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32 M San Jose, CA

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 14
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well let's see.....I'm a very curious and explorative person who's a kid-at-heart and goofy around the right people, but I'm also very motivated with an entrepreneurial spirit and can be serious when I need to be .

I'm pretty alternative, unconventional, non-conforming, and a bit weird and out of the ordinary sometimes.

I love nature, very outdoorsy and want to live amongst nature someday in a log cabin in the redwoods.

I eat healthy and know a lot about nutrition. I can cook quite a few good tasting healthy dishes.

I'm a very hands-on person in every way. I love the outdoors, playing sports, dancing, tinkering, building, and everything else that involves working with my hands and feet. I really enjoy relationships that are physical, both with each other and doing things together. I can be pretty affectionate and love it back, and I love cuddling, massage, etc. etc.

When I don't know how to do something, I usually have a deep desire to learn how to do it rather than just say I can't do it. I do well with those who have that kind of attitude, life is more interesting that way. And because of that, I tend to be pretty self-sufficient and know a lot about a lot of things, and know how to do a lot of things. I'm also pretty good at sports and games because of it.

I'm the kind of person you'll find endless information and experiences you never experienced or thought about. I'm very non-judgmental and usually more willing to go along with whatever crazy thing you're interested in. There are so so many things I want to try or experience, but I often have a hard time finding people who are open minded or flexible enough to explore beyond their boxes they've created for themselves. To me, I get excitement from stretching my mind and ideas beyond my limits and comforts.

I like deep philosophical discussion, interests in what people want to do with their lives, and alternative ideas.

I won't except "reality" if there's a problem with it. Like I won't say "that's just how life is"... I see that it doesn't have to be that way and I try to move in another direction rather than settling, even if it seems impossible. I reject your reality and substitute my own!

I do best with those who are proactive, alternative, intelligent, fun, explorative, caring, respectful, and like hugs. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Exploring, learning, and trying to find beauty in everything, even where others might not see it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding the potential in people and everything.

Finding the nooks and crannies of places I go, I love to explore. I'm a very experienced hiker as well.

Looking past flaws and being non-judgmental, but I have yet to find someone who can offer that in return, which deeply disturbs me sometimes.

Doing things at heights. I love heights and have no fear doing anything at extreme heights.

Fitting inside of things. Yeah I'm rather flexible and can fold up amazingly small. Doesn't hurt that I'm the opposite of claustrophobic.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Physically, that I'm really skinny (genetics). Also older people always ask me what I'm studying in college because I still look like I'm 20. I seriously haven't aged a day in the past 10 years. I stay active, eat healthy, and play, so I stay young.

A ton of people tell me I seem very articulate, open, open minded, and intelligent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't find this section helps much so I'm leaving it out. Guess you'll just have to find out on a date, maybe to a movie, show, dinner, or concert? :P
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, food, air, shelter, hot showers, and nature. I'm a minimalist and don't need very much.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to fix problems with win-win solutions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Always different, whatever comes up. There's no "typical" with me usually.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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not admitting here
You should message me if
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- open minded or respectful of others' beliefs and interests
- proactive and don't let past baggage stop you
- caring, considerate, respectful, and responsible
- want to have adventures
- quiet or shy or laid back (I'm attracted to them). Loud people (those who like to be the center of attention) are too much for me usually).

Or you....
- love to cuddle and be affectionate (or really want to be)
I'm also open to finding cuddle buddies, I really love cuddling a lot! Just be open and honest about your expectations and I won't push any boundaries you don't want me to.

I'd ideally like a long-term relationship, but I do like relationships and have found that casual relationships can be really healthy for me, just as long as both people are honest about their feelings and long-term expectations. Meaning, if you're just looking for a casual relationship to be with someone, and we click, I'm ok with that and I'm very honest about my feelings and expectations.