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  • Ages 28-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
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Black, Native American
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You can read the following or skip down to the NOW OF COURSE part or if want to just know about me skip to About Me part.

So I had this conversation with a female friend. She had asked me why men can't be faithful. I said men can be faithful; we're just faithful to the woman we truly want to be with. And there are some who have enough restraint not to sleep around because they know what they want.

She argued that she was attractive, educated, and had a great job. I clarified that guys wants a woman they see as special/unique like a woman would. Men understands an attractive woman comes 15 a dozen (i know there's 12 in a dozen but there's more women than men), education didn't mean common sense, and a good job just meant we can split bills.

I told her a man respects a woman that respects herself first then him, a woman that will better him without making him feel like he's her project as opposed to her man. A woman that's not afraid to love him BUT not afraid to leave if he gets out of line. A man has to know there's a line he can't cross. Now I'm not saying you should threaten to chop off stuff. Lol. But the IRS, the government, and of course GOD has things in place if we do wrong and because of that we as people only go so far. Yes no one is perfect and people tend to violate/sin. But we only go so far in fear of losing our property, our freedom, and yes our souls. Unless that person just don't truly give a ..... And then you shouldn't be with anyone like that anyway.

I expressed she had to be something he couldn't replace because it was only meant for him (and of course the same applies to us that we have to be something that couldn't be replaced for a woman). If the only reason why he with you because you're attractive he can replace an attractive woman with another he finds attractive. He can replace an educated woman with another or whoever stimulates his mind, etc, etc. But what he can't replace is his missing rib. He can't replace what completes him and makes him a better person.

Note just because you support him doesn't mean you make him better. I could be a business tycoon that's an ***hole. If all you do is support that, that tells me you only with/support me because I'm a business tycoon.

Initially I lost her as a friend because she didn't realize what I was trying to point out but she returned years later and let me know she didn't find a perfect guy but she did find a guy she had a perfect relationship with because their effort to help and love each other despite their own imperfections made it perfect.

I know all women are not shallow or naive. And that this may not apply to everybody. But a man can be faithful depending on his type and I'm not talking about looks except when it comes to the very first one I mention. There's the type that's the friend (there's 2 types, the one we're not attracted to, will tell 2nd shortly), the one we sleep with (all we do is have sex), the one we date (all we do is date and it never gets serious or quote on quote titles never come into play), the one we be in a relationship/marriage with (the best decision to make at the time but not our soulmate), and yeah there is another. And the one we want to marry (normally the attractive friend that gets us and we enjoy being with, the one we feel/believe is our soulmate). Now the moral is unless he has morals or truly GOD fearing you'll basically know whether a man will be faithful if you know/find out which one he sees you as. So if he sees you other than the way you want then you need to leave. Trust me you can't change him. He will only change if he wants to.


Well a little about me. I love to travel, do outdoor activities, and impacting lives. Whether that's community work, etc. More important than anything else to me is GOD. I am very thankful to HIM for bringing me so far. I am a very honest person. Friendship means a lot to me so of course my friends are like my family. I'm between Charlotte and Winston Salem a lot because all my friends are in Charlotte.

I was raised by strong and independent women so I know how and when to be subtle and firm. I also understand the importance of humor and romance. So speaking of romance I'll even take you by your hand, gaze into your eyes and sing to you. So pick a song. Oh just so you know...I cannot sing. Lol. Pictured the seranade huh. Lol. You still can, just might receive some noise complaints from your neighbors. Lol.

I know it's important to pay attention to the little things that could make a woman blush or smile. I'm not the intimidated type so a strong personality or a woman's height is not an issue to me since I was raised by strong women and I've dated short and tall women. I'm a very straight forward person so if you're curious about anything else just ask.
What I’m doing with my life
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I travel a lot and seek out adventures. Attend social events and spend time with family and friends. Improving my relationship with GOD. I do a lot to help encourage youth and those I encounter. I enjoy writing. Adding to my travels. Plan to visit Seoul & Tokyo, and return to Europe again soon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm definitely not perfect but I'm good at whatever I put my mind to.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes/eyebrows. My confidence/demeanor/humility.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books; Bible, Rites of Passage. Movies; Legends of the Fall, The Warriors, Love Jones, Love & Basketball (double or nothing. Lol), Slumdog Millionaire, Ninja Assassin, Gattaca, Scarface, and The Notebook. Shows; The Walking Dead, Football, UFC, The Big Bang Theory, Shark Tank. Food; Italian, Caribbean, and seafood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
GOD, Bible, GODs greatest creation ( a woman ), sense of humor, purpose, passport. Lol
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
GOD, having my own family, travel, how to better help others, more travel, finding time to finish writing this book, personal improvement, and did I mention travel. Lol
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching Shark Tank. Afterwards out with friends. Unless a good basketball game is on.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I actually like The Notebook. Tell my friends and I'll deny it. Lol. Seriously, though that was really cool movie because Noah remind me of myself. (RIP James Gardner).
You should message me if
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You have a sense of humor, down to earth, adventurous, and drama is not your middle name. Lol