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31 Jacksonville, FL Man


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  • Ages 21–36
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 5:15am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Indonesian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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ENFJ, if you're into that sort of thing.

I'm a lover, a fighter, a brewer, a drinker, a healer, a destroyer, a listener, and a rambler. I'm very open-minded, and I love new ideas. One of my biggest strengths is that I don't lie. It isn't that I can't, but that I just don't believe in it. Honesty and openness are a big part of who I am, so if you're the deceitful type, don't bother messaging me. I've got no time for people who can't say what they want truthfully.

Also, apparently, I'm "more" of just about everything. Click that Personality tab up there and see what I mean. I even surprised myself. I disagree with that B.S. about me being less romantic though. I am all ABOUT the romance.

I'm also attracted to talented bartenders.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently, I'm doing the working-guy thing, but that's not all I have going on. On the weekends, I'm a full-contact, hard-hitting, gut-slamming fighter (see photos of armored warrior). Beyond that, I'm planning to do something much bigger with my life. I can make some of the finest beer you've ever had, and I hope to be able to produce it commercially. That is, of course, an exceptionally difficult accomplishment. I do hope to run a business someday, whether it's a brewery or some other kind of creative endeavor.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
As I said, I make fantastic beer (I've won the medals to prove it!). I do my best to come up with the most off-the-wall stuff for it too. I started by making the classic styles, and these are what win the medals in general. I also really enjoy making the odd ones: chocolate-coffee stouts, chocolate peanut butter porters, sweet-potato browns, lemon wheats, pecan pie browns, and other silly things like that. I focus lately on the classic styles to beef up my resume with some medals. I'm not really in it for the glory (well, not yet, anyway -- there's a bigger reason for the medals).

While abroad, I learned to carve wooden masks, but I'd hardly say I'm "really good" at it. I'm hoping to be able to carve up some cool gargoyle heads to use as covers for some beer taps.

I'm a great fighter, if I do say so myself. I've been fighting for several years now. My very favorite compliment I was ever given for my fighting was, "You hit like a dump truck wrapped in skyscrapers!"

I made my own armor, and I've taught others how to make theirs as well. I enjoy working on it and then getting to go out and actually use it! Recently, I've begun taking commissions on armor building, and I really want to expand my repertoire to include some biker gear and interesting adult-oriented leather apparel. I'm not there yet, but I'd like to get there soon.

And, I'm sure there are a few other excellent qualities, which I imagine would make fine topics of discussion!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Most likely, it's the hair. A tall, broad guy with long, dark, ringleted hair is a bit of an anomaly, I've found. I'm very fond of my hair. The photo of me with short hair is, fortunately, a thing of the past, and I hope it never returns.

Otherwise, it's maybe my size. I consider myself to be pretty well in shape (you end up being that way when you fight like I do), but I'm still tall and built broadly. I rather enjoy it, but some folks are intimidated by me (I'm a big cuddly lug anyway).

Oh, also the armor, but that's only sometimes!

What people don't generally seem to notice first are the eyes, but I think they're pretty neat myself. I have central heterochromia, which means that I have multiple eye colors within each iris. Mine, actually, contain all standard eye colors in layers, and depending on when you look, some colors are more prominent than others.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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That's a boatload of things to put in this little box! Ok, to get it out of the way, I DO like books, but I can't just devour them like some folks. So, more often, I find that a book provides less entertainment per minute than some other things. Thus, I don't read a whole lot, but I HAVE read a few things all along. I'm currently thumbing through a few books on zymurgy, polyamory, and business management. I also spend a good bit of time researching my present interests on forums. If you like it, there's a forum for it! Lots of reading.

Edit: As I noticed, people appear to give judgments of you based on the books you say you like. For those people, I rather enjoyed The Time Machine, Candide, most anything by George Orwell. I like Twain, and I think Homer was actually a god. I think Beowulf is one of the finest pieces ever written.

Movies... Well, years ago, I'd have told you 300 and V for Vendetta, but I think I've moved a little beyond that era of life. I still like those films though, but I don't think they're "me" anymore. Now? Not sure. I enjoy films as I see them, but a "favorite" isn't really something I do with films. I like the types that make you think hard - the kind that causes you to have a discussion that lasts from the moment you finish it until an hour or two has passed. Good films, those! Oh, I've also been told that I look just like Thorin Oakenshield, the leader dwarf in the new Hobbit film.

In the way of music, I'm a rocker. I have a fondness for most anything with an electric guitar in it. I like metal (80s and modern - wildly different, eh?), hard rock, prog rock, classic rock, rock & roll, etcetera. I also like Irish-American drinking songs quite a bit. I think one of the best places in life is listening to live blues on a cool night with a fantastic beer in one hand. And, I can also find something I like about most everything else out there.

I like most all foods. Good food though. I don't need vast quantities of crap. I'll take a smaller bit of something absolutely breathtaking over that any day. Also, my motto for it has generally been, "If it tastes good and it won't kill me, I'll try it once."
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Comfortable living and the creature comforts that go with that, beer (and making it), friends, lovers, fighting (for fun, never anger), and good music. That probably sums it up.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future business, my next beer recipe, my armor, sex (c'mon, don't you?), and my motorcycle, Lillith (oh, you must see her! Beautiful!). Lillith, the mythological character, embodies much of what I'm looking for in a partner. But, unlike Adam, I would never consider her submissive to me. She is my equal.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This depends entirely on the week. It's usually always different. Sometimes, I go out with a sweet person or friends (or both). Sometimes, I stay in and build armor. Sometimes, I'm making a batch of beer. Sometimes, I sit about lazily and play video games or something. Whatever it is, I have fun with it, and I try to do it with others as often as possible.

I suppose, If I'm lucky, I'm spending it getting to know you better. People are fantastic, and friends of all levels can't be overvalued.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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See, this is the thing: there really isn't any question that I wouldn't answer honestly to a person I like. So, you could likely ask me just about anything directly (awkwardness be damned), and if I like you, I'll answer you.

I often pretend I have a badass soundtrack playing behind me as I'm walking along. Also, I sometimes pretend that I have the superpower allowing me to change red lights to green before I get to them.

When I fight, I pretend that I have the strength of Sauron in the first Lord of the Rings film when he took to the battlefield and smashed those soldiers about like ragdolls. I haven't managed to get that same effect yet, but... I pretend that I could, if I wanted to.
You should message me if
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If you're looking for a fun person to hang around with, short-term dating (with possibility of longer-term, maybe), or simple friendship. I removed "casual sex" from the list. Honestly, it just doesn't interest me now. Sex can be had with friends and lovers, but I just don't care enough about strangers or new acquaintances to bother with it. I'm pretty easy-going, and I like to let things occur organically. I'm pretty open to talking about everything without boundaries.

If you're interested in my fighting stuff or brewing, you can message me about that too, if you like! And, if you're around me long enough, you'll probably get free beer.

Oh, and here's a thing: