I have a "live and let live" policy in life and only do well with those who also do. If you're a judgmental person in any way, we probably won't click well because I don't live a very typical life.
I tend to like the alternative and different things in life, or just explore more of everything rather than box myself in to specific interests. I like the quirky, interesting, weird, bizarre, and unique things. I also tend to like things which are a bit grungy and dirty or messed up, like old rusted machinery, old furniture, old victorian houses, etc. I'm less attracted to brand new and ultra clean things.
I'm rather on the geeky side. I like computers and techy stuff, and do that for a living. But I'm not a gamer or very into nerdy or geeky things. On the contrary, I'm actually pretty good at sports and pretty active. I do enjoy geeky people, even though we might not be interested in the same things.
I tend to like people who are free thinkers and think outside the box. Those who are well traveled, nomadic, live a hippie rugged lifestyle, activists, or pretty alternative in general.
I don't really connect much with others. I can hang out with people of all kinds and people seem ok with me, but I often feel like I'm on another planet. I'm quiet, do my own thing, and don't find interest in a lot of what people talk about or are interested in. So if you don't like silences and think they're awkward, we probably won't mesh well.
I have ZERO patience for flakes, so don't even bother if you think you're flaky at all. We're all busy, get over it. I don't wait around for other people, I have far too much I want to do.
I consider myself pansexual, open to dating anyone I find attractive physically or personally. I have dated people of all races, genders, sexuality, etc. I tend to fall for personalities more than looks in general. But for looks, I do lean towards liking femininity more and find guys typically less attractive unless they have feminine characteristics (not always the case, but more often than not). I tend to find androgyny more attractive, whether that's fem boys or tomboy women, or those who fluctuate. I also fluctuate in gender myself, so you must be ok with getting rid of social gender norms.