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fang82

30 / M / Bisexual / Single

San Jose, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:04pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I like exploring the nooks and crannies of life. I'm a bit all over the place because of it, but I see variety as the spice of life.

I have a "live and let live" policy in life and only do well with those who also do. If you're a judgmental person in any way, we probably won't click well because I don't live a very typical life.

I tend to like the alternative and different things in life, or just explore more of everything rather than box myself in to specific interests. I like the quirky, interesting, weird, bizarre, and unique things. I also tend to like things which are a bit grungy and dirty or messed up, like old rusted machinery, old furniture, old victorian houses, etc. I'm less attracted to brand new and ultra clean things.

I'm rather on the geeky side. I like computers and techy stuff, and do that for a living. But I'm not a gamer or very into nerdy or geeky things. On the contrary, I'm actually pretty good at sports and pretty active. I do enjoy geeky people, even though we might not be interested in the same things.

I tend to like people who are free thinkers and think outside the box. Those who are well traveled, nomadic, live a hippie rugged lifestyle, activists, or pretty alternative in general.

I don't really connect much with others. I can hang out with people of all kinds and people seem ok with me, but I often feel like I'm on another planet. I'm quiet, do my own thing, and don't find interest in a lot of what people talk about or are interested in. So if you don't like silences and think they're awkward, we probably won't mesh well.

I have ZERO patience for flakes, so don't even bother if you think you're flaky at all. We're all busy, get over it. I don't wait around for other people, I have far too much I want to do.

I consider myself pansexual, open to dating anyone I find attractive physically or personally. I have dated people of all races, genders, sexuality, etc. I tend to fall for personalities more than looks in general. But for looks, I do lean towards liking femininity more and find guys typically less attractive unless they have feminine characteristics (not always the case, but more often than not). I tend to find androgyny more attractive, whether that's fem boys or tomboy women, or those who fluctuate. I also fluctuate in gender myself, so you must be ok with getting rid of social gender norms.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning everything I can while trying to maintain sanity in a backwards world and enjoy life for what it is. I'm also someone who is extremely open minded and will do pretty much anything that life throws at me.

I work for myself as a web designer and photographer.

I like to tinker and build things, mostly out of recycled or scrap pieces of other things. I've modified a lot of my personal belongings in some way or another, but you'd probably never be able to guess. I get frustrated with buying things you can't modify, so I usually avoid those.
I’m really good at
A lot of things. I'm REALLY good at roller blading (aggressive skating) and most sports. I'm also really good at fixing computers because I like to learn how things work and fix things that break.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically, that I'm really skinny (genetics). Also older people always ask me what I'm studying in college because I still look like I'm 20. I seriously haven't aged a day in the past 10 years.

Socially, people think I'm really shy, reserved, and aloof when they first meet me, but I kinda am at first. I warm up quickly to those who want to talk about more than just work and small talk interests. I'm not shy, I'm just uninterested. :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books about philosophy or psychology. Comedy movies. I like most music. Italian food. Maybe I'll update these with more specifics sometime in the future.
The six things I could never do without
Water, air, shelter...that's all. I'm a minimalist and don't need very much to live. Seriously, I lived several years with no more than what I could put in the trunk of my car and a mattress to sleep on. I've even lived in the forest before with no car or barely any personal belongings. It felt the same as living with a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, people, how to improve, how to push myself to do more.
How to find a place that is cheap enough to live, slower paced, good public transportation, and have mountains and hiking close by. San Jose is laid back to me (even if other don't think so), so it's fine for now, but don't see myself ending up here in the long run.
On a typical Friday night I am
Always different, whatever comes up.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a kinky side of me, so watch out! :P
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
You like to ponder about life, like to learn new things, enjoy being outdoors or getting out of the house.

If you're alternative, wacky, weird, geeky, goofy, nerdy, artistic, intelligent, have piercings, tattoos, or glasses.

I also tend to enjoy quiet and shy people as well, even if they aren't so active people. I don't like loud and obnoxious people in general, I like quite, laid back, easy-going, and down-to-earth types. Loud, highly social, and judgmental people, please stay away!!!

Don't message me if:
- You work for a big corporation and like it
- You would describe yourself as a pretty normal person
- picky
- flaky
- consider yourself to be a loud person
- wear tons of makeup or consider yourself high maintenance
- can't live without watching sports
- aren't open to letting people be who they want to be
- are pretty religious or don't like people who aren't religious