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32 M San Jose, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 18
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a minimalist, an information sponge, hedonistic, explorative, a kid-at-heart, goofy, alternative, unconventional, nonconforming, and a bit weird sometimes. I love nature, very outdoorsy and want to live amongst nature someday in a log cabin in the redwoods. I also love to travel.

While I like entertainment, I'm much more of a doer than a watcher, so I'm not a big tv, movie, music, etc. person, I'm more of a let's go out and play and get dirty kinda person.

I'm the kind of person you'll find endless information and experiences you never experienced or thought about. I'm very non-judgmental and usually more willing to go along with whatever crazy thing you're interested in.

I don't generally like to sit around and talk for the sake of entertainment, I like deep philosophical discussion, interests in what people want to do with their lives and how to improve them, and unconventional ideas.

I won't except "reality" if there's a problem with it. Like I won't say "that's just how life is"... I see that it doesn't have to be that way and I try to move in another direction rather than settling, even if it seems impossible. I reject your reality and substitute my own!

I do best with those who are proactive, alternative, intelligent, or fun and explorative. I don't do well with lazy, inconsiderate, or disrespectful people.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Exploring, learning, and trying to find beauty in everything, even where others might not see it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at finding the nooks and crannies of places I go, I love to explore. I'm a very experienced hiker as well.

I'm also very good at looking past flaws and being non-judgmental, but I have yet to find someone who can offer that in return, which deeply disturbs me sometimes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically, that I'm really skinny (genetics). Also older people always ask me what I'm studying in college because I still look like I'm 20. I seriously haven't aged a day in the past 10 years.

A ton of people tell me I seem very articulate, open minded, and intelligent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't find this section helps in making connections.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, food, air, shelter, hot showers, and nature. I'm a minimalist and don't need very much.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to fix problems with win-win solutions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Always different, whatever comes up. There's no "typical" with me usually.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
not admitting here
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- open minded or respectful of others' beliefs and interests
- proactive and don't let past baggage stop you
- caring, considerate, respectful, and responsible
- want to have adventures
- quiet or shy or laid back (I'm attracted to them). Loud people (those who like to be the center of attention) are too much for me usually).

Or you....
- love to cuddle and be affectionate (or really want to be)
I'm also open to finding cuddle buddies, I really love cuddling a lot! Just be open and honest about your expectations and I won't push any boundaries you don't want me to.