for you, please don't bother contacting me. And please don't ask me to do the truffle shuffle, I'm not that coordinated.