I'm listed as bi on here, but in "real life" I identify as queer as I don't think sex or gender only has 2 options, and I have been attracted to various points on the rainbow spectrum from Cis men to Trans women to non-binary folks in between. I'm open to dating/meeting any gender, but I'm particularly interested in other queers at the moment, so "bi" is the best option OKC gives me.
I also identify as a fierce femme. I don't always spend 2 hours getting ready by any means, but I'm a bit of a girly-girl at times when it comes to hair, makeup, and nails.
I really enjoy educating people about sexuality, gender, sexual health, and sexual wellness, but that is my day job so sometimes I feel like "sex-talk" has become "work-talk" and it's de-sexualized sex for me. Ha, I have no idea if that makes sense, but needless to say, I'm horrible at sexting and dirty talk because my mind goes clinical and logic-brain steps in.
I don't ever want to get married, and I won't leave my partner for you. Just putting that out there. You're not going to "fix" me (I fixed myself and that's why I am this way!) and there isn't a "the one" out there that will make me stop my poly ways and go monogamous. If you idealize monogamy and contact me hoping I will convert, you will be sorrily mistaken. #SorryNotSorry
I'm interested in meeting as many cool people as physically possible as well as networking with other poly/ feminist/ artist/ queer/ knitter/ hooper / dancer/ and/or creative folks. It doesn't necessarily mean I'm interested in anything more than friendship, but I do feel like the best friendships I've ever had have ended up being more eventually (my partner and I were best friends for 2 years before we started dating and we've been dating for almost 4 years now). I'm intrigued by the idea of dating a couple, though I can be picky enough when it comes to one person, I'm highly dubious that I'll find 2 people in a couple that I like enough to date both. BUT it's not off the table.
I'm opinionated and strong-willed, but I'm not up in people's faces about it, so people rarely know me as that kind of person. :} I sometimes surprise people with my passionate viewpoints. That being said, if you don't like feminists or activists, stop reading now. I have very strong feelings about women's rights, LGBTQ rights, and racism. If you don't like mouthy women with strong feelings about the world, there's the door! :)