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45 Cambridge, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:31am
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Drownin' in the frowns of a million clowns.

Quick-witted mid-Atlantic transplant with a knack for grammar and words like "knack" seeks brainy, left-leaning, multi-instrumental sexpot.

I probably already like your dog.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I write interactive software for museum exhibits.

I distrust emoticons, and people who don't curse. I have ridiculously strange and minutely detailed dreams. I have a cabinet full of cameras and a fridge full of film and craft beer. I like arty porn, and porny art.

I steadfastly maintain that "issue" is not a synonym for "problem." Haphazardly-placed apostrophes make my teeth itch. ("Grape's: $3.99/lb")

Seriously. What the fuck is your issue?

I really like motorsports, but not NASCAR; other kinds, where they turn right as well as left, and speak languages like Italian, Finnish, and Spanish.

I like dark movies, and dark places, bourbon, banter and weird television. I've lived in India for two (separate) years. I sporadically try to teach myself how to play Link Wray songs on the guitar. I wish I could be a minimalist, but I've had sets of springs, shock absorbers and brake calipers in stacked in my hallway.

I get my adrenaline rushes from lots of things: Walls of guitars, oversteer, mountain scenery, the perfect beat-match, Wagner.

The range of relationships I'm looking for is wide at the moment, because I'm interested in all of them for now, but I'm not opposed something long-term; I just prefer not to go into anything looking for that specifically.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Spelling, driving, communicating, movie-critiquing, listening, problem-solving, staying up late. And frisbee.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
In combination with finding out how old I am, it's probably that I look so young.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Oh, you know.... Bartók and fIREHOSE, Amjad Ali Khan and Fugazi, Led Zeppelin and Beethoven, Hitchcock and Kubrick, Louis CK and Philip K. Dick and George Saunders, pepperoni, fontina and korma.....

The usual.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, sex, hope, art, a clutch pedal, and DEET.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Apex predators. Whiskey. Summer. Boobs. My friend's lake house. The desert. Thunderstorms. How the federal gas tax is too low.

Whether I'll recognize a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity as it comes along, or long after.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
watching old episodes of 120 Minutes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Dewpoint is my favorite weather datum.
You should message me if
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you want to go places and take pictures, or sit somewhere, drink beer or eat food and talk; you laugh out loud a lot, but almost never "lol"; if you just like the way I drop my bomb; or (especially) if you don't .