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fanta1

50 F Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Aug 7
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I have a nordic heritage and a latin soul. I’m from the Michigan and although I’ve been in NYC for 14 years I've held onto my Midwestern manners. The diversity that is NYC suits me (people, food, culture, unidentified smells). I’m a freelance designer and teacher and enjoy the variety this type of work brings. Its great taking the subway after everyone has gone to work and a treat to see a movie in the middle of the day. I love independent film and music, being independent and intimate (I do think the two can go together). I’m a stacker but do get to house cleaning by the end of the week. I’m addicted to the NY Times crossword puzzle (it runs in the family–there have been a few ripped puzzles in my past) and love to read. I’m game, playful, full of it (at times), seriously funny, rigorous, tenacious, loquacious, and like couscous.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm traveling more than I have for a while–this year Scotland, Costa Rica and Cambodia. I have a place upstate and spend a lot of time there especially in the spring and summer months. Let's see...cooking, reading, biking, walking my dog, exploring, taking photographs, painting, cross country skiing, I just joined the gym so...soon to be working out!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding a deal. Telling a good story. Asking questions. Listening and being a loyal friend. Going with the flow but navigating the boat. Taking constructive criticism. Laughing at myself. Working in teams. Working independently. Being open to new experiences. Challenging myself. Oh and... procrastinating.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile. My eyes. My energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books–Middlesex by Jeffery Eugenides, Persuasion and Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen, Devil in the White City by Erik Larson...its tough to choose! MOVIES!!! so many...this year loved "The Sessions" and "Amour" also "Silver Lining Playbook". Directors–All of Michael Haneke, Jia Zhangke, Wong Kar Wai, Paul Thomas Anderson, Frank Capra, Preston Sturges...too many. MUSIC–new, old, blues, funk, r&b, – no genre is off limits. Al Green is on my top ten along with Miles Davis (pre fusion). Going to see Freakwater tomorrow. Feist, Bowie, Led Zeppelin, Louis Armstrong, Ella, Emiliana Torrini...Debussey...FOOD Italian, Spanish, spicey, savory–yummy...all. Love to cook too. Have just learned to make gnocchi from my lovely Italian friend.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A body of water to swim in. Toast. Sunshine. Air travel. Family. Friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to balance work and pleasure while remaining in the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually at home relaxing or with good friends, eating out or seeing a movie–usually keeping it low key. Weeks are long and my big night out is generally Saturday unless there is something specific I don't want to miss Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I sometimes wear socks two days in a row (when laundry is dirty...not usually!).
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 47–59
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
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You are looking for companionship, are game to try new things and would like someone who has a similar spirit. Smart and smart alecs are OKAY with me!