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  • Ages 32-45
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Last online
Yesterday – 8:30pm
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Buddhism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a kind and passionate man, driven and sensitive, always cultivating that which makes things beautiful.
What I’m doing with my life
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It started in the cradle of Europe. I feel incredibly fortunate that my family -- a deeply connected, large tribe of abundant love and wisdom -- opened the doors for me to find roots far more west than I ever imagined.

After Zurich, I moved to New York, and found my way via Santa Fe and Seattle to San Francisco.

I feel home here on the West Coast as I do in Switzerland, and so I lovehate the nonstop flight between the two.

In the growing years of hard work as a doctor in integrative medicine I have discovered my true mission: expressing my passionate self in a world of healing that is embedded in amazing complexities of science and a profound human experience.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dishing up some delightful food, hiking all the way to the top, parking into insanely small spaces, taming unpredictable dogs, catching falling things off the table, having mastered one piano piece by Chopin and not finding time to practice another one.

I absolutely love aesthetics, space and light; I get very passionate when I recognize and experience creative talent and meticulous taste.

It's a bit of a conundrum: Although living and surrounding myself with a creative culture is meaningful and gratifying to me, I wouldn't claim to be an artist myself. Never, though, would I define myself as a mere consumer of art. Experiencing any form of art for me is an intimate, interactive, and lastly, creative process of negotiating and navigating emotions. I think.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, and that I am much more lighthearted than the seriousness I seem to portray here.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: I love textured, rich and poetic screens: Pina by Wenders, anything Almodovar and Wes Anderson.
One of my all-time favorites: The Unbearable Lightness of Being, both book and film by Kundera. Wings of Desire by Wim Wenders.
Lost Souls, Boyhood, Delicatessen, Down by Law, Pan's Labyrinth, Lost in Translation, Stranger than Fiction, Winter's Bone, The Secretary, Sex and Lucia, Vicky Christina Barcelona, Life Aquatic. City of God. Drei. Drive. Un Prophete. Cinema Paradiso, Il Postino.
Bagdad Cafe I saw eons ago in Switzerland, which was instrumental in my desire to move to the west.

Music: Sophie Hunger, Radiohead, Devotchka, Feist and Fink, Grace Woodroofe, Seu Jorge. Well-mixed electronica, but I have no names to list with one notable exception: Random Rab.
Rachmaninov, Chopin, Maria Callas, Anne Sophie Mutter, Gabriela Montero, Maria Pires.
Streams such as KCRW, KEXP,

Food: so much exquisitely prepared slow foods in this town: Mission Eatery, Contigo, Foreign Cinema, Range, and then across to Amnesia for a random and quirky musical gig. Udupi Palace. Sushi: Ichi, Koo', and Wako!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family,
my green card,
my swiss passport,
a birds-eye perspective,
and a dream of connecting worlds.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Besides doing much research on finding better ways to help very sick people recover, I consider myself part of the movement to bring more beauty into this world; it can be done on a grand scale, and it can be done by one single breath.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner with friends. Quiet night. I love great music both live and dance. I've mellowed quite a bit, so I'm a bit over highly crowded places with long wait lines, though, and so smaller venues with cultural surprises are what gets me excited.