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31 / F / straight / Single
San Francisco, California
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 5' 5" (1.65m).
- Body Type
- A little extra
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
- Smokes
- When drinking
- Drinks
- Sometimes
- Drugs
- —
- Religion
- Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
- Sign
- Gemini but it doesn’t matter
- Education
- Graduated from law school
- Job
- Law / Legal Services
- Income
- Rather not say
- Kids
- —
- Pets
- Likes dogs and Likes cats
- Languages
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am passionate, positive, and cynically idealistic.
My Self-Summary
I have a crazy variety of awesome hobbies (enough that they could probably be a full time job). They include surfing, gardening, cooking, being crafty on a rainy day, hiking, international travel and going to see live music. Getting outside is a BIG priority. I have recently started to really enjoy board games, though mostly word ones like Scrabble and Apples-to-Apples (strategy is not my strong suit).
I can take certain things very seriously, like air pollution, while still allowing other things, like remembering to put bills in the mailbox, slip by unnoticed. I am a committed activist and take participating in this world seriously.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to learn how to be in two places at once (one being a beautiful beach, mountain, or sidewalk in a interesting city and the other being the rest of "life" including going to my day-job, seeing my friends and family, vacuuming under my couch, and sleeping).
Day Job: I am a l-a-w-y-e-r (shhhhhh......). Don't hate me, I like to think of myself as a lawyer who hates lawyers. smile.
I theoretically work to make the planet a more livable place!
Non Jobs:
When not "lawyering" I get out and play as much as possible in this wonderful world. The meaning of life is living it! I have been surfing for a couple of years now and like to spend as much time as I can doing that.
I’m really good at
Blurting out awkward things that I will wince about later on in the day. I do this a minimum of twice a day.
I fortunately seem to be reasonably good at making friends, whether it is with the guy that works at the bodega around the corner, the bus driver taking me to some place in a foreign country, or my boss. I have a warm personality that allows most people to feel comfortable around me quickly.
The first things people usually notice about me
-my funky orange or blue glasses
-that I am always the first one to jump into a debate, even if I know better!
-my welcoming way of asking people about their lives and interests
-(if you are at my apartment) that my houseplants are likely to take over my life any day now
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Written Words (how about ones I have recently read and enjoyed instead): The Hummingbird's Daughter, The Adventures of Cavalier and Clay, Water for Elephants, the latest Surfers Journal, my best friend's hilarious blog, Michael Pollan books or other food politics stuff, the NYTimes. I just moved from Berkeley to SF and am actually missing the required reading time I got on BART.
Media- I am not a huge movie or tv watcher. I do have a silly and insane love for surf films (particularly locally made films about waves I have visited, or those with great soundtracks and little in the way of dumb surfer talk!). I also have an embarrassing love for period films about England (hot, I know. . . come on, Jane Austen on the big screen doesn't do it for you??). I am an avid KQED listener, pledge drives and all. BBC World, World Affairs Forum, "Wait, Wait, Don't Tell Me!!!", and This American Life.
Tunes- genres include indie rock, reggae, folk, alt-country, latin, "rock." My recent favs are Ryan Adams (no, not Brian, no Summer of '69 for me), Xavier Rudd (aww.. he sings about saving the planet, sure way to my heart) and Rodrigo y Gabriela.
Yum- I love to cook, and have lots of things that I love to make for myself or others. Getting down to the basics: artichokes, mangoes, any fruit in its absolute prime of the season, butternut squash. I am a life-long vegetarian, but I won't preach to you about it (unless you ask me to). I have a soft spot in my heart for Mexican and Indian Food in particular.
The six things I could never do without
family
music to dance to
faith that we can make the world a better place
random smiles from strangers
unvisited places
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-How amazing it is that the worms and microbes living in my compost heap seem to convert so much matter in so little time
-Wait, the American people really believe [fill in today's random poll results like "offshore drilling will reduce gas prices this week" or "margarine is good for you!"]???? Who are these people, can this bubble I live in really be that impervious???
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately I have been going for a swim at the Dolphin Club after work on Fridays and then sticking around for beers with the younger crowd there or at the South End. That is if I don't get eaten by a sea lion first, which has suddenly become a reality I hadn't previously considered.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
You should message me if
-You spend hours at your desk remembering the smells of the mangoes on your last vacation, and then you start planning your next.
-You like having someone around who will challenge your wacky ideas, but defend those ideas later on in different company.
-You can teach me new words or how to improve my pop-up